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Can anyone help me with year on year care home cost increases? Not sure if this is normal

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RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 24/05/2021 15:56

Hi, dm’s dementia is at the point where 3 carers’ visits a day isn’t enough. Her behaviour recently meant neighbours called the police, who called an ambulance and she’s been taken to a care home (that we previously looked round) for 3 weeks respite. We were looking into her staying there long term/forever however the contact states a 5.9% increase each year. This has really scared us as costs will nearly double over 10/11 years of this. She’s relatively young (76) and physically pretty healthy so I think we need to be aware she could be there for 20 years plus.
Is this year on year increase normal? Thank you if anyone can help with this.

So as not to ‘drip feed’ she also has a borderline personality diagnosis which has historically included psychotic episodes which she has been hospitalised for a no of times prior to the dementia diagnosis. I was hoping to apply for continuing healthcare funding but the more I read about this the more pessimistic I feel.

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threeteenstaximum · 20/06/2021 16:36

Sorry auto incorrect I meant PRIVATE funding not probate funding!

threeteenstaximum · 20/06/2021 16:36

Yes they can discharge if you said she is self funding and you would arrange a probate paid placement for her. It's great that you feel you are getting somewhere for a discharge to assess / intermediate funding but that is discretionary if they feel she had re-enablement (rehab) potential and decided by the discharge team . Because of COVID you may get somewhere you wouldn't usually have because systems aren't working same way as usual.

But In terms of uplift in fees each year those are kinda steep but it is about contract you signed when you placed her. Don't be stressed by what your LA will do once her funds deplete as they will assess at the time and try their best not to move her unless they think placement is terribly over priced for the care she is receiving

You nor they can predict that
So let her enjoy where she is and take it from when they are involved that they will do their best

Intercity225 · 20/06/2021 15:14

No, if the social needs arise from the primary medical problem, then that CCG should pay for it all. Don’t have the CCG paying for the medical needs, and the local authority the social needs - because DM will end up with a financial assessment and paying for her social care, if she has more than £23,250 in assets.

My DD is in a care home, where she gets 1:1 care all her waking hours - that’s meals, bathing, social activities, etc; because she has a medical condition and could die at any time. There is also medical care onsite, which she needs on occasion. It’s all funded by continuing health care.

RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 20/06/2021 13:27

Hi, just thought I'd give an update here. On the advice of our financial advisor we put in a complaint to the hospital, and they have agreed that discharge wasn't completed properly, and that dm's care should be paid for by the NHS until the CHC checklist is complete. This looks like approx 10 weeks of care that it's looking likely we will get back dated to return to dm's estate, which is great news, and once we have the checklist completed we will know a bit more about what sort of budget to look at. Apparantly due to the cross over in terms of which council is responsible, we've now been told that one authority will look after her social care needs, and the other one her health/medical needs.

We're still a bit confused about it all, and it's taking lots of phone calls, letters, emails etc., but I do feel like we're getting closer to getting the support and advice to help us through this time.

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earsup · 06/06/2021 20:57

my late aunt spent almost 20 years in a care home....took over 500k in fees from her savings....when she died there was 46k left and the house which we inherited....fees initially were about 800 a month and then finally almost 1000 a week !

AChickenCalledDaal · 06/06/2021 20:51

I believe the six weeks funded care home placement is a Covid related thing. There is funding available to get people out of hospital on a "discharge to assess" basis, in order to free up hospital beds. The cost of the care home is met for that period. My father benefited from it earlier this year.

Intercity225 · 06/06/2021 20:39

Unfortunately, dm's house is in one council area, and her gp another, and currently both are saying it's the other one's responsibility.

We have been through this, except it was DD. I wrote about this to the Sec. of State for Health, who told me it was under NHS England. It is the responsibility of the council where she is ordinarily resident - ie where her house is and what she regards as home.

CovoidOfAllHumanity · 28/05/2021 23:39

Every day's a school day
I never heard of 6 weeks free in a care home

You can get 6 weeks free 'reablement' care package at home for free via the NHS but it's not a right it's at their discretion if they feel you have the potential to be 'reabled' Any dementia diagnosis or likely need for permanent care usually invalidates that.

There are sometimes admission prevention schemes like 'discharge to assess' where they send people to a care home for 'assessment' instead of admitting them. Maybe it's something like that but again I would think it would be less a right and more a possibility.

I guess I hadn't been clear that the hospital had arranged the placement. If that's the case and she didn't have a choice then it does seem very unfair she would have to pay. If it's arranged by the hospital and not the LA then the CCG are the people you need to get to pay. I would try to get onto the hospital discharge planning dept. If they arranged the placement then they should have sorted the finances.

Wilma55 · 28/05/2021 16:54

You can take out an insurance policy where you pay a set amount and they cover fees. Bit of a gamble but at least it's a fixed cost.

RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 28/05/2021 16:51

Just realised that I wasn't v clear in my op that the ambulance went to a and e where she spent a night before being discharged to the home.

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RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 28/05/2021 16:50

Just an update in case it helps anyone else. We've found out that dm shouldn't have been discharged from a and e without an nhs assessment, and apparently if they felt she couldn't go home (which is what we were told), they should have funded the first 6 weeks of her care. We're trying to get this assessment done now and also find out why it wasn't at the time. Unfortunately, dm's house is in one council area, and her gp another, and currently both are saying it's the other one's responsibility. We are hopeful we can get to the bottom of this though, and maybe get a refund for the respite she's already paid for.

They should also help us find a suitable home that meets her needs and give us an idea of what the budget for this will be when her assets are spent.

Thank you for all the help I got here.

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RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 26/05/2021 20:56

Thanks @MereDintofPandiculation will try and find it. Think a long term support thread will definitely be useful here

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MereDintofPandiculation · 26/05/2021 09:48

I hope I haven’t offended anyone with this post, it’s just quite nice to get it all out. Don’t worry, we’ve all experienced the realities of care. Pop over to the Cockroach Cafe and see if you can squeeze on to the Bad Daughters’ Bench. Be warned, it’s a bit full.

alexdgr8 · 25/05/2021 23:16

OP, have you thought of having live-in care.
why not contact a few agencies, eg bluebird, and get some estimates.
if your mother was self-funding in a care home, and her money was exhausted, then the council would have to fund her.
but they might well move her to a cheaper place, or somewhere they have negotiated a better deal with.
you would not have to pay. there is no responsibility to do so. legally.

alexdgr8 · 25/05/2021 23:13

@motogogo

Get her assessed for nhs continuing care, not means tested. If she is unable to live independently due to her medical condition you have a good case
it is extremely difficult to get continuing healthcare funding. even people disabled with parkinsons are rejected. there are vast numbers of people who are unable to live independently because of a medical condition who do not get it. what should be and what is are two different things. you need to prove a high need of nursing care, not just supervision or personal care/hygiene. if you want to pursue it, i suggest you get an independent expert nurse and pay for her assessment/ advocacy.
Mxflamingnoravera · 25/05/2021 23:06

I have not read the full thread... but, my then 80 year old mother was diagnosed with dementia (mixed) about two and a half years ago. I got in touch with a financial adviser who specialises in elderly people's advice.

My mum has a generous pension from being a teacher and savings of around £400k. We had to move her into a care home and together with the adviser I bought an annuity to pay for her care. If she lasts five years, it will have paid for itself and any longer and we will in effect have made a return on it. Obviously if she dies in the next 18 months there will be a loss but frankly, knowing that her fees are covered for the rest of her life is very helpful. We used about half her savings to buy the annuity the rest has been invested in moderate risk stocks and shares, so far it has grown and her savings are increasing.

My advice would be to talk to a chartered financial adviser who has the elderly financial planning qualification and see what they suggest- you may not find that as much needs to go in care home fees as you think, especially as she is still quite young.

This stuff is awful to have to take on, but you have a duty with POA to try to maximise the benefit for her. Frankly I'd be a wreck if the fees were not taken care of.

RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 25/05/2021 22:06

I know this site gets shit for aibu etc but I got great support as a new parent and knew I’d get it for this too. I haven’t been disappointed Flowers

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RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 25/05/2021 22:00

Thank you. I’m not sure about years and years ago (mh issues since before I was born) but as far as I’m aware she’s been kept in before under deprivation of Liberty, but usually just the threat of it has been enough to make her agree to a hospital stay without it being used, if that makes sense. If she had resisted more they might have used more powers which could be helpful now(!).

I hear what you’re all saying about life expectancy, and it sounds so fucking awful to say, but it’s actually a bit of a comfort to know she most likely won’t have to live like this for decades (especially if once the money runs out the care might not be optimum). I hope that doesn’t make me sound heartless, in fact it’s quite the opposite Sad

She does have a reasonable amount of assets, and I’ve been worried that local authority won’t tell us anything until money has run out, and I can’t live for 4 years with that worry hanging over me. Great advice to contact la now - we will do this straight away. I need answers, and at the moment I just have loads of questions. Thank you all for helping me to move forward practically. At least I feel like I’m doing something to help, even if I can’t make her better and get my mum back (I know that’s impossible and in a way some grieving stages have already started happening, which in a way I have to see the positive in: at least I get to sort the shit out over a longer period of time).

I hope I haven’t offended anyone with this post, it’s just quite nice to get it all out.

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sunmoonstarry · 25/05/2021 21:16

Good shout re the 117 as once you're on it it's difficult for them to take it away!

hatgirl · 25/05/2021 21:15

Stop trying to sort this out yourself.

Tomorrow morning ring the local authority your mum lives in and request a Care Act Assessment.

If at any stage anyone tries to fob you off because she is a 'self funder' continue to insist that she is entitled to an assessment.

As part of this assessment they will determine what level of care she needs and if she is eligible for fully funded continuing healthcare or a funded nursing contribution.

They should also assist you with finding a care home if that is the right option, although some Local Authorities are more helpful with this than others.

She only has to self fund until her finances drop to £23500. After that she will pay on a sliding scale downwards.

If the care home she/you choose is more expensive than the LA will pay when she drops below the threshold you will have 3 options.

  1. Appeal to the LA to pay the higher rate as moving her would be detrimental - depending on how unwell she is this does have a good chance of success.
  1. Someone else in the family pays the difference between what the LA will pay and what the care home wants (this is called a 3rd party top up)
  1. Move her to somewhere within local authority rates if she can tolerate the move.

I'm afraid though I do have to echo other posters. Dementia is a terminal disease and once it is severe enough to be diagnosed people don't tend to live with it for lots and lots of years, no matter how physically healthy they are to begin with.

My advice as always in these situations is to use your mums money to pay for the best care she can afford.

CovoidOfAllHumanity · 25/05/2021 20:59

Do look into whether she has ever been detained under S3. You can ask the mental health act administrator at the hospital where you think she may have been detained. If you have ever been detained under S3 you have a right to free aftercare (S117) which is non means tested and is in perpetuity unless you are separately discharged from S117 and the onus is on the detaining authority to show that.

Not many people know about it but a number of people have managed to get free care in old age via a historic S117 entitlement so you may get lucky.
It's one whole hell of a lot easier to prove entitlement than CHC which is subjective. It's just were you ever detained under S3. If you were you have S117 funding entitlement.

RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 25/05/2021 17:48

Thanks all. I’m trying to get written records of the mental health side as well as the dementia stuff as it is so complex. Lots of advice for me on this thread, and sorry for others who have been/are going through this with loved ones. I wouldn’t wish it on anybody. I’m looking at cheaper care homes but am being honest about her needs. We are also looking at getting advice from an independent financial advisor and I will look at any charities that can provide support too. I feel very lucky to have siblings as we are helping each other navigate this.

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Qwqqtttr · 25/05/2021 15:43

Although I don’t dispute sunmoonstarry’s experience, DM should be assessed for CHC before being means tested to fund her own care.
The criteria for getting CHC are very odd. If you can convince CHC she has severe needs in at least two areas she should be entitled to receive it. Easier said than done,I know.

sunmoonstarry · 25/05/2021 08:37

Don't bother with trying for CHC funding now - there's no way she'll get it based on what you've said. I know this from working as a SW - still fighting a case for it for a client on death's door.

If you place her and her funds run down to the £23250 threshold a contact the local authority for a self-funding pick-up. They will assess her and if she's eligible to be in a care home (you wouldn't believes the amount of people who wouldn't be !) then they will pick up funding.... however they will only fund best value so may want to move her somewhere cheaper. You'd have to make a case for her best interests to stay.

It's wise to place her somewhere where they also place local authority funded people to start with or pick somewhere not too extortionate.

RuddyHellItsSoftCell · 25/05/2021 08:27

Me and my brother have lpa jointly and severally for both health and finances. It was hard to get as dm was v mistrustful that we were trying to fleece her and we also had to get the hospital at the time to assess her as having capacity, but I’m so glad we have it now.
We will be talking to the care home manager today. She has already helped people get the continuing healthcare funding so I think she’ll be able to help us with that.

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