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How to get £20 weekly shopping delivery for elderly MIL?

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KavvLar · 25/10/2020 00:51

MIL is elderly and taken a real dip since lockdown started, both physically and mentally. She lives alone.

DH is her only local family and although they don't get along (he has had yrs of therapy for his damaged childhood) we have been doing our best to look out for her and I'm trying to make it as easy on him as we can.

He has been doing her shopping but he doesn't drive, so it gets tricky. He wants to get her a weekly shopping delivery to her home, which he can then come and put away.

I thought this would be easier but she never wants more than £20-30 worth of goods in a week even including freezables, toiletries and cleaning etc. The weekly requirement is so that she could have fresh fruit and veg etc.

We'd be happy to pay a premium for this but I cannot find a supermarket that will accept a delivery order under £40. All I can think of is to have it fortnightly and then supplement in the middle week, but with the idea being to automate it a bit and take the pain out of it for him, I'm surprised I can't find a way to pay extra and have a smaller weekly delivery.

Am I missing a trick here, is there not a way to throw money at this? Any help gratefully received as for some reason this causes him the most stress and this way she can get exactly what she wants. Thanks in advance

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PoulePouletteEternellement · 25/10/2020 01:01

Goodness. Are you sure she's eating enough properly nutritious food if she's spending so little (including non food items)?

I would suggest a supermarket delivery every other week and a weekly veg box. (Can vouch for this working tremendously well so far, touch wood, etc.) Assuming she has a decent freezer for milk and bread.

Are there no other family members or a close friend who might go into her house every week? Just to make sure she isn't existing on scraps through a locked down winter.

SaltandPepperIt · 25/10/2020 01:01

The Co Op deliver in some areas a minimum of £15

Sycamoretrees · 25/10/2020 01:00

If your DH is going round to put it away, could you add some items for your self and he can take them away?

HettieHelvetica · 25/10/2020 01:00

I have a Tesco delivery saver, and that gives me the option to have baskets of less than the £40 minimum delivered at a surcharge. (Delivery should be "free" for passholders, so effectively you're paying for it twice).

Fradishes · 25/10/2020 00:59

Are there any smaller local shops that might deliver? The mini mart in opposite my grandmother’s sheltered accommodation in a small town happily delivered a weekly shop.

lurklemurkle · 25/10/2020 00:59

Do a fortnightly delivery from a supermarket with weekly fruit and veg from a delivery box?

Sparklykins · 25/10/2020 00:59

If you have Amazon prime you can use the prime now app to get Morrisons food. Minimum is £15 with £3.99 delivery charge. I know they don't cover everywhere yet though.

MarcelineMissouri · 25/10/2020 00:57

Tesco will still deliver orders under £40, you have to pay a £4 charge though.

How about a fortnightly delivery and then look into something like milk and more for a mid week top up?

AriettyHomily · 25/10/2020 00:57

Can you add it to your delivery and drop off?

SpinningWheelOfFortune · 25/10/2020 00:57

I think Iceland have only a £25 limit, they do fresh stuff too, not just freezer produce.

Itsagrandoldteam · 25/10/2020 00:56

Try Iceland, they sell most of the basics, they charge £2 for delivery, I don't think they have a minimum spend. If you spend over £35 it's free.

FredaFox · 25/10/2020 00:55

My mum lives alone and uses Tesco, it used to be min order of £25 a few years ago when it went up to £40
She buys things when on offer to bulk her order so toilet rolls, Christmas drinks recently
I think Morrison’s was less but might have changed since covid
Ocado etc are 60 I think