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Mother in home. What to do re house ?

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Grinchly · 01/07/2019 17:11

Hello

Mother, 88, with lots of chronic health issues ( heart failure, AF diabetes, etc as well as Alzheimer's ) is now in a care home.

This has been coming for some time. Was propped up at home with carer visits but no longer sustainable.

She's self funding. I have EPA and have ensured there's plenty of ready cash so no urgent need to sell the house.

My dilemma is: do I sell the house for her now and invest the proceeds (wibble) or wait perhaps till next Spring when Brexit things may be clearer? Or get tenants in?

It's in a desirable area and well maintained and should sell reasonably quickly. I've had it valued by three agents and also asked advice re letting to at least provide her some extra income.

They all recommend if letting, I replace the bathroom ( it is very bad) and maybe knock down wall between bathroom and separate loo to make it rentable. But that will cost several thousand K.

Solicitors have suggested I may need permission to do this from Court of Protection, and even to let it I should check with them.

My instinct is to leave it till next year, turn off water, arrange vacancy insurance and check every week when I visit.

But by then the economy and the housing market could have gone to hell in a handcart. Confused

What would you do?

Thanks in advance Flowers

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Grinchly · 04/07/2019 14:12

Hello againGrin

Council Tax sorted. Much to my surprise it's reduced to virtually nothing!

Am going for a fourth valuation, then it will be on the market Smile

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MereDintofPandiculation · 03/07/2019 21:57

Trivial in the bigger picture, but if it remains empty there may be Council Tax implications. Councils do anything from charge no Council tax on an empty property through to charging double.

CheddarGorgeous · 03/07/2019 12:35

Another voice warning you off letting the house. It's not for the amateur anymore and you probably have enough on your plate managing your mum's affairs as it is.

If it's a nice house in a desirable area what's stopping you from putting it on now to test the market? You aren't in a hurry to sell and you're not in a chain so you have a very favourable position.

Sorry about your mum.

LaundryIsADisease · 03/07/2019 12:09

Sell it.

Needmoresleep · 03/07/2019 12:06

I know.

She is very distrustful so could easily refuse. And no way would she understand the context.

Luckily the solicitor knows her so understood why I got nervous. (I felt like a
criminal telling a solicitor how to manipulate my 90 year old mother.) He felt the requirement was met by him 'explaining' the paperwork to my mother and leaving the carer to decide the best time to grab a signature. (DM hates being asked to sign as she is forgetting how to write. She may not have been willing to do so in front of a stranger.)

If the CoP don't understand how disabling dementia is, what hope have we. Four years ago I had to get their permission to act for her in some property litigation, so they already have GP paperwork etc that confirms she does not have capacity.

I have diverted the thread a bit with my ranting. But CoP are slow. Unfortunately my mums affairs are seriously complicated, and I would love to simplify them, but can't stomach going through CoP again, so may have to wait for probate. She may well live another decade. And will struggle for liquidity if any of the proposed 'mansion' taxes are introduced.

Grace212 · 03/07/2019 11:50

I don't understand how or why the signature of a person who doesn't have capacity is even deemed useful?

Needmoresleep · 03/07/2019 11:47

I really dont know if you need permission to sell. My solicitor says not (my late dad bought several rental properties which really ought to be sold) but the Land Registry makes the decisions and could require you to have CoP permission.

In our case we bought a flat near my mums and it made sense to borrow money from her rather than take out a mortgage. We deliberately did everything above board. The loan was secured against the property and the interest rate was fixed midway between what she was getting and what we would pay. It was also repayable on demand, so apparently more flexible than a long term bond.

We decided to repay, in part to increase her liquidity but also in case we need to remortgage quickly to pay IHT.

Blow me. The Land Registry want CoP permission to repay the money and lift the charge (all done, like the original loan through a solicitor). The argument is simple. The old lady should have her money in a more liquid form. But the forms and phone guidance were unintelligible. We engaged a trusted and efficient solicitor but despite his regular reminders we are 9 months and counting. And this is just a paper application. I would hate to have to do something more complicated.

Luckily there is no urgency. I don't mind the Land Registry getting more fussy. A house is usually a persons major asset, and I am sure there have been a few instances where a sale was not in a persons best interest. However their tightening up plus the snail like pace of the CoP is a difficult combination.

Grinchly · 03/07/2019 11:04

Ooh yes, have got three agents in already. Consensus was only do the work if thinking of letting.
Valuations varied by almost 10% Confused
Sellers' market for that type of property in that area currently.

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Grinchly · 03/07/2019 10:59

This is really helping to crystalllise my thinking.

@Needmoresleep, do you mean it could take 12 months for OPG to give permission to sell? 😱 Or was this caused because they were only approached late in the day? I have experienced their inefficiency handling my father's affairs but 12 months is insane! Your insights are incredibly useful, thank you.

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Needmoresleep · 03/07/2019 10:15

Checking whether you need CoP permission is a good idea. However (another T shirt!) its not OPG, but rather the Land Registry who may demand to see CoP permission.

Once you decide to sell I would instruct a solicitor immediately and ask them to check. The LR has become a lot more fussy recently so I/my solicitor got caught out by a late demand. The CoP is possibly the slowest Government organisation of all time. Its a simple transaction yet we are almost 12 months in, and no word. My private theory is they are hoping some cases will resolve themselves by the person dying. They did however issue a strange request that the solicitor serve papers on my mother and get her signature. DM is 10 years into dementia and cant always remember how to sign her name and her willingness to do anything depends on her mood. (No chance of her understanding the document.) I endered up having to prep the solicitor on how to manage her mood. (Take in a packet of custard creams, then as she tucks in, whip out the document and pen.)

You might also get four sets of agents in now. Quiz each of them on the market and what work they think needs doing. Then you have a good idea who to instruct when you are ready. Dont forget to ask them what commission they would charge.

HappyHammy · 03/07/2019 09:38

I would sell the house now. It will save a lot of anxiety in the future. It might be worth checking with the OPG if need permission from the CoP.
Sorry to hear about your mum.

Orchardgreen · 02/07/2019 23:41

First, get LPA. Better than EPA.

Sell the house, then you won’t have the hassle/worry when your mother dies. I’ve got the t-shirt!

Grace212 · 02/07/2019 23:30

I still think sell it

Just doesn’t seem worth doing it any other way

Grinchly · 02/07/2019 22:16

Hi King

No, the net income, taking all that into account would pay for about a week max, as I explained

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K1ng6K0ng629 · 02/07/2019 19:58

Renting out the property may not generate enough per month to pay for the care & you would need to deduct agents fees, maintenance repairs & it's lots of time & responsibility

I would suggest you speak to the care home about payments
Age Concern may also offer you some advice

It is difficult times ahead

Take care of yourself too

justasking111 · 02/07/2019 17:09

late 80`s lived till mid nineties. She died three weeks after the money ran out. Living in a home improved her health physically because she had such good care and was stimulated by the company she had there. She even imagined she was having an affair with an old boy there who we ironically also knew. They used to hide her when the old boys wife visited.

Grinchly · 02/07/2019 14:25

That's a useful perspective needmoresleep, thanks.

Justasking Shock I know this can happen but it's shocking to be confronted with the reality. How old was the person when they went into care?

I'm concerned about the potential for a house price crash next year too, given the current state of politics...

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Needmoresleep · 02/07/2019 14:03

Yes. It is a Tory proposal which is currently under consultation. There is strong resistance fromlandlord organisations, as it will make life very difficult. Corbyn's proposals are worse...lots worse.

Essentially you would lose the flexibility of fixed term contracts and being able to issue a S21 giving tenants 2 months notice to leave. Good for tenants as it would give them security of tenure, but potentially a real problem if you needed the flexibility of selling her property to pay care bills.

Honestly, and I wear the T shirt, there is not a lot of money in BTL anymore. Letting agents are often not great, there is a huge downside risk and potentially a lot of stress. Plus the CGT point I made before.

Property prices will fall if S21 changes or Corbyn come in. Unless you want to hold onto the property, I would sell. You need your energy for your mum.

justasking111 · 02/07/2019 13:38

My friends mum was like this when she went into care. The home were wonderful, however, £240K later she died. So be careful unless you have this kind of ready cash available the house may be needed.

Grinchly · 02/07/2019 13:38

Thanks everyone, and waves at the sandwich

Lots of differing views here, much of it reflecting my own thoughts.

I've already explored the vacant property insurance and got a quote that looks pretty reasonable. I will be visiting weekly.

I would employ agents if letting yet it still sounds a hell of a lot of work. I have limited free time as I work fulltime in a busy role.

My main responsibility is to act in her best interests; and it is tempting to get some extra income to offset the care home fees, (net rental income monthly would pay for a week's care or thereabouts) but I also do not want to land myself with a whole load of extra hassle and stress, because if I go under, she has no one else to sort anything. Neither would I want to do that to myself!

I'm speaking to an IFA on Weds from a firm I've used before to see what their perspective is.

Thanks to the person who mentioned changes to S 21 - that looks to be about eviction, am I right?

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Bluerussian · 02/07/2019 13:09

What MrsApplepants said.

Needmoresleep · 02/07/2019 13:04

My mother owns a lot of property which my dad bought as a retirement hobby. It has been a lot of work, both to get everything up to the standards modern renters require, and on going.

I would not advise anyone to go into BTL unless they have experience or have a good commercial brain and are reasonably assertive. I would especially not advise anyone to rent out property until we know what will happen with the current section 21 proposals. Nor unless the property is a good letting prospect (10 minutes walk to a station etc...)

FaerieQueene , are you a landlord?

TheFaerieQueene · 02/07/2019 12:18

I would consider renting it and getting an income to help pay for the care home.

Needmoresleep · 02/07/2019 12:03

Look at the tax implications if there might be liability for CGT.

If there has been a substantial gain you either sell it now as a primary, so tax exempt, residence. Or wait till after probate.

7to25 · 02/07/2019 09:01

I'm sorry that you have been left with this to deal with.
Your instincts may not be the easiest route. I recently paid through the nose for vacant insurance for a flat which had to be with a specialist insurer, so watch out for that.
If the agents agreed that the bathroom will need to be refurbished then it does need it. I find that they always want to let quickly, so they are probably right. Would that be easy to organise?
An occupied property is always easier especially over the winter. Your unoccupied insurance will require you to visit every week. Can you do that?
I think the worst advice is to let it as is for a lower rent. You are aiming for high quality tenants with high standards. Works for me.

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