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Hospital want to discharge - what do I do?

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MereDintofPandiculation · 01/12/2018 19:29

DF has had catastrophic decline over last couple of days, is non-ambulant, and has other symptoms not normal for him. He lives "independently", no carers coming in, no cleaner or help preparing meals. District nurse service OT on routine visit on Thursday decided he wasn't safe in home, couldn't contact GP, and therefore called ambulance, and he was admitted to hospital.

Despite the catastrophic decline, hospital are of the view that there's nothing wrong with him and wish to discharge home.

So can someone remind me of what I need to do, and give me the terms I need to ask for?

I know we need to ask for an assessment of his care needs before he's discharged - what do we need to ask for to get this? Also a CHC assessment (Continuing health care?) but if hospital say there's nothing wrong with him, this is a non-starter, surely? Someone on another thread says he needs a reablement/rehabilitation package, and this I think was what the OT was after.

What if the hospital suggest he goes into a nursing home/care home for rehab - is this likely to become his "forever home"? Is it a hidden trap, and something that should be resisted?

I'm thinking of ringing the OT and telling her hospital want to discharge home - she'll go ape-shit. Is there any reason why I shouldn't ring her?

I'm also thinking of asking his GP for advice (DF has given them permission to speak to me)

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thesandwich · 01/12/2018 21:02

I would contact the ot and gp. There should be a plan for discharge - possibly involving hospital social worker. Good luck dint. Hospital won’t know how your df was before his admission.
Rehab could be a good option- care to help him regain his mobility etc. It doesn’t mean forever- check what physio etc is provided.

Grace212 · 01/12/2018 20:59

hi Dint

ring the OT for sure, you need forces on your side.

do you already have contact with Adult Social Services? If not, I would give them a ring - might have to be Monday - and make them aware of the situation.

other than that, it's resisting the discharge and saying he has nowhere to go.

if they find a home for him to go to, I think

MereDintofPandiculation · 01/12/2018 20:54

It does sound like he should be in a care home rather than a hospital. I'd agree with you if it wasn't for him having suffered a catastrophic decline over a matter of a few days.

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tastylancs · 01/12/2018 19:34

I'm sorry you and your DF are in this stressful situation. It does sound like he should be in a care home rather than a hospital. I hope you find a solution soon and you can relax a bit and focus on spending time with him.