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Mother woke at 2.30 am thought it was morning, had breakfast...

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Mightybanhammer · 03/01/2018 17:49

This is dementia, isn't it.Sad

She is 87 this spring, in reasonably good health physically, living independently with help from a cleaner and a gardener - but I have noticed an accelerating decline in short term memory - repeating herself very frequently, not grasping things clearly, easily confused. Also suddenly laughing at nothing at all which is a bit disconcerting. On the other hand, she still reads a broadsheet daily and can easily be drawn into lucid discussions on things she has read.

So I had my concerns but this latest night/day thing takes it to another level altogether.

She has a clock with large numbers on it by her bed, and clocks elsewhere and on her appliances, but she was convinced it had stopped. Got up, dressed , made breakfast - all of which would have taken best part of an hour - before realising it was the middle of the night.

She was taken off a low dose of amitryptilline at night time about 18 months ago as it gave her auditory and visual hallucinations. Maybe melatonin would help?

I mentioned GP visit and unsurprisingly she wasn't keen. Perhaps I should ring them myself? I have a letter of authority to discuss stuff with them.

Has anyone any ideas? I am her sole relative and live 40 mins away, work full time.

Thanks

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Apple23 · 03/01/2018 18:14

There are different types of dementia - needs a doctor to diagnose.

My DGM phoned DM at 5.30 the other morning to check whether it was morning or afternoon. We're currently trying a toddler Gro-clock from Mothercare to see if it helps. Early days but seems to be working so far... Worth a try?

FadedRed · 03/01/2018 18:06

Could be an infection causing confusion, this is not unusual in elderly people. Trip to GP with a urine sample for a check over would be a good idea. Usual suspects are UTI or chest infection, often sub-clinical, so not showing other, more obvious, symptoms.

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