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My Mum never asks, enquires, seems interested in my life

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paganmolloy · 22/08/2017 15:08

She will ring me up to tell me stuff as soon as she hears about it e.g. my brother dropped in for a visit or other brother called and he is doing such and such, that an old friend phoned her. She will also say 'other things to tell you' and it will be really mundane stuff as she works her way through the list she keeps, just to tell me. She will never ask about what I'm up to. Best example is when I get back from holiday and ring her. First thing she says, every time "Is that you back? Nice time?" then it's bang, straight into what information she can give me about anything.

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PersianCatLady · 22/08/2017 16:04

I could have written your post myself.

My Mum says that I "go into too much detail about everything" yet other people say that I am interesting because I take a lot of interest in a lot of topics.

Does my head in.

paganmolloy · 22/08/2017 15:58

I also meant to say that we get on fine and I visit every week but I get miffed when she just doesn't enquire about my life whilst offering up in great detail, info on everyone else's. When she is done, she'll finish up with 'well not much else to tell you' but still doesn't ask anything of me or my family.

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