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Ex seeking 45% of house despite no mortgage contributions after separation

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Minnienc · 03/06/2026 23:50

It was a short marriage—4 years and 9 months—with no kids. My ex moved out about 4 years ago and never asked for support. I was the main contributor—my ex never paid a cent of the mortgage, and I have proof. Now, at 61, I cannot work due to severe depression. Despite this, she's asking for 45% of the house, though he never contributed financially. I have an FDR hearing in a month. Has anyone encountered a similar situation, or have insight on how this may be viewed? Thanks in advance!

OP posts:
redboxerclub · 04/06/2026 00:08

I think from what I understand in a short marriage they view it as both parties leave with what they entered the relationship with. I don’t know if that is from the date of marriage or when the relationship started. Assuming you are female and he is male Did he move into you property or did you buy a new one? How was that funded? How were mortgage, bills and expenses paid (tax, utilities and food) or other significant finial benefits he provided to offset you paying a mortgage - eg did he replace a bathroom or pay for exotic holidays. Do you have children from another ralationship?

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