I'm trying another thread after one last week got derailed by the Schofield supporters.
DH has come out as gay after almost 8 years of marriage, together almost 11 years, 2 young kids. He also went out and slept with someone before we separated.
What have peoples experiences of living together after seperation?
DS1 has probable ADHD and possible autism. He does not do well with change. He is also in a great, tiny but rural school. I can't see how he will thrive in a 30 to a class.
Would I be mad to consider both of us staying put? We have a large house, mortgage is medium size, probably not affordable alone alongside buying DH out. But there's space that we both have our own ensuite bedrooms, and theres TVs in both the living room and playroom, so we can have our own space in the evening too.
Despite it being early days, he only told me 5 days ago, we are functioning OK together. Neither have any interest in working on our relationship, but we're best friends before.
Completely nuts idea?