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Stories from women in Iran

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RelaxAndDetox · 16/08/2026 12:53

To those who asked why Iranian women Marzieh and Reyhaneh didn't report rape in court before defending themselves.

Marzieh Nayeri was forced to marry a man at 17. Child marriage is legal under Sharia law in Iran.

At 18, her husband's business associate, drunk, in her own home, tried to sexually assault her. Her husband watched and did nothing. She grabbed a kitchen knife. She fought back. The attacker was wounded. Her husband was killed. She hid for four days. Then she went to her brother for help. He turned her in to the police.

She recorded a message for her mother before her execution:

"I want the world to know what is being done to me."

Iran hanged her on August 8, 2026. She was 24.

Reyhaneh Jabbari was 19 when a former intelligence officer tried to sexually assault her. She fought back. He died. She spent seven years in Evin Prison. The world signed petitions. Iran sharpened the rope. She was 26.

Iran hanged her anyway. In 2014.

Under Sharia law in Iran, to prove rape, a woman must produce four male witnesses to the act itself.

Four. Male. Witnesses.

If she cannot, her accusation becomes a confession. She is no longer the victim. She is the criminal, facing flogging, prison, or death.

This is not ancient history. This is the law still on the books today. The law that Abdul El-Sayed is asking Americans not to fear.

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RelaxAndDetox · 18/08/2026 16:03

SharonEllis · 18/08/2026 05:16

This is the most bonkers thing I've read on here for a while. You know homosexuality is forbidden in islam, right? The Portuguese did not have an extensive empire (they were focussed on ports) and it was all over in the 17th century and Iran was never colonised by the British anyway.

Thanks for this. Sadly, many people just repeat the inaccuracy that the British empire or other western countries are behind the problems in particular countries today. A lazy comment. In the case of Iran, that simply isn't true. It feels like the old 'hate the white colonisers' which considering they weren't colonised, as you say some ports and more about the waterways than an attempt to colonise.

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Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 18/08/2026 09:24

What a terrible system and country

EasternStandard · 18/08/2026 09:22

lifeinthemidlands · 18/08/2026 09:05

Fair enough - but the original post was more generally about the role of Western Governments in Iran's trajectory which is why I included the US. Agree that for once the UK quite rightly kept out of it.

Tbf somehow the revolution sold false future to everyone. Those images of women celebrating.

Shortly after really awful outcomes happened to them.

The IRGC was set up to protect the revolution at any cost, just don’t get close to allowing the same anywhere else it’s almost impossible to get out of.

lifeinthemidlands · 18/08/2026 09:05

Twiglets1 · 18/08/2026 08:15

Ok though I don't like that because "we" as in the UK (or the rest of Europe) had no say in the US & Israel starting the war in Iran.

I believe in people and countries taking responsibility for their own actions - good and bad - not "we" as in we're all in the West or "we" being guilty because of what our ancestors did before we were even born.

Fair enough - but the original post was more generally about the role of Western Governments in Iran's trajectory which is why I included the US. Agree that for once the UK quite rightly kept out of it.

Twiglets1 · 18/08/2026 08:15

lifeinthemidlands · 18/08/2026 08:05

Agree we did not start it - was thinking “we” as in the West,

Ok though I don't like that because "we" as in the UK (or the rest of Europe) had no say in the US & Israel starting the war in Iran.

I believe in people and countries taking responsibility for their own actions - good and bad - not "we" as in we're all in the West or "we" being guilty because of what our ancestors did before we were even born.

lifeinthemidlands · 18/08/2026 08:05

Twiglets1 · 18/08/2026 04:12

We (the UK) didn’t start the conflict. Though I agree we should amplify women’s voices and accept female asylum seekers. I believe women are not allowed to leave Iran without their husband’s permission though.

Agree we did not start it - was thinking “we” as in the West,

SharonEllis · 18/08/2026 05:16

DebbieSavage · 17/08/2026 13:25

No, Islam prohibits Misogyny and homophobia is a Western import. The Middle East was actually refreshingly progressive as far as human civilisations go. That is, until Catholic/Protestant countries like Portugal and Britain got involved in the region.

This is the most bonkers thing I've read on here for a while. You know homosexuality is forbidden in islam, right? The Portuguese did not have an extensive empire (they were focussed on ports) and it was all over in the 17th century and Iran was never colonised by the British anyway.

Twiglets1 · 18/08/2026 04:12

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 22:20

god no - the innocent population. It’s quite limited but we could accept Iranian asylum seekers (particularly women and families), petition our governments to stop supporting Iran joining UN councils with human rights remits, amplify women’s voices and donate to some of the excellent NGOs trying to document what is going on and get particularly Women’s voices heard. Oh - and not start a conflict that can’t be won and makes the government double down further on its citizens (thanks Trump).

We (the UK) didn’t start the conflict. Though I agree we should amplify women’s voices and accept female asylum seekers. I believe women are not allowed to leave Iran without their husband’s permission though.

RelaxAndDetox · 18/08/2026 01:01

EasternStandard · 17/08/2026 15:57

Yes they are responsible. They don’t have to be murderous extremists. The whole world is ignoring it.

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Indeed. To some it's 'never their fault; those evil Westerners made them do it'. As if they have no agency in their own decisions. 🙄

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lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 22:56

EasternStandard · 17/08/2026 22:35

I think it’s probably very hard for women and girls to get out 😞

I’m sure you’re right but there are significant numbers of female Iranian asylum seekers seekers.

EasternStandard · 17/08/2026 22:35

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 22:20

god no - the innocent population. It’s quite limited but we could accept Iranian asylum seekers (particularly women and families), petition our governments to stop supporting Iran joining UN councils with human rights remits, amplify women’s voices and donate to some of the excellent NGOs trying to document what is going on and get particularly Women’s voices heard. Oh - and not start a conflict that can’t be won and makes the government double down further on its citizens (thanks Trump).

I think it’s probably very hard for women and girls to get out 😞

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 22:20

Twiglets1 · 17/08/2026 21:19

Who do you want to help and support- the IRGC?

If you mean the women, how do you suggest we can support them with a terrorist regime in charge of their country who don’t want the give women any rights?

god no - the innocent population. It’s quite limited but we could accept Iranian asylum seekers (particularly women and families), petition our governments to stop supporting Iran joining UN councils with human rights remits, amplify women’s voices and donate to some of the excellent NGOs trying to document what is going on and get particularly Women’s voices heard. Oh - and not start a conflict that can’t be won and makes the government double down further on its citizens (thanks Trump).

Twiglets1 · 17/08/2026 21:31

Women or girls I should have said, who don’t have any rights under the IRGC.

EasternStandard · 17/08/2026 21:29

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 21:04

I think it does suggest we have some responsibility though to help and support them as much as possible

Do you mean the women and girls? What practical things can be done to help?

Twiglets1 · 17/08/2026 21:19

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 21:04

I think it does suggest we have some responsibility though to help and support them as much as possible

Who do you want to help and support- the IRGC?

If you mean the women, how do you suggest we can support them with a terrorist regime in charge of their country who don’t want the give women any rights?

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 21:04

OpheliaWasntMad · 17/08/2026 16:29

I’m not sure that blaming the UK and US helps the women of Iran .

While there may be some elements of truth to this interpretation of events - this narrative is mostly helpful to the murderous , repressive and misogynistic Iranian regime.

I think it does suggest we have some responsibility though to help and support them as much as possible

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 21:03

vintermadness · 17/08/2026 15:14

That's a far cry from saying that there was absolutely no sexism though. And regardless of history, the current regime are ultimately responsible for their own action.

I quite agree - I'm not excusing them but it is important to also see the context

Twiglets1 · 17/08/2026 16:36

OpheliaWasntMad · 17/08/2026 16:29

I’m not sure that blaming the UK and US helps the women of Iran .

While there may be some elements of truth to this interpretation of events - this narrative is mostly helpful to the murderous , repressive and misogynistic Iranian regime.

Yup sounds like a way of trying to give a free pass to the IRGC.

Not their fault they are poor little terrorists.

OpheliaWasntMad · 17/08/2026 16:29

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 15:11

In the early 1950s Iran had a democratic government - not perfect but much better than anything since. This was overthrown by the US (with assistance from the UK) due to concerns about access to oil. They imposed the Shah, whose repressive regime spawned the Islamic revolution. While this is a bit of an oversimplification, the UK and US should shoulder some of the blame for this current mess,

I’m not sure that blaming the UK and US helps the women of Iran .

While there may be some elements of truth to this interpretation of events - this narrative is mostly helpful to the murderous , repressive and misogynistic Iranian regime.

EasternStandard · 17/08/2026 15:57

vintermadness · 17/08/2026 15:14

That's a far cry from saying that there was absolutely no sexism though. And regardless of history, the current regime are ultimately responsible for their own action.

Yes they are responsible. They don’t have to be murderous extremists. The whole world is ignoring it.

vintermadness · 17/08/2026 15:14

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 15:11

In the early 1950s Iran had a democratic government - not perfect but much better than anything since. This was overthrown by the US (with assistance from the UK) due to concerns about access to oil. They imposed the Shah, whose repressive regime spawned the Islamic revolution. While this is a bit of an oversimplification, the UK and US should shoulder some of the blame for this current mess,

That's a far cry from saying that there was absolutely no sexism though. And regardless of history, the current regime are ultimately responsible for their own action.

lifeinthemidlands · 17/08/2026 15:11

In the early 1950s Iran had a democratic government - not perfect but much better than anything since. This was overthrown by the US (with assistance from the UK) due to concerns about access to oil. They imposed the Shah, whose repressive regime spawned the Islamic revolution. While this is a bit of an oversimplification, the UK and US should shoulder some of the blame for this current mess,

EasternStandard · 17/08/2026 14:24

TheLilacSnake · 17/08/2026 14:11

This is a joke, right? The Islamic revolution was what led to this shite. Although misogyny and homophobia throughout the world including the ME are as old as the hills. It wasn't some kind of progressive utopia before the Europeans came for fuck's sake.

Unordinary Silence: The 1400-Year Story of Women’s Resistance in Iran

It’s satire I think, although hard to tell on here sometimes

TheLilacSnake · 17/08/2026 14:11

DebbieSavage · 17/08/2026 13:25

No, Islam prohibits Misogyny and homophobia is a Western import. The Middle East was actually refreshingly progressive as far as human civilisations go. That is, until Catholic/Protestant countries like Portugal and Britain got involved in the region.

This is a joke, right? The Islamic revolution was what led to this shite. Although misogyny and homophobia throughout the world including the ME are as old as the hills. It wasn't some kind of progressive utopia before the Europeans came for fuck's sake.

Unordinary Silence: The 1400-Year Story of Women’s Resistance in Iran

Unordinary Silence: The 1400-Year Story of Women’s Resistance in Iran

Blake Arias A sudden chill shot down my back as I quickly hung up the phone. It was not until that moment that I fully understood the silence —an unordinary silence. The interviewee’s abrupt refusal to continue the conversation when I said “women in I...

https://www.clemsonpendulum.com/post/unordinary-silence-the-1400-year-story-of-women-s-resistance-in-iran

DebbieSavage · 17/08/2026 13:25

vintermadness · 17/08/2026 13:21

Are you actually saying there was no misogyny or homophobia in the middle east before the 19th century?

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No, Islam prohibits Misogyny and homophobia is a Western import. The Middle East was actually refreshingly progressive as far as human civilisations go. That is, until Catholic/Protestant countries like Portugal and Britain got involved in the region.

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