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Are people still rejoicing about Iran?

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binnibonnieboo · 09/03/2026 10:41

When Israel and the US took out Khamenei there was a thread on how great it was. Some of us expressed that it may not end well, given how forced regime change went previously in many countries. We were told to stop "leftsplaining" to Iranians. How do those people think it's going so far?

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RedTagAlan · 19/03/2026 07:47

Twiglets1 · 19/03/2026 06:36

Maybe it's the religious extremism that makes Iran different?

Death to the US/Death to Israel.

Hard to normalise relations with that kind of mindset.

Saudi Arabia is just as religious really. They have laws just as oppressive. Many Islamic countries do. Just ask any Islamophobe to explain.

Death to the US/Death to Israel. Yeah. From the revolution. It used to be death to England and death to the USSR too. What was the USSR is now Iran friendly Russia, and England did sort of normalise relations so that chant was mostly dropped. The USA and Isreal just ramped up everything anti Iran.

Iran are far from the only anti US country.

EasternStandard · 19/03/2026 07:27

RedTagAlan · 19/03/2026 01:24

No, I don't think so. But how to "punish" them?

They are already sanctioned to the hilt. And it's a strange thing, to me anyway, how the US has never really gotten over Iran and Cuba for having their revolutions. And the DPRK too, to an extent anyway. But really it's Iran and Cube who are on the US eternal naughty list.

There has never been an attempt at normalisation from the US side. Until Obama of course. He and the other nations got their anti nuke deal in 2015 ( and Obama started stuff with Cuba). Iran were sticking to the deal so far as we know, things were on the path to more normal relations. Some sanctions dropped etc, in return for Iran "behaving better".

Then Trump. He tore up the deal, put the sanctions on steroids, effectively because of internal US politics. His MAGA base loved it. Iran STILL had to be punished for their '79 revolution.

Same with Trump and Cuba. Undo what Obama done. Shut it all down. Gotta punish Cuba.

So with Iran, you had this nation with a different system who were effectively being eternally punished by the US, and they were finally having the door to international normalisation slowly creak open, and Trump slammed it shut.

No carrot and stick for them. Just the big stick.

There is possibly a bit of goose for gander here.

So how can Iran be "punished" at all ? They already have max sanctions enforced by the US. No sign of them being lifted, and Trump who refuses to even talk to them.

And now compare US Iran relations with those of other states. Vietnam. A single party communist state who defeated the US in a war. Pretty much normallised relations. But not for Iran and Cuba. All they get are threats of invasion and constant " punishment" and calls for "regime change" for stuff that happened in the fairly dim and distant past.

That policy has not worked at all. So how about trying policies similar to with Vietnam ?

I mean other Gulf states are authoritarian. Near theocracies too. And they have been persuaded to get on with the world, including Isreal, with no demands for them to change their regime.

I don’t see it as punishing for decades old decisions, focusing on Iran what seems to be missing is the relationship between the people and the IRGC.

And promoting proxies and terrorism.

If a state is murdering protestors and nurses are gang raped to near death for providing healthcare to them then it’s not really the picture painted in the post.

Twiglets1 · 19/03/2026 06:36

RedTagAlan · 19/03/2026 01:24

No, I don't think so. But how to "punish" them?

They are already sanctioned to the hilt. And it's a strange thing, to me anyway, how the US has never really gotten over Iran and Cuba for having their revolutions. And the DPRK too, to an extent anyway. But really it's Iran and Cube who are on the US eternal naughty list.

There has never been an attempt at normalisation from the US side. Until Obama of course. He and the other nations got their anti nuke deal in 2015 ( and Obama started stuff with Cuba). Iran were sticking to the deal so far as we know, things were on the path to more normal relations. Some sanctions dropped etc, in return for Iran "behaving better".

Then Trump. He tore up the deal, put the sanctions on steroids, effectively because of internal US politics. His MAGA base loved it. Iran STILL had to be punished for their '79 revolution.

Same with Trump and Cuba. Undo what Obama done. Shut it all down. Gotta punish Cuba.

So with Iran, you had this nation with a different system who were effectively being eternally punished by the US, and they were finally having the door to international normalisation slowly creak open, and Trump slammed it shut.

No carrot and stick for them. Just the big stick.

There is possibly a bit of goose for gander here.

So how can Iran be "punished" at all ? They already have max sanctions enforced by the US. No sign of them being lifted, and Trump who refuses to even talk to them.

And now compare US Iran relations with those of other states. Vietnam. A single party communist state who defeated the US in a war. Pretty much normallised relations. But not for Iran and Cuba. All they get are threats of invasion and constant " punishment" and calls for "regime change" for stuff that happened in the fairly dim and distant past.

That policy has not worked at all. So how about trying policies similar to with Vietnam ?

I mean other Gulf states are authoritarian. Near theocracies too. And they have been persuaded to get on with the world, including Isreal, with no demands for them to change their regime.

Maybe it's the religious extremism that makes Iran different?

Death to the US/Death to Israel.

Hard to normalise relations with that kind of mindset.

RedTagAlan · 19/03/2026 01:24

EasternStandard · 18/03/2026 18:31

@RedTagAlanshould they be left alone as suggested here?

No, I don't think so. But how to "punish" them?

They are already sanctioned to the hilt. And it's a strange thing, to me anyway, how the US has never really gotten over Iran and Cuba for having their revolutions. And the DPRK too, to an extent anyway. But really it's Iran and Cube who are on the US eternal naughty list.

There has never been an attempt at normalisation from the US side. Until Obama of course. He and the other nations got their anti nuke deal in 2015 ( and Obama started stuff with Cuba). Iran were sticking to the deal so far as we know, things were on the path to more normal relations. Some sanctions dropped etc, in return for Iran "behaving better".

Then Trump. He tore up the deal, put the sanctions on steroids, effectively because of internal US politics. His MAGA base loved it. Iran STILL had to be punished for their '79 revolution.

Same with Trump and Cuba. Undo what Obama done. Shut it all down. Gotta punish Cuba.

So with Iran, you had this nation with a different system who were effectively being eternally punished by the US, and they were finally having the door to international normalisation slowly creak open, and Trump slammed it shut.

No carrot and stick for them. Just the big stick.

There is possibly a bit of goose for gander here.

So how can Iran be "punished" at all ? They already have max sanctions enforced by the US. No sign of them being lifted, and Trump who refuses to even talk to them.

And now compare US Iran relations with those of other states. Vietnam. A single party communist state who defeated the US in a war. Pretty much normallised relations. But not for Iran and Cuba. All they get are threats of invasion and constant " punishment" and calls for "regime change" for stuff that happened in the fairly dim and distant past.

That policy has not worked at all. So how about trying policies similar to with Vietnam ?

I mean other Gulf states are authoritarian. Near theocracies too. And they have been persuaded to get on with the world, including Isreal, with no demands for them to change their regime.

EasternStandard · 18/03/2026 18:31

Ihatetomatoes · 18/03/2026 16:40

Leave them alone.
Ignore them.
Let them slaughter thousands of their own citizens, nothing to see there. (Telling them its against the various conventions won't work, they ignore everyone.) Afterall, they are only killing their own.

Let them keep funding Hamas, Hezbollah and The Houthis. They only want to wipe out Israel, no big deal.

Let them cause terrorism through the middle east, nothing to see there.

Let them continue to attempt terrorist attacks in the UK, afterall, our counter intelligence have foiled them so far....
Let them continue to develop nuclear weapons until they have them and use then, too late then, but oh well, there you go.

No of these things which have already been done worked either. They don't follow rules, conventions and guidelines. The regime must have full control. But hey ho, no problem. Then one day, it's too late. We should all ignore them and what they do and all will be fine and dandy 😊
Happy days

@RedTagAlanshould they be left alone as suggested here?

Notonthestairs · 18/03/2026 18:30

Yes, I see the negative in an emboldened, financially shored up Russia.

Twiglets1 · 18/03/2026 18:27

Determined to look only at the negatives I see @Notonthestairs

Notonthestairs · 18/03/2026 17:19

Meanwhile the Russian economy has the chance to make up for some of the financial losses.

Notonthestairs · 18/03/2026 17:18

It may be weakened. It may welcome in more hardliners and a desire to reassert itself through further violence on the population. A weak regime and a country in chaos won't necessarily lead to peace and democracy. We've seen that elsewhere.

Twiglets1 · 18/03/2026 17:12

Notonthestairs · 18/03/2026 17:01

But the objective isnt regime change. It's at best a potential outcome. One of many.

Just as it wasnt in Venezuela. Posters claimed that Trump's actions in Venezuela would lead to democracy and freedom and yet the regime is still in place, detentions are still happening etc.

The regime needed to be weakened and it is being weakened.

Notonthestairs · 18/03/2026 17:01

But the objective isnt regime change. It's at best a potential outcome. One of many.

Just as it wasnt in Venezuela. Posters claimed that Trump's actions in Venezuela would lead to democracy and freedom and yet the regime is still in place, detentions are still happening etc.

TheNuthatch · 18/03/2026 16:56

Ihatetomatoes · 18/03/2026 16:40

Leave them alone.
Ignore them.
Let them slaughter thousands of their own citizens, nothing to see there. (Telling them its against the various conventions won't work, they ignore everyone.) Afterall, they are only killing their own.

Let them keep funding Hamas, Hezbollah and The Houthis. They only want to wipe out Israel, no big deal.

Let them cause terrorism through the middle east, nothing to see there.

Let them continue to attempt terrorist attacks in the UK, afterall, our counter intelligence have foiled them so far....
Let them continue to develop nuclear weapons until they have them and use then, too late then, but oh well, there you go.

No of these things which have already been done worked either. They don't follow rules, conventions and guidelines. The regime must have full control. But hey ho, no problem. Then one day, it's too late. We should all ignore them and what they do and all will be fine and dandy 😊
Happy days

Very well said 👏

Twiglets1 · 18/03/2026 16:52

Yes very well said @Ihatetomatoes

How badly does a regime have to behave before the "leave them alone" message no longer makes sense.

inamarina · 18/03/2026 16:48

Ihatetomatoes · 18/03/2026 16:40

Leave them alone.
Ignore them.
Let them slaughter thousands of their own citizens, nothing to see there. (Telling them its against the various conventions won't work, they ignore everyone.) Afterall, they are only killing their own.

Let them keep funding Hamas, Hezbollah and The Houthis. They only want to wipe out Israel, no big deal.

Let them cause terrorism through the middle east, nothing to see there.

Let them continue to attempt terrorist attacks in the UK, afterall, our counter intelligence have foiled them so far....
Let them continue to develop nuclear weapons until they have them and use then, too late then, but oh well, there you go.

No of these things which have already been done worked either. They don't follow rules, conventions and guidelines. The regime must have full control. But hey ho, no problem. Then one day, it's too late. We should all ignore them and what they do and all will be fine and dandy 😊
Happy days

Well said.

BelleHathor · 18/03/2026 16:47

Well get ready for $200 Oil and Gas.

In his supreme wisdom Netanyahu greenlit the bombing off Iran (and Qatars) South Pars Gas Field, a clear red line crossed.

Iran has issued a notice to countries who facilated this attack to evacuate certain infrastructure and civilian to evacuate too and they plan to retaliate in kind.

If these infrastructures are destroyed they will take years to rebuild.

Remember who to blame and who started this war of choice.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c24d410m3g4t

Iran says it will retaliate after reports say Israel attacked major gas field - live updates

Iranian media says no-one was injured in the attack on the world's largest natural gas field.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/c24d410m3g4t

Ihatetomatoes · 18/03/2026 16:40

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 16:29

I say no. Same as I say Iran should not be bombed.

Leave them alone.
Ignore them.
Let them slaughter thousands of their own citizens, nothing to see there. (Telling them its against the various conventions won't work, they ignore everyone.) Afterall, they are only killing their own.

Let them keep funding Hamas, Hezbollah and The Houthis. They only want to wipe out Israel, no big deal.

Let them cause terrorism through the middle east, nothing to see there.

Let them continue to attempt terrorist attacks in the UK, afterall, our counter intelligence have foiled them so far....
Let them continue to develop nuclear weapons until they have them and use then, too late then, but oh well, there you go.

No of these things which have already been done worked either. They don't follow rules, conventions and guidelines. The regime must have full control. But hey ho, no problem. Then one day, it's too late. We should all ignore them and what they do and all will be fine and dandy 😊
Happy days

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 16:29

JaneFondue · 18/03/2026 11:27

Pakistan.
Nuclear missiles. Not a maybe, but confirmed.
Long track record of aiding terrorism via groups like Lashkar-e-Toiba and Jaish-e-Mohammed. Includiing in the U.K.
Sheltered Osama Bin Laden.
Fragile democracy, more a military dictatorship.
Terrible rights for women and minorities.

Bomb it?

I say no. Same as I say Iran should not be bombed.

Ihatetomatoes · 18/03/2026 16:24

FernandoSor · 18/03/2026 09:33

Iran has been weeks away from developing nuclear weapons for the past 20-odd years, or so we have been told. We were also told that Iran's nuclear weapon programme was "completely and totally obliterated" last year.

The US and Israel are trying to drag us into a regional war in which we have no geopolitical or economic interest and which only serves to destabilise the region, while drawing attention away from the much more serious threat of Russian incursions into Europe.

We were clearly told by the US in 1956 that nothing west of Suez was our concern. Not our circus, not our monkeys.

I said there will come a point that Iran has nuclear weapons, I didn't say in weeks they would have them.

You replied to something I didn't say.

That regime brutalises it's people. You want to wait until it has nuclear weapons, do ut can do what it wants. That's too late.

Twiglets1 · 18/03/2026 11:45

Morriba · 18/03/2026 11:35

I was quite amazed at how many Mumsnetters are married to Iranians. I wonder if there's some kind of specialist dating service.

Lol how do you know how many MN are married to Iranians?

If there seems like a lot don't you think your impression could be skewered by being on the CITME board?

Morriba · 18/03/2026 11:35

I was quite amazed at how many Mumsnetters are married to Iranians. I wonder if there's some kind of specialist dating service.

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 11:28

EasternStandard · 18/03/2026 11:25

Before I answer can you see you can’t get numbers?

What is needed is a free vote which is impossible. Do you agree that is the case?

Yes. I agree accurate numbers needs a free vote. And that is impossible.

JaneFondue · 18/03/2026 11:27

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 11:16

If you can't get the numbers is bombing the way to go ?

Take the PRC for example. 1.4 billion people, no free vote. Bomb them too ?

Pakistan.
Nuclear missiles. Not a maybe, but confirmed.
Long track record of aiding terrorism via groups like Lashkar-e-Toiba and Jaish-e-Mohammed. Includiing in the U.K.
Sheltered Osama Bin Laden.
Fragile democracy, more a military dictatorship.
Terrible rights for women and minorities.

Bomb it?

EasternStandard · 18/03/2026 11:25

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 11:16

If you can't get the numbers is bombing the way to go ?

Take the PRC for example. 1.4 billion people, no free vote. Bomb them too ?

Before I answer can you see you can’t get numbers?

What is needed is a free vote which is impossible. Do you agree that is the case?

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 11:16

EasternStandard · 18/03/2026 11:11

How would you get the numbers? A free vote?

What would need to happen to get that

If you can't get the numbers is bombing the way to go ?

Take the PRC for example. 1.4 billion people, no free vote. Bomb them too ?

RedTagAlan · 18/03/2026 11:12

inamarina · 18/03/2026 10:42

Acknowledging the fact that people will sadly die is not the same as claiming that for a regime to fall a certain percentage of its civilian supporters would have to be killed.
People have also been dying under the regime, and not in exactly small numbers.

No, the number the regime has killed is not small. And would it not be a good idea to know how many were doing the shooting before even abandoning any attempt at regime moderation ?

After all, if western governments are ok with the Saudi regime for example, would it not be better to try to talk with the Iranian government to persuade them to move in that direction ?

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