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Pro-Israel - I don't understand

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plsexplaintome · 08/10/2025 09:11

I've NCed for this as MN can be a vicious place lately, this thread may be a bad idea but hoping some genuine people will respond with their perspective.

Obviously there's a lot of nuance, but I don't understand how so many people seem to be pro Israel? My family are Jewish (I'm not as my mother isn't, but my dad's side are) and none of us support what Israel are doing. They say that as Jewish people, they don't want to see their people commit a genocide and push people out of their homes as this is exactly what's been done to Jewish people throughout history. And we don't think it's necessarily antisemitic to be against the actions of a government. (Though clearly some people are being antisemitic under the guise of defending Palestine)

Of course, Hamas has done awful things and I don't mean to say it's okay. But it seems like Palestine is fighting back after decades of oppression and violence committed against them by Israel. It's the actions of a desperate people - it's awful violence, but if it weren't for Israel, there would be no need for violence at all. You can't continually kick a dog and complain when it bites back?

I'm not looking for an argument so may not post again here as I don't want to argue withother opinions - I'm just hoping to hear from other perspectives. A lot of the media and public seem very pro Israel and I just don't understand. I'm not talking about protests here in the UK, as that's a whole other mess that's really muddying the waters and I'm not sure Palestinians would want these people speaking for them. If you are pro-Israel, please explain why as I feel I'm missing something here

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SharonEllis · 08/10/2025 14:09

inamarina · 08/10/2025 14:03

Just curious, do you really think that for decades it was only ever Israel attacking the Palestinians, never the other way round?

And that person presumably has no understanding of why Jews travelled to Israel in 1948 and why so many contine to move there since? Extraordinary to think its ok to say such a thing.

inamarina · 08/10/2025 14:03

LindorDoubleChoc · 08/10/2025 13:07

I'm like you OP. Find it unbelievable that there even is such a thing as being pro-Israel. And I've been aware of their dreadful treatment of the Palestinians for decades. My views haven't changed since Oct 7 2023. I also won't get into arguments on Mumsnet about it, but just wanted to say I completely understand your pov.

Just curious, do you really think that for decades it was only ever Israel attacking the Palestinians, never the other way round?

inamarina · 08/10/2025 14:00

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 13:01

I suppose that depends whether you count Israel being bombarded by missiles from Gaza for years, and the cross-border terrorist attacks they've had to deal with.

Why do you think Israel built the Iron Dome?

The reason it took a while for people to recognise the dangers at Nova Festival is that no one batted an eyelid at rocket attacks. Perfectly normal for Israelis. Imagine that at Glastonbury.

Also imagine how things would look different if Hamas had also built an Iron Dome, instead of investing everything into tunnels from which to destroy Israel and carefully siting its strategic centres under hospitals and schools. Or better still, if they had invested all that wealth into improving life for Gazans.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palestinian_rocket_attacks_on_Israel

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Well said.
I really don’t get it, do people like the pp you’ve responded to really just think there have never been any attacks on Israel from the Palestinian side before October 7th?
That for decades Israel was just merrily attacking completely innocent and defenceless people?

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 13:23

LindorDoubleChoc · 08/10/2025 13:07

I'm like you OP. Find it unbelievable that there even is such a thing as being pro-Israel. And I've been aware of their dreadful treatment of the Palestinians for decades. My views haven't changed since Oct 7 2023. I also won't get into arguments on Mumsnet about it, but just wanted to say I completely understand your pov.

Her point of view is about learning more and going behind the headlines and the soundbites.
She's asked for reading recommendations and other source materials.

GreatWhiteJar · 08/10/2025 13:08

ScrollingLeaves · 08/10/2025 12:53

Sorry that post got cut off somehow.

The Ottoman Census of 1878 shows the Jewish population as being only 5% of the whole at that point. Please see screen shot.
This is from ‘Demographics of Historic Palestine Prior to 1948’.
www.cjpme.org/fs_007

Emigration of Jews to Palestine began to increase under the British Mandate in the 1920s and 1930s after WW1.

The poster was talking about Jewish people in the Middle East generally, not just the area that is now Israel.

LindorDoubleChoc · 08/10/2025 13:07

I'm like you OP. Find it unbelievable that there even is such a thing as being pro-Israel. And I've been aware of their dreadful treatment of the Palestinians for decades. My views haven't changed since Oct 7 2023. I also won't get into arguments on Mumsnet about it, but just wanted to say I completely understand your pov.

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 13:01

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:45

And what about before Oct 7 or even before Hamas came into power with everything the Israel government has done to innocent Palestinians? Did the war only start on Oct 7 or with Hamas?

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I suppose that depends whether you count Israel being bombarded by missiles from Gaza for years, and the cross-border terrorist attacks they've had to deal with.

Why do you think Israel built the Iron Dome?

The reason it took a while for people to recognise the dangers at Nova Festival is that no one batted an eyelid at rocket attacks. Perfectly normal for Israelis. Imagine that at Glastonbury.

Also imagine how things would look different if Hamas had also built an Iron Dome, instead of investing everything into tunnels from which to destroy Israel and carefully siting its strategic centres under hospitals and schools. Or better still, if they had invested all that wealth into improving life for Gazans.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palestinian_rocket_attacks_on_Israel

EasyTouch · 08/10/2025 12:54

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:04

Because they have been killed and displaced by the Israeli government well before Oct 7 and treated the same as in your examples as innocent people. It wasn't as if Oct 7 happened randomly out of nowhere.

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" Randomly out of nowhere" is the domestic abuser's " she made me do it" means of justification and lack of accountability.
But to further the point, why are Palestinians afforded the luxury of using history as justification for violence, but Israel not?
And why is this dependence upon bits and bobs of history ad justification for Palestinian violence and violence in her name then ignored and contemporary Gazan suffering inserted into debate when the Israeli position is being seen to be far more nuanced than " diablo!" , using citational history?

And why is terminology that is specific to Jewish suffering then inverted and used for Palestinians in a way that I have never seen in a debate pertaining to two opposing factions not involving Israel/Jews ( just getting ahead of the " language and meaning evolves !" deflection as explanation)?

If I had the time, I could bullet point the static mode of reasoning coming from the majority of "Pro Palestinian" posters online, including on CITME.
It does not suggest knowledge, depth, comprehension and suggests hyper emotionalism is a substitute for good character, as opposed to a sign of probable non optimum mental health.
And indeed it is , without contextual content , the enemy of debate.
In which case, why so scared of debate and even a soupcon of linear thought pertaining to this crisis?
Apparently now, the " genocide" has been going on since 2023.
Either the Pro Palestinians ( including the UN) do not know what a genocide is or there is a deliberate push to minimise Israeli suffering in order to justify its hopeful future annihilation in the eyes of the anti Semite UN and Pro Palestinians factions.
Maybe that is why the" Peace" Marchers only hold Israel as responsible for peace in a duo factional conflict?

ScrollingLeaves · 08/10/2025 12:53

ScrollingLeaves · 08/10/2025 12:46

I think there is a widely held misconception that Jews didn’t exist in the Middle East until 1948 and that after the war European Jews came in and stole a country. It’s not that simple. There have been Jews on that land(which was British) as well as Jordan, Lebanon, Syria etc etc forever.

That is true but you look at the proportion of Jews to Palestinians living there in 1898

Sorry that post got cut off somehow.

The Ottoman Census of 1878 shows the Jewish population as being only 5% of the whole at that point. Please see screen shot.
This is from ‘Demographics of Historic Palestine Prior to 1948’.
www.cjpme.org/fs_007

Emigration of Jews to Palestine began to increase under the British Mandate in the 1920s and 1930s after WW1.

Pro-Israel - I don't understand
LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 12:48

ScrollingLeaves · 08/10/2025 12:46

I think there is a widely held misconception that Jews didn’t exist in the Middle East until 1948 and that after the war European Jews came in and stole a country. It’s not that simple. There have been Jews on that land(which was British) as well as Jordan, Lebanon, Syria etc etc forever.

That is true but you look at the proportion of Jews to Palestinians living there in 1898

It was at that point part of the Ottoman Empire. It was boosted by migration from Egypt, but also other areas.

ScrollingLeaves · 08/10/2025 12:46

HepzibahGreen · 08/10/2025 11:22

I think there is a widely held misconception that Jews didn’t exist in the Middle East until 1948 and that after the war European Jews came in and stole a country. It’s not that simple. There have been Jews on that land(which was British) as well as Jordan, Lebanon, Syria etc etc forever. Additionally Jews had been travelling there since the 19th century as it’s always been their holy land. Jerusalem is the equivalent of Mecca for Muslims. After Israel was officially created it became impossible for them to stay in neighbouring Arab and Levantine countries. It was hard before but now they were expelled. Where would they go? Where could they go?
It’s also worth mentioning that Arab countries have not done anything to help Palestinians- they are used as collateral.
And yes, October 7th was an act of war. Israel is surrounded by countries who wish them anihalated. Rightly or wrongly if you come for Israel they are going to come back harder, because it’s a matter of survival.
I hate Netanyahu, it’s tragic they don’t have a more moderate leader. The occupying fundamentalists should have been evicted from those territories years ago. What is happening now is appalling. But equally, to negotiate with terrorists invites more terrorism.
And anyone who doesn’t have real knowledge of the area who has a black and white view of any of this doesn’t really understand it. Experts who live there don’t have the answers so some uk student union gobshite over here DEFINITELY doesn’t.
My prayers are for peace, a 2 state solution, democracy in Palestine (unlikely) and Hamas to slither off back to the Hell that spawned them.

I think there is a widely held misconception that Jews didn’t exist in the Middle East until 1948 and that after the war European Jews came in and stole a country. It’s not that simple. There have been Jews on that land(which was British) as well as Jordan, Lebanon, Syria etc etc forever.

That is true but you look at the proportion of Jews to Palestinians living there in 1898

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 12:46

NewWin · 08/10/2025 12:32

you need to get out more! And read more books. But mainly you probably need to meet more people who don't think, act, and look like you

Oh my goodness, yes- this, absolutely!

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:45

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 12:34

Haven't RTFT, but just had to hop in here and mention that people were not just "shot and raped." Gazan civilian mobs swarmed through the broken fences to gleefully take part (survivors describe them laughing all the time), and by all accounts took things to a level that Hamas might not originally have planned. The victims were bludgeoned to death, burned alive, mutilated, tortured, and trophies (like scalps and eyes) were taken from their bodies. Women were raped while alive, dying, and dead; one had her breasts sliced off and kicked around in the dust. The perpetrators used the victims' phones to livestream this to friends and family of the victims. The attacks were celebrated joyfully in the streets of Gaza, including a well-known video of Shani Louk's mangled semi-naked corpse being paraded in the streets on the back of a truck, with the crowds rejoicing and spitting on what was left of her.

Anyone who debates the proportionality of Israel's response might want to consider how the UK would retaliate for a similar attack on our own soil.

And what about before Oct 7 or even before Hamas came into power with everything the Israel government has done to innocent Palestinians? Did the war only start on Oct 7 or with Hamas?

ScrollingLeaves · 08/10/2025 12:45

HepzibahGreen · 08/10/2025 11:22

I think there is a widely held misconception that Jews didn’t exist in the Middle East until 1948 and that after the war European Jews came in and stole a country. It’s not that simple. There have been Jews on that land(which was British) as well as Jordan, Lebanon, Syria etc etc forever. Additionally Jews had been travelling there since the 19th century as it’s always been their holy land. Jerusalem is the equivalent of Mecca for Muslims. After Israel was officially created it became impossible for them to stay in neighbouring Arab and Levantine countries. It was hard before but now they were expelled. Where would they go? Where could they go?
It’s also worth mentioning that Arab countries have not done anything to help Palestinians- they are used as collateral.
And yes, October 7th was an act of war. Israel is surrounded by countries who wish them anihalated. Rightly or wrongly if you come for Israel they are going to come back harder, because it’s a matter of survival.
I hate Netanyahu, it’s tragic they don’t have a more moderate leader. The occupying fundamentalists should have been evicted from those territories years ago. What is happening now is appalling. But equally, to negotiate with terrorists invites more terrorism.
And anyone who doesn’t have real knowledge of the area who has a black and white view of any of this doesn’t really understand it. Experts who live there don’t have the answers so some uk student union gobshite over here DEFINITELY doesn’t.
My prayers are for peace, a 2 state solution, democracy in Palestine (unlikely) and Hamas to slither off back to the Hell that spawned them.

I think there is a widely held misconception that Jews didn’t exist in the Middle East until 1948 and that after the war European Jews came in and stole a country. It’s not that simple. There have been Jews on that land(which was British) as well as Jordan, Lebanon, Syria etc etc forever.

That is true but you look at the proportion of Jews to Palestinians living there in 1878. According to the Ottoman census of that time, you see it was not at all like the present: Jewish people represented just 5%. (Screen shot from ‘Demographics of Historic Palestine’
https://www.cjpme.org/fs007)

Jewish emigration to Palestine began to grow in the 1920s and 1930s under the British Mandate after WW1.

Pro-Israel - I don't understand
Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 12:34

Octavia64 · 08/10/2025 09:28

I guess you could describe my position as pro Israel.

what I think is a bit more nuanced.

I consider Israel and Palestine pretty much both states. The October 7th attacks if done to any other nation could easily have been considered an act of war.

ok, war wasn’t declared but people were shot and raped in their homes and at a music festival.

so Palestine (or rather the Gaza Strip because as far as I’m aware the West Bank is PLO and wasn’t involved) committed an act of war.

so Israel took that as a declaration of war and is waging war.

now there’s an argument to be made about proportionate use of force (eg Coventry bombings, Dresden bombings, the US dropped the atom bomb on Japan even though Japan’s original pearl harbour attack wasn’t anywhere near that scale) but if you choose to provoke a war then it’s not possible to control how the other side reacts.

I don’t think how Israel treated Palestinians before Oct 7th was ok, but equally I see many countries where ethnic or gender or religious groups are treated far far worse (women in Afghanistan, the Yazidi, etc) and actions come with consequences.

ISIS tried to conquer and hold territory and a coalition of the US plus various other states basically completely broke them as a “state”. Hamas (who as far as I can tell are basically the same as ISIS) currently hold the Gaza Strip and honestly if one of the results of this is that they are broken I’ll be happy about that.

Haven't RTFT, but just had to hop in here and mention that people were not just "shot and raped." Gazan civilian mobs swarmed through the broken fences to gleefully take part (survivors describe them laughing all the time), and by all accounts took things to a level that Hamas might not originally have planned. The victims were bludgeoned to death, burned alive, mutilated, tortured, and trophies (like scalps and eyes) were taken from their bodies. Women were raped while alive, dying, and dead; one had her breasts sliced off and kicked around in the dust. The perpetrators used the victims' phones to livestream this to friends and family of the victims. The attacks were celebrated joyfully in the streets of Gaza, including a well-known video of Shani Louk's mangled semi-naked corpse being paraded in the streets on the back of a truck, with the crowds rejoicing and spitting on what was left of her.

Anyone who debates the proportionality of Israel's response might want to consider how the UK would retaliate for a similar attack on our own soil.

NewWin · 08/10/2025 12:32

Yassnass134 · 08/10/2025 11:48

I don't think many people are pro-Israel. There are hardly any at pro-Israel protests and I've not met a single person in real life who remotely likes Israel.

you need to get out more! And read more books. But mainly you probably need to meet more people who don't think, act, and look like you

SharonEllis · 08/10/2025 12:12

GreatWhiteJar · 08/10/2025 12:08

There is a lot of simplistic, prejudiced foolishness on the pro-Palestinian side (illustrated above - nobody ‘likes’ Israel, apart from the media who are all pro-Israel). Personally that has given me more sympathy for the Israelis than I used to have - I see a lot of the criticism of them being rooted in support for the omnicause, rather than coming from a place of genuine, nuanced understanding.

I think when you see comments like that that tap into well-worn tropes its worth being very wary. Objectively I don't think anyone sensible would argue that the media is pro-Israel.

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:11

GreatWhiteJar · 08/10/2025 12:08

There is a lot of simplistic, prejudiced foolishness on the pro-Palestinian side (illustrated above - nobody ‘likes’ Israel, apart from the media who are all pro-Israel). Personally that has given me more sympathy for the Israelis than I used to have - I see a lot of the criticism of them being rooted in support for the omnicause, rather than coming from a place of genuine, nuanced understanding.

Nobody likes genocide. Nothing to do with liking innocent Israeli people. The media have a different narrative and they want to push that.

SharonEllis · 08/10/2025 12:10

Yassnass134 · 08/10/2025 12:06

If the destruction of over 90% of infrastructure and the starvation of children/babies doesn’t move people, the terminology used to describe it probably won’t either.

I think you are entirely missing the point. People aren't generally moved by labels.

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:09

ThisZingyUmberPanda · 08/10/2025 12:07

Yes but that still doesn't make October 7th a dog biting back, like it's in some way understandable. Two wrongs don't make a right you know.

Of course not but it happened. Not out of nowhere that's my point.

GreatWhiteJar · 08/10/2025 12:08

There is a lot of simplistic, prejudiced foolishness on the pro-Palestinian side (illustrated above - nobody ‘likes’ Israel, apart from the media who are all pro-Israel). Personally that has given me more sympathy for the Israelis than I used to have - I see a lot of the criticism of them being rooted in support for the omnicause, rather than coming from a place of genuine, nuanced understanding.

ThisZingyUmberPanda · 08/10/2025 12:07

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:04

Because they have been killed and displaced by the Israeli government well before Oct 7 and treated the same as in your examples as innocent people. It wasn't as if Oct 7 happened randomly out of nowhere.

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Yes but that still doesn't make October 7th a dog biting back, like it's in some way understandable. Two wrongs don't make a right you know.

LeticiaMorales · 08/10/2025 12:06

So the slinging match continues.
Some good recommendations on here, thank you to posters who have sign posted podcasts, documentaries and books.
I would just say this, OP. Anyone who thinks they have a simple answer, or just uses slogans to close a debate, does not have a complete understanding of this complicated geo- political historical issue.

Yassnass134 · 08/10/2025 12:06

SharonEllis · 08/10/2025 11:58

Nobody supports genocide. The issue is that peilople disagree as to whether the current war is genocide. Perhaps if all the effort debating that question went into building peace we might get somewhere.

If the destruction of over 90% of infrastructure and the starvation of children/babies doesn’t move people, the terminology used to describe it probably won’t either.

confusedlady10 · 08/10/2025 12:04

ThisZingyUmberPanda · 08/10/2025 12:02

Nothing, not sure how that answers my question to the OP though.

Because they have been killed and displaced by the Israeli government well before Oct 7 and treated the same as in your examples as innocent people. It wasn't as if Oct 7 happened randomly out of nowhere.