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Pro-Israel - I don't understand

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plsexplaintome · 08/10/2025 09:11

I've NCed for this as MN can be a vicious place lately, this thread may be a bad idea but hoping some genuine people will respond with their perspective.

Obviously there's a lot of nuance, but I don't understand how so many people seem to be pro Israel? My family are Jewish (I'm not as my mother isn't, but my dad's side are) and none of us support what Israel are doing. They say that as Jewish people, they don't want to see their people commit a genocide and push people out of their homes as this is exactly what's been done to Jewish people throughout history. And we don't think it's necessarily antisemitic to be against the actions of a government. (Though clearly some people are being antisemitic under the guise of defending Palestine)

Of course, Hamas has done awful things and I don't mean to say it's okay. But it seems like Palestine is fighting back after decades of oppression and violence committed against them by Israel. It's the actions of a desperate people - it's awful violence, but if it weren't for Israel, there would be no need for violence at all. You can't continually kick a dog and complain when it bites back?

I'm not looking for an argument so may not post again here as I don't want to argue withother opinions - I'm just hoping to hear from other perspectives. A lot of the media and public seem very pro Israel and I just don't understand. I'm not talking about protests here in the UK, as that's a whole other mess that's really muddying the waters and I'm not sure Palestinians would want these people speaking for them. If you are pro-Israel, please explain why as I feel I'm missing something here

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Nads0622 · 13/10/2025 05:13

29Braydon · 12/10/2025 06:32

@SameOldHill
What matters is that there were people living there, and that those local communities were displaced. Whether they felt Palestinian, Jordanian or whatever, they didn’t deserve to be forcibly expelled.
And nor do the Israelis who were born there now. They don’t deserve to be forced out.
There is no solution. Personally I’d like to see a one state solution. Equal rights for all. Take away the law imposing any religion and allow international right to return for 1948 refugees. Whoever is there now stays. But that’s hopelessly naive.

Arabs living in Mandatory Palestine were only forcibly displaced after Arab violence against Jews erupted, following the UN vote in 1947. Before that, not a single Arab had been forcibly displaced.

Jews came to a mostly empty land, they cultivated wasteland and bought land from absentee landlords. Nobody had been displaced nor should anyone have bee, had the Arabs not started a war they lost.

And when you speak of return for 1948 refugees, first of all why? What's special about them more than any other refugees in the last eight decades, who have no chance of return? But even if, do you mean just the actual refugees or all their descendants for eternity?

Jews didn’t come to mostly wasteland and even if it was it wasn’t theirs to take !
In 1947 there were one and a half million Palestinians in 1,300 Palestinians villages and towns .
The Nakba is the Israeli ethnic cleansing of Palestinian Arabs through violent displacement and massacres forcing them to flee. A quick watch of Louis Therouxs excellent documentary the settlers highlights what’s happening today and evidences the land grab !

The fact that you deny the right of return for 1948 refugees yet ageee with the law of return for any jew despite the fact they may not be indigenous to Palestine highlights how tolerant Israeli supporters are of apartheid .
there’s many documentaries and books that highlight the massacres that took place . Many British soldiers who were there at the nakba have left horrifying eyewitness accounts. I myself have spoke in the past to a British soldier who was in Palestine at the time of the nakba who told me of the atrocities he witnessed.

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plsexplaintome · 08/10/2025 09:22

Yikes I know MN can be a nasty place but I wasn't expecting that so soon. If you don't want to explain then don't, you don't have to post to announce that you're not going to? I'm not trying to goad anything, I use MN to see other people's perspectives on things so I'm not always just hearing opinions from my own bubble.

Yet another "I don't know much about the Israel / Gaza conflict but could someone please explain to me why [insert a controversial statement]".

So tiresome and on the very remote chance that this is a genuine question then try Google or Wikipedia.

KoalaKoKo · 12/10/2025 09:54

29Braydon · 12/10/2025 06:32

@SameOldHill
What matters is that there were people living there, and that those local communities were displaced. Whether they felt Palestinian, Jordanian or whatever, they didn’t deserve to be forcibly expelled.
And nor do the Israelis who were born there now. They don’t deserve to be forced out.
There is no solution. Personally I’d like to see a one state solution. Equal rights for all. Take away the law imposing any religion and allow international right to return for 1948 refugees. Whoever is there now stays. But that’s hopelessly naive.

Arabs living in Mandatory Palestine were only forcibly displaced after Arab violence against Jews erupted, following the UN vote in 1947. Before that, not a single Arab had been forcibly displaced.

Jews came to a mostly empty land, they cultivated wasteland and bought land from absentee landlords. Nobody had been displaced nor should anyone have bee, had the Arabs not started a war they lost.

And when you speak of return for 1948 refugees, first of all why? What's special about them more than any other refugees in the last eight decades, who have no chance of return? But even if, do you mean just the actual refugees or all their descendants for eternity?

Watch Tantura - straight from the settlers and soldiers mouths they tell you that the people there actually took jewish refugees into their houses but Israel decided that the port was strategically advantageous so they took it and executed many of the inhabitants, forcibly displacing the rest.

29Braydon · 12/10/2025 06:32

@SameOldHill
What matters is that there were people living there, and that those local communities were displaced. Whether they felt Palestinian, Jordanian or whatever, they didn’t deserve to be forcibly expelled.
And nor do the Israelis who were born there now. They don’t deserve to be forced out.
There is no solution. Personally I’d like to see a one state solution. Equal rights for all. Take away the law imposing any religion and allow international right to return for 1948 refugees. Whoever is there now stays. But that’s hopelessly naive.

Arabs living in Mandatory Palestine were only forcibly displaced after Arab violence against Jews erupted, following the UN vote in 1947. Before that, not a single Arab had been forcibly displaced.

Jews came to a mostly empty land, they cultivated wasteland and bought land from absentee landlords. Nobody had been displaced nor should anyone have bee, had the Arabs not started a war they lost.

And when you speak of return for 1948 refugees, first of all why? What's special about them more than any other refugees in the last eight decades, who have no chance of return? But even if, do you mean just the actual refugees or all their descendants for eternity?

LeticiaMorales · 09/10/2025 06:43

@Ayoopkid very good points, and your family's story is worthwhile reflecting on.
Also, contradicting the naivety of the "white Israelis/brown Palestinian" narrative that we see and hear (even on this thread).
The truth is far more complicated and multi layered than many people claim, and so many activists seem woefully ignorant.
Reducing it to slogans is not productive.

RealDiscussionNotHate · 09/10/2025 06:37

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:11

This would be me! I am a Yemenite Jew. Once we were thousands, in San’aa, Aden, Sha’arab, but today we are ZERO. We join our Iraqi, Iranian, Moroccan, Algerian, Libyan, Syrian, Egyptian, (insert MENA country of choice) who were forcibly exiled and ethnically cleansed from our countries with nowhere to go. No free hotel rooms and cable TV. No one to protest for us or to offer us refuge. We are the brown skinned Arab Jews you pretend do not exist. You tell us to go back to Poland because you are ignorant and hate Jews. We brown Arab speaking Jews had nowhere to go, so we made our way to where our ancestors once lived, to where our holiest sites were, to our temple walls. The few survivors from Europe found their way too. But of course the world did not like that the Jews were still alive, hence all the BS you read and hear today that rewrites our history and makes us out to be the oppressors. We, the most oppressed. I don’t know how the lies got so out of hand, I can only think that people believe what they want to be true.

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Beachtastic · 09/10/2025 06:26

Ayoopkid · 09/10/2025 01:05

Before they decided to break through the border and slaughter innocent Israelis, they used to go to work in droves to Israel. Egypt has a big border with them but us kit willing to take the risk. It is their own fault they are in this situation. I’m very sorry for them and my heart hurts for their children- but they made their decisions however everyone tries to frame it or justify it.

Hmm, I feel a right wanker for not fully grasping the "open prison" thing. Having seen the ferocity and sadism of 7/10, though, I do completely understand the need for those blockades by Egypt and Israel. Maybe everyone with any sense got out as soon as (or before) Hamas took over, leaving only fanatics?

confusedlady10 · 09/10/2025 01:23

EasyTouch · 08/10/2025 12:54

" Randomly out of nowhere" is the domestic abuser's " she made me do it" means of justification and lack of accountability.
But to further the point, why are Palestinians afforded the luxury of using history as justification for violence, but Israel not?
And why is this dependence upon bits and bobs of history ad justification for Palestinian violence and violence in her name then ignored and contemporary Gazan suffering inserted into debate when the Israeli position is being seen to be far more nuanced than " diablo!" , using citational history?

And why is terminology that is specific to Jewish suffering then inverted and used for Palestinians in a way that I have never seen in a debate pertaining to two opposing factions not involving Israel/Jews ( just getting ahead of the " language and meaning evolves !" deflection as explanation)?

If I had the time, I could bullet point the static mode of reasoning coming from the majority of "Pro Palestinian" posters online, including on CITME.
It does not suggest knowledge, depth, comprehension and suggests hyper emotionalism is a substitute for good character, as opposed to a sign of probable non optimum mental health.
And indeed it is , without contextual content , the enemy of debate.
In which case, why so scared of debate and even a soupcon of linear thought pertaining to this crisis?
Apparently now, the " genocide" has been going on since 2023.
Either the Pro Palestinians ( including the UN) do not know what a genocide is or there is a deliberate push to minimise Israeli suffering in order to justify its hopeful future annihilation in the eyes of the anti Semite UN and Pro Palestinians factions.
Maybe that is why the" Peace" Marchers only hold Israel as responsible for peace in a duo factional conflict?

I just don't enjoy people cherry picking history painting the Israeli government as protecting their land as victims of a war that started on Oct 7 as justification for genocide. What happened on Oct 7 was atrocious. What the Israeli government have been doing to Palestinians for years is way worse, especially considering the casualties with no acknowledgement because "clearly" again the war started on Oct 7...

Ayoopkid · 09/10/2025 01:05

Franpie · 09/10/2025 00:43

All borders in Gaza have been closed to people and goods since 2007, when Hamas took over.

The Palestinians are trapped. They are not choosing to stay because they support Hamas. There is no choice.

As I said, you used to be able to pay smugglers a small fortune to hopefully get you out on the Egyptian side, but no more. Hence the outrage and calls that this is genocide. Because no one can leave. So their only options are to die of famine or bombs.

Before they decided to break through the border and slaughter innocent Israelis, they used to go to work in droves to Israel. Egypt has a big border with them but us kit willing to take the risk. It is their own fault they are in this situation. I’m very sorry for them and my heart hurts for their children- but they made their decisions however everyone tries to frame it or justify it.

Franpie · 09/10/2025 00:43

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 21:47

I wish we did. It was interesting to read what you said about the cost of getting out. I have struggled with understanding with why anyone would choose to remain somewhere like that, with Hamas in charge.

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All borders in Gaza have been closed to people and goods since 2007, when Hamas took over.

The Palestinians are trapped. They are not choosing to stay because they support Hamas. There is no choice.

As I said, you used to be able to pay smugglers a small fortune to hopefully get you out on the Egyptian side, but no more. Hence the outrage and calls that this is genocide. Because no one can leave. So their only options are to die of famine or bombs.

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:47

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:37

This is simply not true!! The Allenby bridge used to be the only way to get to Jordan overland. And it is illegal to be employed in Jordan but living in another country. How do they pay taxes? Or is this a city like Ramallah where the Arabs do not allow Jews inside but live off their tax money? Make it make sense please.

Israel call it the Allenby Bridge, in Jordan it’s called the King Hussein Bridge.

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:42

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:37

This is simply not true!! The Allenby bridge used to be the only way to get to Jordan overland. And it is illegal to be employed in Jordan but living in another country. How do they pay taxes? Or is this a city like Ramallah where the Arabs do not allow Jews inside but live off their tax money? Make it make sense please.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9wd74r0qdvo.amp

I can’t comment on taxi drivers tax situation! I assume like a lot of Londoncabbies, they fiddle or don’t pay their taxes 🤷‍♀️

A sign for the Allenby crossing next to a motorway.

Palestinians in West Bank stranded as Israel shuts only international crossing - BBC News

Many have been unable to leave the territory since the Allenby Bridge crossing was shut indefinitely on Wednesday.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9wd74r0qdvo.amp

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:40

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:30

Oh and on whether I visited a synagogue, no I didn’t, I honestly can’t tell you whether there are any. As a Christian, I only visited Christian places of worship. I haven’t visited any synagogues in the UK either. I don't really think it’s terribly respectful to treat people’s places of worship as tourist destinations.

I did meet a couple of American Jewish tourists. I don’t think I came across any Jewish people living in Jordan. But why would they live there when Israel is just over the border?

I have travelled through Israel too many years ago and have very fond memories of the country and the people. In fact, I found it quite similar to Jordan which is unsurprising given the rural landscape is the same. If I was Jewish living in that region, I would definitely pick Israel to live in. It would be strange to live in Jordan.

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Well why would they indeed. I suppose why would there be Muslims in Israel if they have Jordan, Syria, Lebanon and Egypt just next door. Never mind that (oops) there are no Jewish citizens of Jordan. Such strange comments you are making. Maybe you’re one of these people who think they know more than the people who live there right? You have friends here you have friends there but you yourself, no clue.

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:37

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:22

Until a couple of weeks ago there was an easy border crossing between Amman, Jordan and the West Bank via the King Hussein Bridge. A lot of the taxi drivers in Amman actually live in the West Bank. I can only assume that they have now been forced to either leave their families to work or have left their jobs. Clearly you have never been to Jordan.

Why would I lie? Nowhere on this thread have I said whether I am pro Hamas or pro Israel government. I am neither. I am anti-war.

I do not judge the Palestinian people or the Israeli people any more than I would want to be judged as a British person for the Iraq war or the Boer war.

This is simply not true!! The Allenby bridge used to be the only way to get to Jordan overland. And it is illegal to be employed in Jordan but living in another country. How do they pay taxes? Or is this a city like Ramallah where the Arabs do not allow Jews inside but live off their tax money? Make it make sense please.

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:30

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:22

Until a couple of weeks ago there was an easy border crossing between Amman, Jordan and the West Bank via the King Hussein Bridge. A lot of the taxi drivers in Amman actually live in the West Bank. I can only assume that they have now been forced to either leave their families to work or have left their jobs. Clearly you have never been to Jordan.

Why would I lie? Nowhere on this thread have I said whether I am pro Hamas or pro Israel government. I am neither. I am anti-war.

I do not judge the Palestinian people or the Israeli people any more than I would want to be judged as a British person for the Iraq war or the Boer war.

Oh and on whether I visited a synagogue, no I didn’t, I honestly can’t tell you whether there are any. As a Christian, I only visited Christian places of worship. I haven’t visited any synagogues in the UK either. I don't really think it’s terribly respectful to treat people’s places of worship as tourist destinations.

I did meet a couple of American Jewish tourists. I don’t think I came across any Jewish people living in Jordan. But why would they live there when Israel is just over the border?

I have travelled through Israel too many years ago and have very fond memories of the country and the people. In fact, I found it quite similar to Jordan which is unsurprising given the rural landscape is the same. If I was Jewish living in that region, I would definitely pick Israel to live in. It would be strange to live in Jordan.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 08/10/2025 23:27

. I’m Jewish, (by conversion so doesn’t count to everyone). I am so anti genocide but also anti people being taken from their beds and held hostage. Same goes for attacks on synagogues and the like. All Jewish people I know are the same, we know some people like to pretend they think we are pro genocide so they can hate us but most people know that’s not the case for a lot of us.

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 23:23

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:19

Thank you. I’m promise you that you are on the right side of history. I spent 3 days reading this forum, all the comments about Israel and Jews and I promise you that when this is in the past and the truth emerges - 80% of these people will be considered like the Germans are considered before the Holocaust. I tell you one thing these people really get mad about: Jews fighting back and not being willing to get killed anymore.
Thank you.

Yes, it is outrageous that they think they are on the right side of history. The right side of social media, more like.

As they say, "Three things cannot be long hidden: the sun, the moon, and the truth."

Franpie · 08/10/2025 23:22

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 22:54

I don’t believe a word of this. Mainly due to the person commuting to a whole other country to work. Where do they commute from in the WB? Which border crossing with Jordan? You are lying to make a point. By the way, in Jordan did you visit a synagogue or meet any Jewish people?

Until a couple of weeks ago there was an easy border crossing between Amman, Jordan and the West Bank via the King Hussein Bridge. A lot of the taxi drivers in Amman actually live in the West Bank. I can only assume that they have now been forced to either leave their families to work or have left their jobs. Clearly you have never been to Jordan.

Why would I lie? Nowhere on this thread have I said whether I am pro Hamas or pro Israel government. I am neither. I am anti-war.

I do not judge the Palestinian people or the Israeli people any more than I would want to be judged as a British person for the Iraq war or the Boer war.

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:19

newusernamex1000 · 08/10/2025 23:16

Why am I pro Israel?

When I seen the Palestinians celebrating in the streets after 9/11 and the London bombing.

The way they treat gay people too.

Thank you. I’m promise you that you are on the right side of history. I spent 3 days reading this forum, all the comments about Israel and Jews and I promise you that when this is in the past and the truth emerges - 80% of these people will be considered like the Germans are considered before the Holocaust. I tell you one thing these people really get mad about: Jews fighting back and not being willing to get killed anymore.
Thank you.

newusernamex1000 · 08/10/2025 23:16

Why am I pro Israel?

When I seen the Palestinians celebrating in the streets after 9/11 and the London bombing.

The way they treat gay people too.

Ayoopkid · 08/10/2025 23:11

Nyungnyung · 08/10/2025 22:57

Have you considered all of the jews that were forcibly removed from the surrounding countries and had no choice but to move to Israel - and would not be safe living in any surrounding country?

This would be me! I am a Yemenite Jew. Once we were thousands, in San’aa, Aden, Sha’arab, but today we are ZERO. We join our Iraqi, Iranian, Moroccan, Algerian, Libyan, Syrian, Egyptian, (insert MENA country of choice) who were forcibly exiled and ethnically cleansed from our countries with nowhere to go. No free hotel rooms and cable TV. No one to protest for us or to offer us refuge. We are the brown skinned Arab Jews you pretend do not exist. You tell us to go back to Poland because you are ignorant and hate Jews. We brown Arab speaking Jews had nowhere to go, so we made our way to where our ancestors once lived, to where our holiest sites were, to our temple walls. The few survivors from Europe found their way too. But of course the world did not like that the Jews were still alive, hence all the BS you read and hear today that rewrites our history and makes us out to be the oppressors. We, the most oppressed. I don’t know how the lies got so out of hand, I can only think that people believe what they want to be true.

Beachtastic · 08/10/2025 23:09

How are you getting on with your "understanding" OP?