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Lolapusht · 31/08/2025 12:42

I find it interesting that many people on this thread seem to be more concerned about the pregnant women of Gaza than Hamas are.

Lolapusht · 31/08/2025 12:34

SmallChild · 31/08/2025 09:28

Why do none of the neighbouring Arab countries offer to help them?

Variety of reasons, but primarily because of past history of Palestinians causing civil unrest when they’re in other countries (see Black September, Lebanon, Kuwait). There’s also the view that if the civilian population is evacuated then they won’t be allowed back which the Arab states don’t want so they have to stay put.

It’s entirely possible for a large number of civilians to be evacuated…just see Ukraine. It’s yet another peculiarity with Palestine that the preferred options is to force millions of civilians to remain in an active war zone for political reasons.

Hamas also doesn’t want them to leave as then they lose their human shields. Through the warm Israel has been informing the civilians where they’re going to be operating and Hamas have been telling the people to stay put. They use the movement of their own people as a defensive strategy.

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 12:32

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 12:01

Seems it is a problem on both sides

”Golda Meir encouraged new settlers to ‘out birth’ the indigenous Arab population, and Yasser Arafat retaliated in the same vein.”

Yes, as I mentioned up thread I thought there had been pressure on some Israeli women to make sure they have babies to keep population levels growing. Not surprising when you consider the destruction of the Jewish population in so much of Europe. How it manifests itself in reality I know less about. Women in Israel have more rights than Palestinians e.g. marital rape is illegal in Israel but not in Gaza which will have a bearing on their relative autonomy and agency.

I can't see that quote in the link you put. Golda Meir was a long time ago. I don't think Hamas's expecting women to bear children is in response to her. The subjugation of women through childbirth is pretty characteristic of religious fundamentalism.

GladioliGreen · 31/08/2025 12:31

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:17

@SharonEllis yes if Gazan women have in some instances been raped that is truly appalling as I assured you earlier I think you will not find anyone sympathetic to rape on mumsnet, your insistence on concentrating on this hypothetical situation is deflecting from discussion of Gazan women’s current appalling situation and what can be done by fellow mothers to alleviate it. I write letters to politicians, donate but it really does not seem enough. I do not want pregnant women or any innocent civilians to be starved, mercilessly bombed while living in tents, or be denied pain relief or medical support because of Israel’s barbaric blockade

Yes i think it is incredibly important that we keep putting pressure on politicians to respond to this. I'm in the EU and have been writing to meps on this. Israel are in breach of our trade agreements and are the recipients of billions in funding from the EU. This needs to stop until they can begin acting in line with the values of the EU.

This situation reached crisis point a long time ago, Israel are moving forward with their plan to push the population south and this plan involves stopping aid to Northern Gaza in an attempt to starve people including pregnant women and children from their homes. It needs to end now.

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 12:01

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 11:55

But Hamas and the authoritarian fundamentalism they espouse has a bearing on this situation. And It was Arafat who said the Arab woman's womb was his greatest weapon, long before Hamas so I think there is a lot of culture to unpick here. Women bear the brunt, as always.

Seems it is a problem on both sides

”Golda Meir encouraged new settlers to ‘out birth’ the indigenous Arab population, and Yasser Arafat retaliated in the same vein.”

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SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 11:55

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:45

So are you suggesting that Palestinian women want to be bombed or starved? Or that the correct response to Muslim fundamentalism is to bomb and starve a whole population?

religious fundamentalism tends to thrive in times of crisis and despair but lose it’s attraction when populations are happy and thriving so would suggest bombing and starving and entire population not the way to go

But Hamas and the authoritarian fundamentalism they espouse has a bearing on this situation. And It was Arafat who said the Arab woman's womb was his greatest weapon, long before Hamas so I think there is a lot of culture to unpick here. Women bear the brunt, as always.

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:45

Hamiltonfan · 31/08/2025 11:36

Of course. She is happy for her children to be martyred. Hamas want Palestinian women to keep having babies so they (a) have more martyrs and (b) can blame their deaths on Israel.
As a society we should be questioning how we deal with this level of fundamentalism.

So are you suggesting that Palestinian women want to be bombed or starved? Or that the correct response to Muslim fundamentalism is to bomb and starve a whole population?

religious fundamentalism tends to thrive in times of crisis and despair but lose it’s attraction when populations are happy and thriving so would suggest bombing and starving and entire population not the way to go

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Twiglets1 · 31/08/2025 11:44

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:29

No I raised the issue that characterising the oppressed as rapists is a common racist trope, it has been used by such charming people as the KKK , used by the likes of Tommy Robinson to attack immigrants today.
The aim is to dehumanise a population and provide a sort of warped justification for any attacks on them,

But no one has been characterising the oppressed as rapists in this thread. It has been acknowledged that people in Gaza live under different laws to us in the West and thus a husband wouldn’t be accused of raping his wife even if she was reluctant. But we can still feel sorry for these women and babies.

We are not the KKK or Tommy Robinson, so please don’t compare us to them. We are women concerned about other women and questioning if they have all have choice about getting pregnant under what are extremely difficult circumstances to put it mildly.

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 11:43

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:29

No I raised the issue that characterising the oppressed as rapists is a common racist trope, it has been used by such charming people as the KKK , used by the likes of Tommy Robinson to attack immigrants today.
The aim is to dehumanise a population and provide a sort of warped justification for any attacks on them,

And I don't think acknowledging the behaviour of men and misogyny in Palestinian society justifies attacks on them. I do think some solidarity with Palestinian women would be justified.

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 11:38

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:29

No I raised the issue that characterising the oppressed as rapists is a common racist trope, it has been used by such charming people as the KKK , used by the likes of Tommy Robinson to attack immigrants today.
The aim is to dehumanise a population and provide a sort of warped justification for any attacks on them,

Noone was 'characterising the oppressed as rapists'. I and others merely pointed out that some women will have been raped and that that is an additional trauma in a horrible situation and then men had to shoulder some responsibility for the situation too.

Hamiltonfan · 31/08/2025 11:36

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:33

@Hamiltonfan can you explain the purpose of your post? What is your point?

Of course. She is happy for her children to be martyred. Hamas want Palestinian women to keep having babies so they (a) have more martyrs and (b) can blame their deaths on Israel.
As a society we should be questioning how we deal with this level of fundamentalism.

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:33

@Hamiltonfan can you explain the purpose of your post? What is your point?

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Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:29

No I raised the issue that characterising the oppressed as rapists is a common racist trope, it has been used by such charming people as the KKK , used by the likes of Tommy Robinson to attack immigrants today.
The aim is to dehumanise a population and provide a sort of warped justification for any attacks on them,

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Hamiltonfan · 31/08/2025 11:26

One problem is there are women like the one in this video who don't see their babies as humans but as martyrs to sacrifice for Hamas. How on earth do we rationalise this? x.com/EYakoby/status/1961830411178242444?t=AV0IvgKCJ_lKuZqeqr1W9Q&s=09

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 11:23

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:17

@SharonEllis yes if Gazan women have in some instances been raped that is truly appalling as I assured you earlier I think you will not find anyone sympathetic to rape on mumsnet, your insistence on concentrating on this hypothetical situation is deflecting from discussion of Gazan women’s current appalling situation and what can be done by fellow mothers to alleviate it. I write letters to politicians, donate but it really does not seem enough. I do not want pregnant women or any innocent civilians to be starved, mercilessly bombed while living in tents, or be denied pain relief or medical support because of Israel’s barbaric blockade

I wasn't concentrating on it. I was merely responding to the extraordinary pushback and the nasty personal attacks. If you now acknowledge that it will have happened will you know retract your comments calling me and others racist and spreading Israeli government propaganda?

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 11:17

@SharonEllis yes if Gazan women have in some instances been raped that is truly appalling as I assured you earlier I think you will not find anyone sympathetic to rape on mumsnet, your insistence on concentrating on this hypothetical situation is deflecting from discussion of Gazan women’s current appalling situation and what can be done by fellow mothers to alleviate it. I write letters to politicians, donate but it really does not seem enough. I do not want pregnant women or any innocent civilians to be starved, mercilessly bombed while living in tents, or be denied pain relief or medical support because of Israel’s barbaric blockade

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SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 11:15

GladioliGreen · 31/08/2025 11:08

And something that could solve the problem of starving pregnant women as per the thread is Israel letting aid agencies do what they are trained to do and feed people without arbitrary restrictions. Why are people not calling for this fix that could be implemented tomorrow?

All of this talking in circles whilst a government is purposefully starving these vulnerable women. Call for harsh sanctions on the government starving these women and wishing for their cleansing, end this now then chat about whether or not you think women should be pregnant in a war zone rather than doing it whilst watching them suffer.

I agree that letting in more aid is essential and that aid should be targetted at the most vulnerable. I've not seen anyone on this thread say otherwise.

As for your second paragraph, I'm afraid its not for you to determine what others should believe or do, and in what order. If someone doesn't want a discussion I'd suggest maybe a discussion board isnt the right place to post.

GladioliGreen · 31/08/2025 11:08

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 10:57

I think the point is that there are lots of problems and most people are capable of being outraged by more than one thing at once. Everyone has acknowledged that its a terrible situation. Nobody is disputing that. Its appalling.

I don't think anyone has expressed outrage that women are pregnant. What is strange is the outrage expressed when people have explored why women in this situation are pregnant. How could anyone who ares about women and babies not be interested in exploring that? If you're not interested that is actually ok, but to accuse people of thinking it is worth exploring of being shameful, disgusting, racist? Really? On a parenting site?

And I will never apologise for thinking women shouldn't be coerced into sex. It is a well documented fact that it happens in all conflict. There is nothing wrong or racist in pointing out that it will have happened in this conflict and anyone who claims it must not be spoken of is doing Palestinian women a disservice.

And something that could solve the problem of starving pregnant women as per the thread is Israel letting aid agencies do what they are trained to do and feed people without arbitrary restrictions. Why are people not calling for this fix that could be implemented tomorrow?

All of this talking in circles whilst a government is purposefully starving these vulnerable women. Call for harsh sanctions on the government starving these women and wishing for their cleansing, end this now then chat about whether or not you think women should be pregnant in a war zone rather than doing it whilst watching them suffer.

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 10:57

GladioliGreen · 31/08/2025 10:42

What should we be outraged by here, women being pregnant or pregnant women being purposefully starved? One is a war crime, the other is people seeking comfort in each other when they have no idea if they will make it to the next hour never mind the next day.

If I were living in the most dangerous place on earth you bet I would be keeping my children close, keeping my husband close(and yes that would involve intimacy) seeing my extended family as often as I could because what else is there?

The problem is not pregnant women, the problem is the government that has openly expressed their wish to ethnically cleanse these women and their babies and are actively starving them.

I think the point is that there are lots of problems and most people are capable of being outraged by more than one thing at once. Everyone has acknowledged that its a terrible situation. Nobody is disputing that. Its appalling.

I don't think anyone has expressed outrage that women are pregnant. What is strange is the outrage expressed when people have explored why women in this situation are pregnant. How could anyone who ares about women and babies not be interested in exploring that? If you're not interested that is actually ok, but to accuse people of thinking it is worth exploring of being shameful, disgusting, racist? Really? On a parenting site?

And I will never apologise for thinking women shouldn't be coerced into sex. It is a well documented fact that it happens in all conflict. There is nothing wrong or racist in pointing out that it will have happened in this conflict and anyone who claims it must not be spoken of is doing Palestinian women a disservice.

GladioliGreen · 31/08/2025 10:42

PollyBell · 31/08/2025 09:17

How long has thexwar been going? Why on earth get pregnant in the first place and I dont care what people label this if you are living in a war zone or other bad environment no matter where in the world, yes including uk, there is absolutely no way you care about children to get pregnant it about what adults want not what is best for children

What should we be outraged by here, women being pregnant or pregnant women being purposefully starved? One is a war crime, the other is people seeking comfort in each other when they have no idea if they will make it to the next hour never mind the next day.

If I were living in the most dangerous place on earth you bet I would be keeping my children close, keeping my husband close(and yes that would involve intimacy) seeing my extended family as often as I could because what else is there?

The problem is not pregnant women, the problem is the government that has openly expressed their wish to ethnically cleanse these women and their babies and are actively starving them.

SharonEllis · 31/08/2025 09:48

@Everexpanding why are you repeating your accusation that people are being racist and involved in spreading Israeli government propaganda?

Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 09:40

Sorry for repost

The point of this thread was to highlight the dire situation of pregnant Palestinian women
and to discuss any possible way mumsnetters as fellow women and mothers could help to alleviate their suffering.
I asked politely numerous times that it not be derailed so to get it back on track please see below a description of what Gazan women are experiencing
“Sometimes Israeli military action and displacement mean that women are giving birth in their tents or shelters with no medical help.
"If mothers are lucky enough to come to the hospitals to deliver their babies, women who give birth vaginally are typically being sent home three to four hours afterwards," says Sandra Adler Killen, an American registered emergency and paediatric nurse, who recently worked at the hospital in Gaza.
"Women who have had surgical C-sections [Caesareans] are discharged after 24 hours," she said.
"They're discharged to their homes quite often with babies who have conditions and various issues that in normal circumstances we would have stay at the hospital to get more support.
"Most babies, outside of Gaza, born under 32 weeks, under 1,400g (3.1lb), they would be in the NICU [neo-natal intensive care unit]. These babies are sent home. There's just no space for them
any suggestions for actions welcome. Any hasbara or racist talking points are not

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Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 09:31

No I do not want an argument you have deliberately distracted from the point of this thread

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Everexpanding · 31/08/2025 09:29

Twiglets1 · 31/08/2025 09:19

Yes I am the Taskmaster (not!)

Well thanks to your little team this thread is still active and hopefully some people may read about the conditions of pregnant Palestinian women and actually want to help.
not blame the women for getting pregnant rather than Israel for dropping bombs on their homes, starving them and blocking medical supplies

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SmallChild · 31/08/2025 09:28

Why do none of the neighbouring Arab countries offer to help them?

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