One of the biggest misconceptions I see on this board is that people are determined that there are two (mutually exclusive) camps and this is a kind of football match where you support one or the other. No. This is a complex conflict with (internal) political, national, and international elements, all of which are factors in the negotiations currently going on.
I'm a Jewish Israeli. I have lived here before and after Oct 7th, and I will continue to do so. Decisions about the future directly affect me and my family, and the conflict directly affects us: and yesterday there was a terror attack not far from where I live, somewhere I drive past pretty regularly.
And still. I refuse to see this as a zero-sum conflict. Everyone living between the river and the sea deserves better. Everyone deserves better leadership. The only way we will ameliorate this conflict is to make things better for BOTH Israelis and Palestinians. I'm not a wide-eyed idealist, and I don't think that a peace treaty is about to be signed with white doves flying in the air carrying olive branches. Probably change will be incremental. But both Palestinians and Israelis are dismally let down by the kind of attitude we see on this board every day, with constant bickering and sniping and attempts at any cost to increase distrust. Yes, there is distrust, and there is a long way to go, but people outside the region fanning the flames only empowers intransigent elements like Hamas and Netanyahu and the Israeli far right whose political survival relies on a no-compromise, zero sum narrative, and whose political approaches have been shown again and again to fail to provide security or a better future for their people.
I'm often, frankly, appalled where the bitterness and bad faith around this conflict is far stronger on this internet board among people who have never even been to the region let alone actually reading the languages so they can be properly informed, than it is among the real people on the ground living this conflict.