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Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 18:35

It’s horrifying to hear the experiences of Muslims and Jews . What can the rest of us do to ensure things get better? In my workplace ( teacher) we are able to promote interfaith dialogue and the young people I deal with are brilliantly respectful towards each other . To be honest I learn a lot from them . But I know it’s not like that for all young people.

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 18:31

SallyWD · 18/11/2024 18:18

Must there always be a debate though? Yes open debate and discussion is very important but sometimes there's a complete pile on.
Take this thread as an example. A Muslim woman posts an article on a report. The report states that Muslims are disproportionately victims of assault, more than any other religious group. This follows a summer of riots where we saw Muslims being targeted and attacked.
However, of course there's no space to have any sympathy or concern for Muslims who feel frightened. Immediately, the posts start coming in: Muslims mark their territory by praying, Muslims don't integrate, Muslims don't respect women, what about asylum seekers being accommodated in hotels? A Muslim man didn't shake my hand etc etc. On and in it goes. None of which had anything to do with the article.
Imagine being a Muslim and sharing something concerning for support. Instead, you're bombarded with a relentless list of everything that's wrong with Muslims, examples of every bad Muslim people have come across. It's not just this thread - it's every single thread where Muslims are mentioned. Imagine how emotionally exhausting this is when you're just a normal person trying to live a peaceful life.
Imagine if white British people were treated like this.

Yes - I completely accept that.
I wasn’t responsible for the thread being derailed but I did add to the derailment 😣.

I completely accept your point that it was wrong that the original topic was sidelined . Apologies for contributing to that.
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SallyWD · 18/11/2024 18:18

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 14:18

It’s people who shut down debate who encourage the likes of Farage and Tommy Robinson.
Rebut the claims with evidence rather than call it incitement to hate …

Must there always be a debate though? Yes open debate and discussion is very important but sometimes there's a complete pile on.
Take this thread as an example. A Muslim woman posts an article on a report. The report states that Muslims are disproportionately victims of assault, more than any other religious group. This follows a summer of riots where we saw Muslims being targeted and attacked.
However, of course there's no space to have any sympathy or concern for Muslims who feel frightened. Immediately, the posts start coming in: Muslims mark their territory by praying, Muslims don't integrate, Muslims don't respect women, what about asylum seekers being accommodated in hotels? A Muslim man didn't shake my hand etc etc. On and in it goes. None of which had anything to do with the article.
Imagine being a Muslim and sharing something concerning for support. Instead, you're bombarded with a relentless list of everything that's wrong with Muslims, examples of every bad Muslim people have come across. It's not just this thread - it's every single thread where Muslims are mentioned. Imagine how emotionally exhausting this is when you're just a normal person trying to live a peaceful life.
Imagine if white British people were treated like this.

MissyB1 · 18/11/2024 18:10

Thank you for this thread @Scirocco the article expresses so much of what I've been saying to anyone who will listen (and some that don't want to!)

Our politicians should hang their heads in shame, the constant stirring up of divisions between different cultures /races/faiths in the UK to try and win votes is despicable. No wonder the racists have felt so emboldened in the last few years. This year feels even worse, for me the riots were definitely linked to Government obsession about migrants. And as we see on this thread for many people migrant = Muslim!

The increase in Islamaphobia on mumsnet is a reflection of the increase in general society. How depressing.

Oodiks · 18/11/2024 16:59

Batmanisaplaceinturkey · 18/11/2024 08:04

We pray five times a day. The other day I prayed in the park while my kid was on the swings. But according to you I was trying to mark territory yeah?

The PP is talking about taking over large public spaces to pray; were you in a large group when you prayed by the swings?

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/11/2024 16:56

Limesodaagain · 18/11/2024 14:18

It’s people who shut down debate who encourage the likes of Farage and Tommy Robinson.
Rebut the claims with evidence rather than call it incitement to hate …

A sensible post, Limesodaagain

Outright lies are obviously unhelpful, but then only an uninformed idiot would believe some of them, and what worries me more is the shutting down of more balanced comments where posters have a point that some would just prefer not to be made

It happens a lot on here, and doesn't seem very helpful either

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 16:49

jannier · 18/11/2024 16:45

No but it's not just one attacking the other it's awful anyone lives somewhere they don't feel safe but it isn't one sided ...it seems to be the human condition to attack differences and to expect others to do what you do regardless.
In this case it was a public swimming pool we were told in no uncertain terms that we were not to be there and only to attend women only sessions a group of 15 to 20 men surrounding you is intimidating.

Did you report this to the pool and police? What did they do? You shouldn't have to stop going anywhere and spitting on anyone is an assault.

jannier · 18/11/2024 16:45

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 15:18

None thankfully and what you went through is not right. Just not sure what does your comment want to imply with the thread. Is like you’re trying to justify the attacks OP is suffering because some Muslim men spat at you in the past. And also, a reminder that not only Muslim men spat at women

No but it's not just one attacking the other it's awful anyone lives somewhere they don't feel safe but it isn't one sided ...it seems to be the human condition to attack differences and to expect others to do what you do regardless.
In this case it was a public swimming pool we were told in no uncertain terms that we were not to be there and only to attend women only sessions a group of 15 to 20 men surrounding you is intimidating.

Octavia64 · 18/11/2024 16:43

Christians do pray outside.

In my previous parish they still had the custom of beating the bounds - so one day in spring the vicar and some parishioners would go out and walk around the boundaries of the parish and stop and pray at nominated points.

On Palm Sunday it is completely normal for the vicar and congregation to parade as part of the service - in my previous parish it was literally just round the church but bigger and longer parades are also normal. That's usually singing rather than praying though.

I think any religion should be able to pray in public (unless it is done deliberately to intimidate eg around abortion clinics)

jannier · 18/11/2024 16:40

Dulra · 18/11/2024 16:29

Google passion plays there have been loads. This one took place on the streets of Gloucester last year

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-gloucestershire-65213690

Lovely tradition and as we're open to others beliefs and parades a great thing.

Dulra · 18/11/2024 16:29

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:36

Wow I'm 60 and have never seen that. We do have various festivals here a big Sikh community down the road that does parades and Friday is very big in town at the various Mosques

Google passion plays there have been loads. This one took place on the streets of Gloucester last year

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-gloucestershire-65213690

Re-enactment showing Jesus carrying a cross flanked by Roman soldiers

Crowds watch Way of the Cross passion play in Gloucester

Actors performed the story of Jesus' final hours in the streets of Gloucester to mark Good Friday.

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-gloucestershire-65213690

Comedycook · 18/11/2024 16:28

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 13:34

Guess you are the 6%

Forgot to ask...what point are you trying to make here?

AlteredStater · 18/11/2024 16:28

BoydTheApe · 18/11/2024 15:39

You say that like it's a bad thing.

Policing people for what they are thinking about IS a bad thing!

Usernamesareboring1 · 18/11/2024 16:23

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:36

Wow I'm 60 and have never seen that. We do have various festivals here a big Sikh community down the road that does parades and Friday is very big in town at the various Mosques

It's always been a thing where I've lived. The local Parishes follow a route through town following a cross on Palm Sunday singing etc and again on Easter Sunday all the congregations join together and go between each church in a parade of sorts.

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 15:55

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:27

Was that with a church group? Scouts are multi faith and all denomination leaders are invited.

It was arranged by the local legion , scouts attended it but not the organiser

SallyWD · 18/11/2024 15:55

Skate76 · 18/11/2024 15:50

I take it what is happening to women in Afghanistan is completely passing you by.

Of course not. I'm talking about the British who claim they are being silenced. I was responding to such a poster.

Scirocco · 18/11/2024 15:52

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:36

Wow I'm 60 and have never seen that. We do have various festivals here a big Sikh community down the road that does parades and Friday is very big in town at the various Mosques

Lots of public celebrations here too, and where various family members are around the UK.

OP posts:
Skate76 · 18/11/2024 15:50

SallyWD · 18/11/2024 08:36

I keep hearing that people "aren't allowed" to say things, yet every time I go on X, I see the most vile and hateful statements about Muslims. Yesterday, I saw a post from Laurence Fox. I can't remember the exact words, but you can look it up if you wish. He was using words about Islam such as "child raping", "death cult" "force the women to put a bag over their heads" "pernicious evil", and he described any areas where Muslims live as "shit holes".
Yet people are being silenced, are they?? It's absolute nonsense.
Spend ten minutes on X or even Facebook sometimes, and you'll easily find the most offensive and hideous Islamaphobia.
I've no time for people who claim they aren't allowed to speak out.

I take it what is happening to women in Afghanistan is completely passing you by.

BoydTheApe · 18/11/2024 15:39

AlteredStater · 18/11/2024 11:24

Well, if you pray silently in your head against abortion and you live in an exclusion zone around an abortion clinic, you can be arrested. No joke!

https://www.thefp.com/p/abortion-buffer-zones-united-kingdom-free-speech-arrested-for-praying-in-her-head

You say that like it's a bad thing.

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:36

Ohthatsabitshit · 18/11/2024 14:34

Rural uk. Here and in the last three towns I have lived in. Often it’s on Palm Sunday ( this is the Sunday before Easter sunday when Jesus rode on the donkey and was welcomed as the king of kings, followed here (and I think in the other towns but I can’t honestly remember attending) following the cross from church to church in Easter week. At Christmas there are obviously outside carols and prayers, and at harvest festival in the autumn….

Wow I'm 60 and have never seen that. We do have various festivals here a big Sikh community down the road that does parades and Friday is very big in town at the various Mosques

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:27

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 13:52

I attended my son’s remembrance parade last week in the street. There was a priest who did pray, it wasn’t multi faith but Christian

Was that with a church group? Scouts are multi faith and all denomination leaders are invited.

EllaDisenchanted · 18/11/2024 15:23

Scirocco · 18/11/2024 14:31

I think there's a lot of similarities, yes, and feelings now of being unsafe (both individually and as communities) in ways that feel more overt than they used to. Safety in our homes, our places of worship, our local areas... The very black and white narratives in mainstream media and social media feel like they're reinforcing this. It feels like we need to start back at the beginning with rebuilding connections. I've been doing some work on an interfaith/multi-cultural initiative with pre-schools recently, which has been going ok so far.

Social media is a cesspit. I don't even know if it can be fixed. It's like once people had a place to air every disgusting thought behind a screen of relative anonymity, they just went for it, and then this drives and feeds into what happens in real life. People are emboldened, because they see they have support online.
I think a lot of trust in MSM went post covid, so conspiracy theories are flourishing.

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 15:18

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:09

How many times have you been spat on for swimming?

None thankfully and what you went through is not right. Just not sure what does your comment want to imply with the thread. Is like you’re trying to justify the attacks OP is suffering because some Muslim men spat at you in the past. And also, a reminder that not only Muslim men spat at women

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:09

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 13:54

And? do non Muslim men leave women alone ? Is Islamophobia ok because 2 Muslim men didn’t leave you alone ?

Edited

How many times have you been spat on for swimming?

jannier · 18/11/2024 15:08

EasterIssland · 18/11/2024 13:54

And? do non Muslim men leave women alone ? Is Islamophobia ok because 2 Muslim men didn’t leave you alone ?

Edited

When you have men telling you that your immoral and should not be there it is not islamaphobia

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