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"You see us burning, you stay silent..."

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Scirocco · 19/10/2024 16:37

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cr54y0qplgvo

Please, read, listen and see what is being done to innocent people here.

Remember them.

Now, perhaps more than at any previous time in history, we can easily know the human cost of hate and violence, and the human cost of looking away.

Remember them. And remember all the other innocent people who have died and continue to die because of hatred and because of apathy.

A selfie taken by Sha'aban al-Dalou showing him and his family. He is a young man of 19 in a blue t-shirt, standing in the foreground, with six relatives aged from childhood to middle age smiling behind him. Some of the children are making thumbs-up ge...

'You see us burning, you stay silent': Family’s agony over mother and sons burned to death in Gaza tent

Ahmed al-Dalou lost his wife and two sons after an Israeli strike burned their tent near Gaza’s Al-Aqsa hospital.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cr54y0qplgvo

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Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 17:18

Dulra · 24/10/2024 17:04

That the huge loss of civilian life in Gaza is seen by many posters as collateral damage and a necessary consequence of war

This is a very disingenuous reply as you know we were not talking about civilians as collateral damage.
I said “And the memory of Hiroshima and Nagasaki has meant a widespread acceptance that it must never happen again. So some good came out of something terrible.”
You seem to wilfully misinterpret posts

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 17:13

ProgressivePilgrim · 24/10/2024 17:09

Yes, same. I guess it's not something I usually discuss with people, as it's just assumed that everyone would agree that it's a horrifying thought. This thread, and others on here have been eye-opening for sure.

But no one has said that atomic weapons are ok in 2024 … Perhaps re read what was said and don’t rely on other people’s misinterpretations

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 17:11

Dulra · 24/10/2024 17:04

That the huge loss of civilian life in Gaza is seen by many posters as collateral damage and a necessary consequence of war

But how is the atomic bomb linked to Gaza ?

Dulra · 24/10/2024 17:11

LetThereBeLove · 24/10/2024 17:00

I am 'so sure' as you put it because my father was fully aware of what happened to the Forgotten Army as the Allies in the Far East were known.

I have no doubt your father was but you have to accept there are alternatives viewpoints as there is with many historical events.

I am well aware of the forgotten army I have read a few books on their experiences which were horrific and inhumane. I am not for one minute suggesting what happened to them is justified either.

ProgressivePilgrim · 24/10/2024 17:09

Lalaloveya · 24/10/2024 16:53

Mumsnet is the only place I've ever seen this view expressed.

Yes, same. I guess it's not something I usually discuss with people, as it's just assumed that everyone would agree that it's a horrifying thought. This thread, and others on here have been eye-opening for sure.

Chichimcgee · 24/10/2024 17:05

Honestly I know I'll get flamed for this but I can't do anything to help.
There are so many atrocities happening every single day in every single country. Governments don't listen and don't care. I can't physically care about every single person awful things are happening to because I would literally break down.

Dulra · 24/10/2024 17:04

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 17:01

? ? What do you mean

That the huge loss of civilian life in Gaza is seen by many posters as collateral damage and a necessary consequence of war

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 17:01

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:55

Same. Explains a lot though

? ? What do you mean

LetThereBeLove · 24/10/2024 17:00

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:47

FFS it depends on whose analysis you read. No idea why you are so sure.
I'm not getting into an argument on the atomic bomb. My view is never going to change on it. For me it is not morally or ethically justifiable

I am 'so sure' as you put it because my father was fully aware of what happened to the Forgotten Army as the Allies in the Far East were known.

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 16:58

ProgressivePilgrim · 24/10/2024 16:50

It genuinely makes me feel physically sick that in 2024 people think dropping an atomic bomb on an entire civilian population is acceptable. I'm shattered 😔

No one is saying dropping atomic bombs is acceptable. Nothing about war is acceptable. I simply said it was regarded , at the time, as leading to less loss of life than the alternative.
In 2024 We’re all against war and against dropping atomic bombs ( I hope)

LetThereBeLove · 24/10/2024 16:57

Scirocco · 24/10/2024 16:53

@LetThereBeLove

I am sorry for your family's losses and ordeals. In Islam we would say: May Allah grant you all shifaa (healing) and may He grant all those unjustly slain a place in Jannat al-Firdaus (heaven). I'm sorry, I don't know what the equivalent would be in Judaism, so I hope it doesn't cause offence for me to extend that wish for your family and for all who suffered and continue to suffer from that dark, dark time. I truly wish that the world could stop all this hatred and violence.

Thank you so much. I follow your empathetic posts on CITME and know we are on the same page. I can only wish us all shalom and hope that the disaster that has befallen your family and mine will end soon x

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:55

Lalaloveya · 24/10/2024 16:53

Mumsnet is the only place I've ever seen this view expressed.

Same. Explains a lot though

Lalaloveya · 24/10/2024 16:53

ProgressivePilgrim · 24/10/2024 16:50

It genuinely makes me feel physically sick that in 2024 people think dropping an atomic bomb on an entire civilian population is acceptable. I'm shattered 😔

Mumsnet is the only place I've ever seen this view expressed.

Scirocco · 24/10/2024 16:53

@LetThereBeLove

I am sorry for your family's losses and ordeals. In Islam we would say: May Allah grant you all shifaa (healing) and may He grant all those unjustly slain a place in Jannat al-Firdaus (heaven). I'm sorry, I don't know what the equivalent would be in Judaism, so I hope it doesn't cause offence for me to extend that wish for your family and for all who suffered and continue to suffer from that dark, dark time. I truly wish that the world could stop all this hatred and violence.

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ProgressivePilgrim · 24/10/2024 16:50

It genuinely makes me feel physically sick that in 2024 people think dropping an atomic bomb on an entire civilian population is acceptable. I'm shattered 😔

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:47

LetThereBeLove · 24/10/2024 16:41

FFS the allies were NOT winning in the Far East.

FFS it depends on whose analysis you read. No idea why you are so sure.
I'm not getting into an argument on the atomic bomb. My view is never going to change on it. For me it is not morally or ethically justifiable

LetThereBeLove · 24/10/2024 16:41

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:25

Are you suggesting it was an either or? It clearly wasn't. The war may have lasted longer but the allies were on track to win. 200,000 innocent civilians died in the most horrific way possible that is never justified. They were not combatants like the POW were. It was an ugly horrible war which led to the Geneva convention and thankfully we have not seen anything like it on its scale again. It does scare me though that countries still have atomic bombs even more powerful that could wipe us all out with the touch of a button.

FFS the allies were NOT winning in the Far East.

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:36

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 16:33

https://www.history.co.uk/article/what-if-hiroshima-and-nagasaki-never-happened#

The conventional view is that more lives were saved in the long term.

And the memory of Hiroshima and Nagasaki has meant a widespread acceptance that it must never happen again. So some good came out of something terrible.

I think you'll find there is not any one view on this and military historians have debated it for decades there's for and against on both sides I'm very much against.

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 16:34

I hope that when peace comes to Gaza there is a real focus on making sure none of this happens again . That would be the best memorial for the victims.

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 16:33

https://www.history.co.uk/article/what-if-hiroshima-and-nagasaki-never-happened#

The conventional view is that more lives were saved in the long term.

And the memory of Hiroshima and Nagasaki has meant a widespread acceptance that it must never happen again. So some good came out of something terrible.

What if Hiroshima and Nagasaki never happened?

Imagine an alternative timeline where the Allies had failed to develop ‘the most terrible bomb in the history of the world'

https://www.history.co.uk/article/what-if-hiroshima-and-nagasaki-never-happened#

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:30

Out of curiosity would people here who feel dropping the atomic bomb in Japan was in some way justified feel the same if it was used again? What would be the scenario now that you think it could be used? Israel/ Gaza has been rumbling on for decades would the atomic bomb on Gaza solve it and end it quickly?

I'm with this year's nobel peace prize winners this year

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2024_Nobel_Peace_Prize#:~:text=The%202024%20Nobel%20Peace%20Prize%20was%20awarded%20to%20Nihon%20Hidanky%C5%8D,must%20never%20be%20used%20again%22.

2024 Nobel Peace Prize - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/2024_Nobel_Peace_Prize#:~:text=The%202024%20Nobel%20Peace%20Prize%20was%20awarded%20to%20Nihon%20Hidanky%C5%8D,must%20never%20be%20used%20again%22.

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:25

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 16:18

What outcome would you have preferred?

Im just not sure why you think a long protracted war in the far east - rumbling on for years - would be preferable?

There is no “good” way to end a war .

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Are you suggesting it was an either or? It clearly wasn't. The war may have lasted longer but the allies were on track to win. 200,000 innocent civilians died in the most horrific way possible that is never justified. They were not combatants like the POW were. It was an ugly horrible war which led to the Geneva convention and thankfully we have not seen anything like it on its scale again. It does scare me though that countries still have atomic bombs even more powerful that could wipe us all out with the touch of a button.

Limesodaagain · 24/10/2024 16:18

Dulra · 24/10/2024 16:11

If those bombs hadn't been dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki men like my father (a Japanese POW brutalised for over 4 years) would have died alongside all other POWs
So to save them 200,000 innocent civilians had to die? Why were their lives worth so much less? I'm sorry I don't get this argument to justify the atomic bomb.

International Humanitarian laws were established after these events to protect ALL innocent civilians not just those on the winning side.

What outcome would you have preferred?

Im just not sure why you think a long protracted war in the far east - rumbling on for years - would be preferable?

There is no “good” way to end a war .

ProgressivePilgrim · 24/10/2024 16:18

It's shocking to me that some people seem to justify what Israel's far right government are doing to innocent Palestinian civilians on the grounds of Hamas and October 7th. I think we all agree that Hamas' actions on October 7th were completely horrific. That goes without saying. But, Israel is clearly using it as an excuse to try and wipe out an entire population. It's just so obvious at this point. They're deliberately targeting innocents.
Imagine the outcry if the UK government had responded to IRA attacks by carpet bombing all of civilian Ireland? The UK government's been bad enough over the years, but thankfully didn't sink to those depths.
I feel Israel and its allies, and much of our own media is gaslighting us at this point - I'm horrified by what's going on, completely shocked, and they keep trying to tell us it's normal behaviour from Israel!? It's not normal, it's utterly insane!

Auvergne63 · 24/10/2024 16:17

RAplusOne · 24/10/2024 15:47

Auvergne,

Law is set by precedents. How do you see the UK Firebombing of Dresden and Hamburg. The allied destruction of Hiroshima with an A bomb? All indiscriminate targeting of civilian centres. Blockades also prevented food and aid reaching civilians.

These events have been accepted as bad but necessary events within the laws of war. And they have to some extent set the precedent here.

I think you need to read up on the Geneva convention and its 1949 and 1977 protocols.
The 1949 protocol was put in place following WW2, following the events you mention in order to make sure that they could never be repeated.
If they happened today, they would be classified as war crimes. I view them as such.