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New Hamas video of hostages

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Muthaofcats · 22/05/2024 17:00

The new Hamas video released today of the female hostages selected as the ones they planned to get pregnant was so sickening and I wish I hadn’t seen it.

however, I am also wondering WHY it has not been more widely picked up and broadcast? I don’t understand the silence from the bleeding left; why don’t they see stuff like this and not just feel desperate and sick about those poor poor girls and their families who must be beyond devastated.

Watching the men in those videos helps to counter balance the idea of Israel as the aggressor. I wish more would see it and reflect or even just place those women of equal value to those in Gaza.

How is the world so perverse right now that this warrants a shrug from so many? Or worse, is viewed as justified !?

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Muthaofcats · 22/05/2024 21:26

ChickyBricky · 22/05/2024 21:19

I'd be sincerely grateful if whoever reported my post could explain what caused offence. Was it the use of the word "Islamofascism"? What else are we supposed to call Hamas and its activities?

It's precisely this kind of heavy-handed censorship that worries me sick. How are we supposed to tackle the current situation if we are not even allowed to describe it in plain speech?

Or is there some other preferred terminology? Please educate me if so.

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I was really confused as to why it had been deleted too.

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ChickyBricky · 22/05/2024 21:19

I'd be sincerely grateful if whoever reported my post could explain what caused offence. Was it the use of the word "Islamofascism"? What else are we supposed to call Hamas and its activities?

It's precisely this kind of heavy-handed censorship that worries me sick. How are we supposed to tackle the current situation if we are not even allowed to describe it in plain speech?

Or is there some other preferred terminology? Please educate me if so.

Ategnatos · 22/05/2024 20:55

I'm sure all the people who cried "there was no rape" and "they treat the hostages well" will be quick to apologise. Especially the poster who started a whole thread about how the rape claims were "disproven" because some antisemite they follow on x said so.

ChickyBricky · 22/05/2024 20:44

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SharonEllis · 22/05/2024 20:33

Muthaofcats · 22/05/2024 20:16

I am also a British jew and the videos I saw traumatised me so much that I just cried and cried for about 2 weeks solid.

Would just pace around sobbing and howling and couldn’t focus on my work and had to stop looking for my own mental health.

I was truly shocked by the generational trauma it stirred in me (having relatives persecuted and forced to flee their homeland and others sent to auschwitz).

Was also not expecting the terror it stirred in me; growing up as a child learning of the Holocaust I hated being told that I was Jewish, I felt so ashamed and furious that this was my race because I was so frightened by it all. I just wished it wouldn’t apply to me. It felt so unfair and I hated I had no choice in the matter. I faced anti Jewish comments at school but largely as an adult thought it was no longer a real threat and even started to feel pride for my heritage and what we have all overcome.

october 7th shook me to my core, but the silence after, and the swell of anti semitism since has felt dystopian. Not one of my friends messaged or wanted to talk about it and any efforts to bring it up were quickly dismissed.

I can’t quite believe it is happening and I am having pretty paranoid thoughts about wishing my kids didn’t have Jewish sounding surnames or flinching when my ‘heritage’ comes up in conversations and wondering if I’m imagining people treating me differently or not. One school mum hasn’t spoken to me since it came up in conversation that I’m Jewish. Maybe it’s coincidence. This is the level of my paranoia now.

These threads are a bit like picking at a scab; I guess I engage with them hoping to be proved wrong and to be reassured that the majority of people are good and decent and it’s still only a small edge case of nut jobs that feel hatred for Jewish people and justify what is happening to Israelis. But when you see so many marching along side the islamist extremists who are protesting for Israel’s destruction, and failing to acknowledge the pain of the hostages and families, it feels so lonely and confusing.

But my existential fear is nothing compared with what people actually living in this hell day to day are going through.

I just can’t see how one wouldn’t understand Israel needing to defend itself after watching the footage. I’m not saying it means Israel are or aren’t conducting the war proportionately - that’s a quite separate issue. But in terms of justifying Israel’s right to defend itself, it’s pretty compelling and I don’t understand how reticent people are to accept that.

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I don't really have words to adequately respond to your post. A Jewish friend of mine said he had never felt that he had experienced antisemitism before but was utterly floored by October 7. He said it felt deeply personal for the first time in his life and it made me realise how profound this trauma is and how we must listen.

Muthaofcats · 22/05/2024 20:16

I am also a British jew and the videos I saw traumatised me so much that I just cried and cried for about 2 weeks solid.

Would just pace around sobbing and howling and couldn’t focus on my work and had to stop looking for my own mental health.

I was truly shocked by the generational trauma it stirred in me (having relatives persecuted and forced to flee their homeland and others sent to auschwitz).

Was also not expecting the terror it stirred in me; growing up as a child learning of the Holocaust I hated being told that I was Jewish, I felt so ashamed and furious that this was my race because I was so frightened by it all. I just wished it wouldn’t apply to me. It felt so unfair and I hated I had no choice in the matter. I faced anti Jewish comments at school but largely as an adult thought it was no longer a real threat and even started to feel pride for my heritage and what we have all overcome.

october 7th shook me to my core, but the silence after, and the swell of anti semitism since has felt dystopian. Not one of my friends messaged or wanted to talk about it and any efforts to bring it up were quickly dismissed.

I can’t quite believe it is happening and I am having pretty paranoid thoughts about wishing my kids didn’t have Jewish sounding surnames or flinching when my ‘heritage’ comes up in conversations and wondering if I’m imagining people treating me differently or not. One school mum hasn’t spoken to me since it came up in conversation that I’m Jewish. Maybe it’s coincidence. This is the level of my paranoia now.

These threads are a bit like picking at a scab; I guess I engage with them hoping to be proved wrong and to be reassured that the majority of people are good and decent and it’s still only a small edge case of nut jobs that feel hatred for Jewish people and justify what is happening to Israelis. But when you see so many marching along side the islamist extremists who are protesting for Israel’s destruction, and failing to acknowledge the pain of the hostages and families, it feels so lonely and confusing.

But my existential fear is nothing compared with what people actually living in this hell day to day are going through.

I just can’t see how one wouldn’t understand Israel needing to defend itself after watching the footage. I’m not saying it means Israel are or aren’t conducting the war proportionately - that’s a quite separate issue. But in terms of justifying Israel’s right to defend itself, it’s pretty compelling and I don’t understand how reticent people are to accept that.

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ssd · 22/05/2024 20:04

That's really bad @PurpleChrayn. I guess at times like these you really find out who your friends are. I spoke to a close friend who's dh is Jewish with family in Israel. She knew people murdered on Oct 7th. She doesn't hold the same views as i do but she is my friend and I'd always support her. Everyone just wants the people they love to be safe and secure.
I'm sorry you didn't find that.

Scirocco · 22/05/2024 19:32

PurpleChrayn · 22/05/2024 18:57

Not a single one of my non-Jewish friends has spoken about October 7, either to me or publicly. I am a British Jew married to an Israeli.

The feminist group I used to be a part of hasn't said a word about this latest video.

I'm so sorry. That's terrible.

While an internet forum like this can never take the place of real life support from friends, I hope it helps a little to have somewhere that you know there are people who do care.

blackcherryconserve · 22/05/2024 19:29

PurpleChrayn · 22/05/2024 18:57

Not a single one of my non-Jewish friends has spoken about October 7, either to me or publicly. I am a British Jew married to an Israeli.

The feminist group I used to be a part of hasn't said a word about this latest video.

So sorry PurpleChrayn

A few of my non Jewish friends have been supportive but there is silence from so many others I am shocked. As for so called feminists, their silence is truly shocking as if it's ok for Jewish women to be brutalised in the manner that these young Israeli women have been/are being.

I am on a private Facebook site which is supportive in these dreadful times for Jewish people. Feel free to PM me.

Dulra · 22/05/2024 19:24

PurpleChrayn · 22/05/2024 18:57

Not a single one of my non-Jewish friends has spoken about October 7, either to me or publicly. I am a British Jew married to an Israeli.

The feminist group I used to be a part of hasn't said a word about this latest video.

That is really poor form I'm sorry.

SharonEllis · 22/05/2024 19:22

PurpleChrayn · 22/05/2024 18:57

Not a single one of my non-Jewish friends has spoken about October 7, either to me or publicly. I am a British Jew married to an Israeli.

The feminist group I used to be a part of hasn't said a word about this latest video.

I'm so sorry.

Limesodaagain · 22/05/2024 19:03

PurpleChrayn · 22/05/2024 18:57

Not a single one of my non-Jewish friends has spoken about October 7, either to me or publicly. I am a British Jew married to an Israeli.

The feminist group I used to be a part of hasn't said a word about this latest video.

I’m really sorry. That must feel very isolating. I hope the reason your friends haven’t mentioned it is because they don’t have the words and are afraid of causing you pain rather than a lack of care.

ChickyBricky · 22/05/2024 19:01

Blackcats7 · 22/05/2024 19:00

I had someone on a media fb group telling me the hamas rapes were all actually carried out by israeli soldiers in disguise to discredit hamas.
This is the level of denial which exists because it is not fashionable or acceptable on social media to give any credence to jewish people’s pain.

Yes, and there were plenty of posts on MN saying that most of the people who died on 7 October were shot by Israeli tanks and helicopters. The clear implication being that this was a false-flag land-grabbing exercise.

It beggars belief what goes through some people's minds.

I'm just intensely sad that the world has come to this. Again.

Blackcats7 · 22/05/2024 19:00

I had someone on a media fb group telling me the hamas rapes were all actually carried out by israeli soldiers in disguise to discredit hamas.
This is the level of denial which exists because it is not fashionable or acceptable on social media to give any credence to jewish people’s pain.

PurpleChrayn · 22/05/2024 18:57

Not a single one of my non-Jewish friends has spoken about October 7, either to me or publicly. I am a British Jew married to an Israeli.

The feminist group I used to be a part of hasn't said a word about this latest video.

ChickyBricky · 22/05/2024 18:56

What I tend to see is people paying lip service, in passing, to the horror of the atrocities committed by Hamas, all while insisting that Israel's response is disproportionate and that the IDF are "the real terrorists."

They flood thread after thread after thread with trauma-porn images from Gaza, go into gruesome detail about the suffering of dying babies, and copy/paste comments from social media and dubious news outlets without any analysis or comment of their own, as though no one else has access to the internet and they are performing an important public broadcast service. Sometimes I can't help wondering if these are bots working in Hamas's interests, although I suppose most of it is just lazy posters bouncing around in their echo chamber.

I was born shortly after WW2 and have always felt grateful that the Allied forces managed to defeat Hitler, Mussolini, Franco, etc so that I could live in a peaceful world. Now, fascism is raising its ugly head again in ways I could never have dreamed in my worst nightmares. I just worry about where it will end, or rather how it will end, or indeed whether it will end, given that every detail is picked over on social media in a way that would not have been possible with, say, the bombing of Dresden.

SharonEllis · 22/05/2024 18:54

Muthaofcats · 22/05/2024 18:41

I don’t see many horrified by it tbh.

even amongst my own social network, it goes unmentioned in the same way 7/10 was. Even before Israel had had a chance to respond there was nothing. I saw no posts on social media or mention in conversations, and these are all left leaning westerners who are active and Vocal on so many other global issues. They were outraged at George floyd, they cried for Ukraine, they hosted Ukrainian refugees! They are mortified by the Rwanda scheme, they protest for Gaza. And yet….on this…. Silence.

I don’t see any of the people posting about ceasefires etc ever ever mention the plight of the people affected by Hamas atrocities. The only people I see raising it are Jewish if I’m honest.

the most you’ll get is ‘oh yes it’s obviously horrific’ from people when you mention but they’re quick to shut it down.

someone above mentioned seeing it widely reported but I’ve looked and really can’t see it anywhere on mainstream British media.

Every word of this. My networks are generally pretty vocal about stuff. Tumbleweed pretty much across the social media board on October 7th, 8th.....with a few honourable & predictable exceptions. My Jewish friends were too traumatised so I did not expect posts but everyone else is usually falling over themselves to set their stall out on any given issue. I contacted my Jewish friends after a small amount of time. Without exception they said a few non-Jewish friends had been in touch but mostly nothing. And nothing much has changed.

Muthaofcats · 22/05/2024 18:41

ssd · 22/05/2024 18:32

I haven't seen this reported anywhere but it sounds absolutely horrific. I can't even imagine their suffering, its utterly horrendous. I don't know why this isn't being reported on the news.

But you do yourself no favours referring to the bleeding left. Do you really think anyone bar a few nutcases, isn't totally appalled by this??

I don't know anyone who wouldn't be.

I don’t see many horrified by it tbh.

even amongst my own social network, it goes unmentioned in the same way 7/10 was. Even before Israel had had a chance to respond there was nothing. I saw no posts on social media or mention in conversations, and these are all left leaning westerners who are active and Vocal on so many other global issues. They were outraged at George floyd, they cried for Ukraine, they hosted Ukrainian refugees! They are mortified by the Rwanda scheme, they protest for Gaza. And yet….on this…. Silence.

I don’t see any of the people posting about ceasefires etc ever ever mention the plight of the people affected by Hamas atrocities. The only people I see raising it are Jewish if I’m honest.

the most you’ll get is ‘oh yes it’s obviously horrific’ from people when you mention but they’re quick to shut it down.

someone above mentioned seeing it widely reported but I’ve looked and really can’t see it anywhere on mainstream British media.

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ssd · 22/05/2024 18:33

@Muthaofcats , who is shrugging, who is justifying this??

"How is the world so perverse right now that this warrants a shrug from so many? Or worse, is viewed as justified !?"

ssd · 22/05/2024 18:32

I haven't seen this reported anywhere but it sounds absolutely horrific. I can't even imagine their suffering, its utterly horrendous. I don't know why this isn't being reported on the news.

But you do yourself no favours referring to the bleeding left. Do you really think anyone bar a few nutcases, isn't totally appalled by this??

I don't know anyone who wouldn't be.

SharonEllis · 22/05/2024 18:26

0palfruitsalad74 · 22/05/2024 18:23

I can't see any mention of it on the BBC. Has anyone seen it on the main news channels/ outlets in the UK?

I saw it shared on twitter and have no desire to watch it, I can't even bear the thought of it. But I feel it should be reported on.

We've bbc news on in our office all day - didn't see mention of it.

0palfruitsalad74 · 22/05/2024 18:23

I can't see any mention of it on the BBC. Has anyone seen it on the main news channels/ outlets in the UK?

I saw it shared on twitter and have no desire to watch it, I can't even bear the thought of it. But I feel it should be reported on.

0palfruitsalad74 · 22/05/2024 18:20

Dulra · 22/05/2024 17:08

It’s viewed as justified

By who?

Plenty of people described 7th Oct as an act of resistance by brave freedom fighters, so presumably them.

SharonEllis · 22/05/2024 18:14

Dulra · 22/05/2024 17:08

It’s viewed as justified

By who?

By the people saying & putting on flags and banners 'resistance is justified' in direct relation to what happened on October 7th.

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