I am also a British jew and the videos I saw traumatised me so much that I just cried and cried for about 2 weeks solid.
Would just pace around sobbing and howling and couldn’t focus on my work and had to stop looking for my own mental health.
I was truly shocked by the generational trauma it stirred in me (having relatives persecuted and forced to flee their homeland and others sent to auschwitz).
Was also not expecting the terror it stirred in me; growing up as a child learning of the Holocaust I hated being told that I was Jewish, I felt so ashamed and furious that this was my race because I was so frightened by it all. I just wished it wouldn’t apply to me. It felt so unfair and I hated I had no choice in the matter. I faced anti Jewish comments at school but largely as an adult thought it was no longer a real threat and even started to feel pride for my heritage and what we have all overcome.
october 7th shook me to my core, but the silence after, and the swell of anti semitism since has felt dystopian. Not one of my friends messaged or wanted to talk about it and any efforts to bring it up were quickly dismissed.
I can’t quite believe it is happening and I am having pretty paranoid thoughts about wishing my kids didn’t have Jewish sounding surnames or flinching when my ‘heritage’ comes up in conversations and wondering if I’m imagining people treating me differently or not. One school mum hasn’t spoken to me since it came up in conversation that I’m Jewish. Maybe it’s coincidence. This is the level of my paranoia now.
These threads are a bit like picking at a scab; I guess I engage with them hoping to be proved wrong and to be reassured that the majority of people are good and decent and it’s still only a small edge case of nut jobs that feel hatred for Jewish people and justify what is happening to Israelis. But when you see so many marching along side the islamist extremists who are protesting for Israel’s destruction, and failing to acknowledge the pain of the hostages and families, it feels so lonely and confusing.
But my existential fear is nothing compared with what people actually living in this hell day to day are going through.
I just can’t see how one wouldn’t understand Israel needing to defend itself after watching the footage. I’m not saying it means Israel are or aren’t conducting the war proportionately - that’s a quite separate issue. But in terms of justifying Israel’s right to defend itself, it’s pretty compelling and I don’t understand how reticent people are to accept that.