It's not axiomatic that the two separate incidents are or can be considered to be the same.
It's not even axiomatic that the Israel Defense Force Special Forces unit committed an act of perfidy under IHL.
There's not enough information to make that determination. This is especially why it's not remotely helpful to try filling in the gaps with speculation and an unrelated incident.
And, yes, I've read various posts in this thread since yesterday so I'm familiar with what several posters believe.
I would add that perception is not necessarily reality.