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Conflict in the Middle East

Scared to be Jewish

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WibbleWobbleFlop · 29/10/2023 14:02

I am not pro-IDF or pro-Hamas, in fact I am very strongly against both. Netanyahu's government is an ultra-right wing aggressive shitshow and Hamas is an "elected" group of cowardly murdering terrorists. I am horrified for all Israeli and Palestinian civilians. I can't even begin to imagine how those poor innocent people of Gaza are carrying on, nor how the hostages and families are coping. I want nothing more than Israelis and Palestinians to live in peace side by side in a democratic two-state solution.

I am a secular Jew. I live in the UK. I am supposedly safe, as are my children.

But I don't feel like we will be safe much longer. Hamas wants the annihilation of all Jews, not just the destruction of the state of Israel. It's not about freeing Palestine to them. It is about eliminated an entire ethnicity. My ethnicity.

When Jews were targeted in the Holocaust, it didn't matter if they were religious, Orthodox, or secular. It didn't matter if they were in Poland or Germany or Russia. Jewish blood meant "evil".

Jewish ancestry is traceable. If Hamas gains further popularity in the Middle East (incredibly likely, given their links to Iran and Qatar), there is a real danger for literally every Jew in the world. I am seeing more and more Europeans and Americans leaning so far to the Palestinian side that they want Israel to stop being an accepted state. This gives so much more power to Hamas because any aid sent to Palestine is being spent on weapons and rockets being used against the Jews.

I'm sure I will be told I am overreacting. But I am scared. And I think I have every right to be.

OP posts:
ForfarBridie · 30/10/2023 01:19

WibbleWobbleFlop · 29/10/2023 15:07

Much appreciated, @Trulywonderful. I don't want this thread to turn into yet another Israel/Palestine debate. This is about the ramifications of the conflict to those who don't even live on the same continent, but happen to be linked by birth.

It’s awful. I know. My Arab Muslim children and family (as well as many thousands of others);have had to face this for years when visiting and living in the West for various reasons. In fact my son when at Uni in Scotland was attacked on a bus because he had a backpack and he was having a conversation with his friend in Arabic. The driver stopped the bus and the attackers jumped off. It all went to court though as a hate crime after the PF pressed charges. The attackers were found guilty but my son and his friend got more satisfaction out of the hiding they gave two of the attackers.

Muslims have walked a very hard road for many years when in the West, especially since the 9/11 atrocities, and I can say without a doubt they’ll understand how you feel right now.

Its awful. Isn’t it.

NotReadyForAutumnYet · 30/10/2023 00:50

Here we have a hat trick. One against Jewish people, one against Muslims, one who thinks we should nuke them both. I didn't even go looking for this.

x.com/zattowangai/status/1718716834126430547?s=46&t=G9BWOZlYGPa1_pR7aKkbHQ

x.com/louisru39958153/status/1718659972811403677?s=46&t=G9BWOZlYGPa1_pR7aKkbHQ

x.com/geocryptoaries/status/1718674348306035115?s=46&t=G9BWOZlYGPa1_pR7aKkbHQ

VerityUnreasonble · 30/10/2023 00:25

I wear a small Magen David, it was a gift from my mother, it is not a giant flashing neon "I'm Jewish" sign but it's reasonably obvious if you are looking.

I work in a very public facing role.

My DH suggested to me I might want to not wear it, or at least make sure it was covered, to avoid drawing any additional attention to my Jewishness.

I'm not living in fear exactly but I am much more aware of how being Jewish can make me a target. More cautious. Antisemitism is something I have experienced before and has always been a background threat, but now it is a foreground threat. The Internet in particular, is a pretty awful place to be right now. Incidents like the 23 and me hack too serve as a reminder of vulnerability, where maybe I had felt complacent and comfortable, expecting only the rarest of incidents. It brings into focus the generational trauma and the lasting impact that has.

quiteoldad · 29/10/2023 22:59

"Part of me would not be at all surprised if the Russians were directing that lynch mob because they really hate Israel and are really looking to stoke divisions at the moment. " @Esmacannonball.

Russia (as a nation) hating Israel is not strictly true. The Russia/Israel relationship is now better than it has ever been. Russia is Israels largest supplier of oil and Israel sells Russia quite a lot of military hardware. In addition there are many other lucrative economic deals, including uncut diamonds

Israel initially refused to criticise Putin's invasion of Ukraine. They subsequently did, but only after many other countries had done so. Remember there are strong ties between the two countries. Russian is the most widely spoken language in Israel after Hebrew and Arabic. Relationships between the two countries have been at their best when Netanyahu has been in power.
Vlad and Bibi..... what an horrific double act.

bibop · 29/10/2023 22:50

I'm really sorry. I don't think you are overreacting either.

NotReadyForAutumnYet · 29/10/2023 22:50

Kendodd · 29/10/2023 22:15

Imagine if we recieved hate all around the world for what our governments did

Unfortunately we do.
I know some Russians who got abuse when Putin invaded Ukraine and were expected to answer for him. I've traveled extensively around the middle east and had some abuse/felt nervous about being British, especilly when travelling with an American friend. I'm sure it's nothing like the level of racism minorities get here though.

When war broke out between Ukraine and Russia, I contacted Russian friends in uk. They were horrified and also scared for families on border who wouldn't move. Their young kid faced some shit in school and they had to speak to school. They were grateful for understanding that it wasn't their fault what government did. They live in uk with no influence.

EsmaCannonball · 29/10/2023 22:39

Apparently the plane was diverted. The mob were going around the airport and its environs stopping passengers and cars, looking for Israelis and Jewish people, a number of whom were being protected by armed guards.

SomeCatFromJapan · 29/10/2023 22:26

@EsmaCannonball I've got a second passport also, for a country that tends to be friendly with Russia and not exactly critical of Hamas. It's effing useless though, need a visa to go anywhere.

EsmaCannonball · 29/10/2023 22:25

I remember at the time of plane-hijackings and hostage-takings thinking it would be a good idea to get an Irish passport (which I was automatically entitled to do). Now I'm glad I've got one.

SomeCatFromJapan · 29/10/2023 22:24

I think the only way this ends is when all parties put down arms and obey international law and UN resolutions. Unfortunatly, I don't think either side is going to do that.

Given that a resolution actually condemning the 7 October terrorst attacks didn't get voted through by the UN, I really doubt Israel is in any mood to listen to them.

"Gilad Menashe Erdan, the representative of Israel, said the world has witnessed that the United Nations “no longer holds even one ounce of legitimacy or relevance”."

SomeCatFromJapan · 29/10/2023 22:21

The Israeli Ambassador to Azerbaijan (an Arab-Israeli Christian) has said that there were six Muslim children from Dagestan on the flight who were returning from being given cancer treatment in Israel.

I don't even know what to say to that Sad

It looks like the situation is still ongong, with mobs dragging people out of cars and attacking police cars.

I need to come off twitter for the evening. Just read about the Yemeni Houthis lobbing a ballistic missile towards Israel (fortunately intercepted), as well as the most upsetting detail yet about one of the 7 October atrocities which I desperately hope is untrue.

Kendodd · 29/10/2023 22:20

Teddleshon · 29/10/2023 22:14

The only way this stops is if Hamas surrenders and the attacks on Israel stop.

I think the only way this ends is when all parties put down arms and obey international law and UN resolutions. Unfortunatly, I don't think either side is going to do that.

Echobelly · 29/10/2023 22:19

Yes, I doubt many Israelis would be flying to Dagestan of all places.

EsmaCannonball · 29/10/2023 22:18

SomeCatFromJapan · 29/10/2023 22:09

Does anyone know what happened afterwards? Were they escorted out safely?

I haven't been able to find any follow-up information yet.

The Israeli Ambassador to Azerbaijan (an Arab-Israeli Christian) has said that there were six Muslim children from Dagestan on the flight who were returning from being given cancer treatment in Israel.

HvalaALot · 29/10/2023 22:18

It is tragic that Jews be targeted for the actions of a government they didn’t elect or a policy they don’t endorse.

It is the same for Palestinians who didn’t elect Hamas, or who did because they were desperate and the non-violent path had given no results. No one should have to pay for the sins of others. It’s absolutely awful on all fronts.

Parkingt111 · 29/10/2023 22:18

Kendodd · 29/10/2023 22:15

Imagine if we recieved hate all around the world for what our governments did

Unfortunately we do.
I know some Russians who got abuse when Putin invaded Ukraine and were expected to answer for him. I've traveled extensively around the middle east and had some abuse/felt nervous about being British, especilly when travelling with an American friend. I'm sure it's nothing like the level of racism minorities get here though.

Very sorry to hear that

Kendodd · 29/10/2023 22:15

Imagine if we recieved hate all around the world for what our governments did

Unfortunately we do.
I know some Russians who got abuse when Putin invaded Ukraine and were expected to answer for him. I've traveled extensively around the middle east and had some abuse/felt nervous about being British, especilly when travelling with an American friend. I'm sure it's nothing like the level of racism minorities get here though.

Teddleshon · 29/10/2023 22:14

The only way this stops is if Hamas surrenders and the attacks on Israel stop.

ticketstickets · 29/10/2023 22:13

So, in response to OP. I don't feel scared to be Jewish. I am visibly Jewish, Orthodox, and work in a Jewish space. Security is a HUGE concern for us right now but for me, its mostly to make other people feel safe. I personally think the risk of a dangerous attack upon me, or my workplace, are pretty low. Its amost certainly more dangerous for me to get in a car or cross the road.

I also think that hiding in my house is just another victory for anti semites.

I do understand why so many people are scared, it is a trauma response, people have seen their loved ones raped, murdered and kidnapped. The same way someone who has almost drowned or been in a car accident might be scared to go to a swimming pool or get in a car.

Where I live (not in the UK) the media is very very anti Israel. The Jewish community is pretty small and invisible and there have been almost no actual antisemitic attacks or incidents that I have heard of, except for people tearing down pictures of kidnapped hostages. (what?why?what is wrong with people???)

NigelHarmansNewWife · 29/10/2023 22:13

OP I think it is appalling that anti-Semitism is on the rise. Very sadly, and terrifyingly, it has been for a number of years. Have we learned nothing from history?

SomeCatFromJapan · 29/10/2023 22:09

Does anyone know what happened afterwards? Were they escorted out safely?

I haven't been able to find any follow-up information yet.

Parkingt111 · 29/10/2023 22:08

Does anyone know what happened afterwards? Were they escorted out safely?

EsmaCannonball · 29/10/2023 22:07

The footage from Dagestan is terrifying. Dagestan is an actual colony and its people are currently being used as cannon fodder in the attempt to turn Ukraine back into a colony, but when Russia is the coloniser the 'everything Western is bad' people don't give a damn. Part of me would not be at all surprised if the Russians were directing that lynch mob because they really hate Israel and are really looking to stoke divisions at the moment.

Parkingt111 · 29/10/2023 22:05

SomeCatFromJapan · 29/10/2023 22:02

So not only was the incident in Dagestan terrifying, but our fellow UK residents are enthusiastically endorsing it. And not just any residents - a journalist, someone with actualy influence.

https://twitter.com/DillyHussain88/status/1718709935179980828

The worst part actually is that there are many people in Israel who don't even agree with many of the actions of their government
This is disgusting
Imagine if we recieved hate all around the world for what our governments did

ticketstickets · 29/10/2023 22:04

Radyward · 29/10/2023 21:55

Israel stops bombing gaza and all of a sudden the issues you are experiencing OP will for the most part go away. Its their daily atrocities egged on basically by the west thats the root cause of your fears. Its terrible. Its netanyahu not the supposed anti semites on here.
Its barbaric the continued onslaught which is breeding little hammas every minute this continues.id bet that poor child who lost all his family would die to revenge that. What planet is netanyahu on? What planet is ursula von der leyen on ?? Fgs she is risking all our security ! Its madness

Anti-semitism long pre dates Netanyahu and Hamas.

Ever heard of the Hebron Massacre, or Chelmitzki massacre, the pogroms in Russia in the ate nineteenth century? Blood Libels? Thats before you get to the Holocaust. Hey, I am only around because Poland in the 1920s was such an antisemitic place my family left.

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