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Scared to be Jewish

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WibbleWobbleFlop · 29/10/2023 14:02

I am not pro-IDF or pro-Hamas, in fact I am very strongly against both. Netanyahu's government is an ultra-right wing aggressive shitshow and Hamas is an "elected" group of cowardly murdering terrorists. I am horrified for all Israeli and Palestinian civilians. I can't even begin to imagine how those poor innocent people of Gaza are carrying on, nor how the hostages and families are coping. I want nothing more than Israelis and Palestinians to live in peace side by side in a democratic two-state solution.

I am a secular Jew. I live in the UK. I am supposedly safe, as are my children.

But I don't feel like we will be safe much longer. Hamas wants the annihilation of all Jews, not just the destruction of the state of Israel. It's not about freeing Palestine to them. It is about eliminated an entire ethnicity. My ethnicity.

When Jews were targeted in the Holocaust, it didn't matter if they were religious, Orthodox, or secular. It didn't matter if they were in Poland or Germany or Russia. Jewish blood meant "evil".

Jewish ancestry is traceable. If Hamas gains further popularity in the Middle East (incredibly likely, given their links to Iran and Qatar), there is a real danger for literally every Jew in the world. I am seeing more and more Europeans and Americans leaning so far to the Palestinian side that they want Israel to stop being an accepted state. This gives so much more power to Hamas because any aid sent to Palestine is being spent on weapons and rockets being used against the Jews.

I'm sure I will be told I am overreacting. But I am scared. And I think I have every right to be.

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Teddleshon · 30/10/2023 14:44

@LovePaleGreen thanks for that. Very interesting.

I was taken with an interview with Ayaan Hirsi Ali last week in which she described her childhood in Somalia where she was brought up to viscerally hate Jews. When she eventually saw her first Jew in the Netherlands she was amazed to see they just looked like an ordinary person, not the hideous monster she had been inculcated to believe they were. Extraordinary to raise children with such hatred.

Kendodd · 30/10/2023 14:43

Children murdered
Bingo!

Please don't say that, or make light of the killing of children, wherever those children are or whatever race they might me. It's just horrible.

WibbleWobbleFlop · 30/10/2023 14:43

Please go start another thread. This is not the place to debate the Israel/Palestine conflict, take sides, blame people, or find solutions to problems in the Middle East.

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SomeCatFromJapan · 30/10/2023 14:39

The entire population? Really?

Quite. I am not undermining the devastation of the losses, one is too many, but realistically the numbers, sad as they are, are a very long way away from the over two million that is the Gazan population.
The IDF could also have caused far higher civilian casualties had that been the genuine intention, as so many posters here insist.

LovePaleGreen · 30/10/2023 14:29

Is because we are watching entire population being erased and children murdered precisely

Children murdered
Bingo!

We are watching entire population being erased
The entire population? Really?

Hippyhippybake · 30/10/2023 14:28

@Seereality you talk about both sides but only seem to be condemning Israel. Israel's response has to be seen in the context of the attacks of October 7 combined with Hamas's charter which demands the eradication of the State of Israel and the murder of all Jews worldwide.

Loulou599 · 30/10/2023 14:28

@SeeReality
What are you doing here? This is what you said on a Palestine support thread the other day, in response to somebody who was doing what you are doing now:
Back off with the intrusive questions and show some respect for the people we love. They are our children. Back off from our private mourning space. This is not yours. Do you get it ? Not everything is yours to enter. Stop intruding on what is not yours. Back off from my psychological private space. Not yours. Do you understand people's private space integrity?
Constant intrusion is harassment.
We are saying no. Do you understand the word No? Back off from our private psychological space

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LovePaleGreen · 30/10/2023 14:26

Gabor Mate? The one who took just a few too many 🍄?

You'll be better off watching this

Both sons of the Hamas founder have denounced Hamas. Hear what they have to say.

Mate is a nut.

SeeReality · 30/10/2023 13:53

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Totalblindnessofthesoul · 30/10/2023 13:42

BlurredEdges · 30/10/2023 13:31

It is slightly different due to nearly 2000 years of European history of massacring, annihilating, persecuting, villifying, exiling, imprisoning and murdering its Jewish population.

I'm not also looking into historic islamaphobia etc either. I'm just saying that it's the norm (not a nice norm or a 'right' norm) that instances of abuse go up right after things like war/terror, where individuals who have no ideological link, but are tangentially linked (ie by religion, nationality, race) are unfairly blamed. It doesn't make it right.

BlurredEdges · 30/10/2023 13:31

Totalblindnessofthesoul · 30/10/2023 13:26

It's awful when blame/hate is aimed at a group because of (often involuntary) association with a group doing awful things. It's not confined to this conflict, but that doesn't make it better or ok.

Muslims got it after 9/11, London bombings etc
Catholics got it during The Troubles
Germans abroad didn't exactly have a good time during WW2.

I think it's a combination of lack of trust, discrimination based on race/religion, and world events triggering situations where bigots feel more confident to act.

It doesn't make it right. It's wrong when a random Jewish person is blamed for Israel's actions. It's equally wrong when a random Muslim person is blamed for the actions of a country or group.

It is slightly different due to nearly 2000 years of European history of massacring, annihilating, persecuting, villifying, exiling, imprisoning and murdering its Jewish population.

BlurredEdges · 30/10/2023 13:28

WibbleWobbleFlop · 29/10/2023 14:12

@Purpleavocado I also married a non-Jew. My children are very young and as I am not religious in the slightest, they don't know that they have Jewish heritage. I haven't told anybody where I live (I'm nowhere near my family or where I grew up) that I am Jewish.

It's so sad not to be able to embrace our own culture out of fear.

I'm also married to a non-Jew but up until now, my children have always been openly proud to be Jewish. Not any more. I wore a Magen David necklace to a friend's mum's funeral last week. Only took it out from inside my dress at the actual service. Not a chance I'd wear it outside now.

Totalblindnessofthesoul · 30/10/2023 13:26

It's awful when blame/hate is aimed at a group because of (often involuntary) association with a group doing awful things. It's not confined to this conflict, but that doesn't make it better or ok.

Muslims got it after 9/11, London bombings etc
Catholics got it during The Troubles
Germans abroad didn't exactly have a good time during WW2.

I think it's a combination of lack of trust, discrimination based on race/religion, and world events triggering situations where bigots feel more confident to act.

It doesn't make it right. It's wrong when a random Jewish person is blamed for Israel's actions. It's equally wrong when a random Muslim person is blamed for the actions of a country or group.

LovePaleGreen · 30/10/2023 13:23

These threads are so boring. Full of unhinged posts screeching 'what about dead babies' 'what about islamophobia', many, many bot posts and a handful of sensible ones.

LolaSmiles · 30/10/2023 13:20

WibbleWobbleFlop
Sorry your thread has gone that way.

I sincerely think the media hasn't helped in its reporting. For every person who has taken time to find out about the situation, and who has the sense to know this is by far greater than who did what in the last week or so, there's people who don't know much about the topic who have huge amounts of propaganda (from both sides) thrown at them.

My personal view is that if the IDF and Netanyahu continue this line of attack then not only is it appalling for civilians in Gaza, it's likely to breed the next generation of terrorists who will hate Israel and it's also likely to trigger increased antisemitism around the globe.

I'm also starting to become a little suspicious of how often people use cries of antisemitism to shut down criticism of the Israeli government. Most Jewish posters on Mumsnet (those who've said they are Jewish) have tended to be very clear that criticism of Israel is not antisemitic, but there's still posts that try to shut the discussion down. When it first started I thought it was ignorance and ideological blindness, but now I'm starting to find myself wondering whether this is deliberately done to stir up the sentiment of "see, see, you can't say anything against the Jews... (Whispers something about Jewish people controlling everything)".

SomeCatFromJapan · 30/10/2023 13:11

Turns out this happens in all places that implement apartheid. I hear Nelson Mandela was a terorrist and Gandhi an enemy of the state. Weird, right?

Nelson Mandela was fighting for equality for all South Africans, not for the right to cleanse wipe out an ethnic group. So it's quite an offensive comparison.

Ginlette · 30/10/2023 13:10

That's to @Akatsiy

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SomeCatFromJapan · 30/10/2023 13:09

Hamas won in a landslide in their last election. Since Israel has done out of its way to try and delegitimise the functioning of Gaza and its people railing against the system, they chose extreme measures.

Given Hamas' charter, are you surprised?

WibbleWobbleFlop · 30/10/2023 12:59

Can I please ask that this thread remain for discussion about fears regarding anti-Jew rhetoric and attacks in the West? This has been derailed and is just like the dozens of other threads pitting Israel and Palestine against each other.

I came here looking for support, reassurance, and commonality, not an argument about whose land is whose. This thread is not about supporting either side of the conflict.

Thank you to @Trulywonderful for trying to help with this.

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Louloulouenna · 30/10/2023 12:43

You may sneer at the description but prime waterfront land was exactly what it was. One of the best things they did after blowing up the water treatment system was to use the pipes to fashion rockets to fire rockets at Israel.

That's true. If Hamas would care about gazans they would not use pipelines to make rockets.
Hamas are not freedom fighters, they are terrorist. They not just terrorise Israel, they also treat badly/hurt anyone who thinks differently to them in Gaza. The hamas founder's son talk about this in his interviews.

Why West are so pro hamas I would not understand it. To be pro Palestinian yes but to be pro hamas and minimise the horrible attack inflected to jew people in Israel is disgusting.

Teddleshon · 30/10/2023 12:50

The Gaza Strip is their own space which shares a border with Egypt. Why is that a prison any more than say Monaco or Lichtenstein is a prison? Unless of course they devote all their energies to annihilating their neighbour rather than focusing on building a better life for their own population.

Akatsiy · 30/10/2023 12:46

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