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Scared to be Jewish

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WibbleWobbleFlop · 29/10/2023 14:02

I am not pro-IDF or pro-Hamas, in fact I am very strongly against both. Netanyahu's government is an ultra-right wing aggressive shitshow and Hamas is an "elected" group of cowardly murdering terrorists. I am horrified for all Israeli and Palestinian civilians. I can't even begin to imagine how those poor innocent people of Gaza are carrying on, nor how the hostages and families are coping. I want nothing more than Israelis and Palestinians to live in peace side by side in a democratic two-state solution.

I am a secular Jew. I live in the UK. I am supposedly safe, as are my children.

But I don't feel like we will be safe much longer. Hamas wants the annihilation of all Jews, not just the destruction of the state of Israel. It's not about freeing Palestine to them. It is about eliminated an entire ethnicity. My ethnicity.

When Jews were targeted in the Holocaust, it didn't matter if they were religious, Orthodox, or secular. It didn't matter if they were in Poland or Germany or Russia. Jewish blood meant "evil".

Jewish ancestry is traceable. If Hamas gains further popularity in the Middle East (incredibly likely, given their links to Iran and Qatar), there is a real danger for literally every Jew in the world. I am seeing more and more Europeans and Americans leaning so far to the Palestinian side that they want Israel to stop being an accepted state. This gives so much more power to Hamas because any aid sent to Palestine is being spent on weapons and rockets being used against the Jews.

I'm sure I will be told I am overreacting. But I am scared. And I think I have every right to be.

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etmoietmoietmoi · 29/10/2023 19:48

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:28

@etmoietmoietmoi that's actually BS! So if I told her I hated OP without knowing she was Jewish, am I still being anti semitic?! Just because people are pro-Palestine doesn't make them antisemitic, stop scaremongering people to speak out about hate/war crimes being committed

Can you show me where I said being "pro Palestine" makes you antisemitic? I didn't, and I never have. But this is the standard get-out now isn't it? Put words in our mouths.

Read if back. I said you jumped onto this thread to intentionally mock and goad OP, simply for expressing her fears as a Jewish woman. That is literally antisemitism. And you clearly don't have a fucking clue it is. At its most basic, the dictionary defines antisemitism as "hostility to or prejudice against Jewish people", which, in my opinion (and others I see) you very clearly demonstrated. You don't have to specifically say you "hate" Jews.

So if I told her I hated OP without knowing she was Jewish, am I still being anti semitic?

OP clearly stated she was Jewish.

If you saw me telling Muslim or Black people that they were being ridiculous, privileged and minimising their fears you'd (rightly) say I was being Islamophobic or racist. See how that works?

Hippyhippybake · 29/10/2023 19:46

I feel for you OP. I am desperately hoping Hamas will surrender and renounce their stated aim to murder all Jews and eradicate the state of Israel.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 29/10/2023 19:42

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Well, good for you.

You have no fear of anything. You are brave and all around Wonderfull.

Why do you begrudge other people's feelings ? No one can help how they feel.

helpddgrow · 29/10/2023 19:36

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Cropcycle · 29/10/2023 19:36

*WomanHerehear. No I don’t. I can’t bear racism or hate towards anyone. Two friends are of Pakistani heritage and are Muslim, but we are liberal and able to see past Hamas and Netanyahu and are in shock and despair at the suffering both are making innocents go through. The situation is so polarising though that I fear it will stir up a huge wave of antisemitism and Islamophobia.

Out and about with people I don’t know, and I know it’s irrational, I just wonder how many are furious at Jews in general, for what Palestinians are enduring. I sort of feel guilty by association if that makes sense? I know there is so much that makes Jews and Muslims alike, culturally, religiously and people world over just want the same things. The hate at the rallies over the weekend though is just frightening and fuelling division.

PurpleChrayne · 29/10/2023 19:30

Swanny8 · 29/10/2023 19:04

I'm so sorry, OP (and other Jewish people). It's awful that you feel like this and completely unjustifiable for peaceful British citizens who have nothing to do with Israel to be feeling frightened.

But the thing is, we all have something to do with Israel, as Jews. Whether we like it or not.

It's the only state in the world that is a Jewish one.

That's why this is so painful.

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:28

@etmoietmoietmoi that's actually BS! So if I told her I hated OP without knowing she was Jewish, am I still being anti semitic?! Just because people are pro-Palestine doesn't make them antisemitic, stop scaremongering people to speak out about hate/war crimes being committed

Teddleshon · 29/10/2023 19:28

I feel for you OP, it really must be frightening and I’m just so sad that the UK has come to this.

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:25

Just to say I'm not mocking or trolling OP my point was innocent children are being killed.... we are all privileged to be living, breathing and not living in fear without bombs being dropped on us!

etmoietmoietmoi · 29/10/2023 19:23

@MumsDailyNap
I'm far from it I respect every race and faith!

Being intentionally hostile and antagonistic towards Jewish people because they are Jewish (and in this case expressing their fears) IS antisemitism. I have seen no evidence of "respect" from you.

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:21

@HermioneWeasley please explain how I'm anti semitism??? I'm far from it I respect every race and faith!

soddingspiderseason · 29/10/2023 19:19

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:01

@AgingDisgracefullyHere @etmoietmoietmoi at this moment yes very privileged! I bet she has a roof over her head without the fear of it being bombed. Maybe she has children who she tucks into bed at night without the fear of them being killed. She has running water, electricity access to medical care, food, WiFi! The Palestinians do not have this!!

Just to mention I'm not pro-hamas nor am I Muslim, I can't sit here and watch innocent children being murdered by the IDF

Then blame Hamas explicitly. They decided to start a war by committing appalling atrocities against innocent Israeli people, including children. They use Gazan civilians as human shields. Tell them to stop firing rockets from hospitals, schools and residential areas. Tell them to release all the hostages. But none of this has ANYTHING to do with Jewish people in this country feeling afraid. There are plenty of threads about Gaza, go over there please. This one is specifically about how Jewish people now feel frightened in their own country.

WomanHereHear · 29/10/2023 19:18

Cropcycle · 29/10/2023 18:48

I feel scared for the first time. I live in a Jewish area in a very multicultural city. According to ancestry.co.uk I am 100% European Jewish. Im non practising but look very typically Jewish. We have had information about not letting anyone tailgate us into our flats, to keep gates closed, not take post in for others and to report anything suspicious.

Since the response to the terrorist attack on 7 October, I look at people of Muslim heritage and wonder if they can tell I’m Jewish and think they must hate me. I’m horrified by Hamas and Netanyahu making innocents pay the ultimate price for their refusal to work towards peace. What Hamas did was vile. What is happening to Palestinians is vile. There was a Pro-Palestinian rally here yesterday with over 1k people praying and shouting. I understand the anger but I understand Jewish communities around the world being very unnerved.

Do you hate all Muslims?
Why would you think all Muslims hate you?
Do you think they all support hamas too? All those thousands marching all anti semitic?
Are you not worried about right wing white people and just the Muslims that you think will attack you?
I’m a visibly muslim woman and the interactions I’ve had with Jewish people(both secular and orthodox) although not much apart from my good university friend, have been positive but now I wonder if you think we hate you secretly. That’s sad really as that sort of thinking creates animosity that you see us as guilty of hating Jews before you have even got to know us. There was an orthodox Jewish woman who approached me in a dark quiet car park to ask me for directions last week. I don’t think she thought I hated her and I’m glad she could trust me to approach me like that unless she thought I could not tell she was Jewish but I could.

HermioneWeasley · 29/10/2023 19:16

@MumsDailyNap your anti semitism is disgusting. OP is not privileged and she is not responsible for the actions of the Israeli government.

Cropcycle · 29/10/2023 19:12

Mumsdailynap. And the Jewish parents who tucked their kids into bed and the young people at the music festival on 7th October, weren’t fearful that day of being shot, raped, dragged through the streets, have their loved ones taken hostage. I can’t stand back and see innocent people being murdered either. A child is a child is a child.

etmoietmoietmoi · 29/10/2023 19:09

@MumsDailyNap What makes you think Jewish women aren't feeling that too? I mean, plenty of us have been commenting on it for weeks now, both online and to friends and family.

I can't sit here and watch innocent children being murdered by the IDF

So instead of watching it you thought trolling Jews on MN do would help you (and children in Gaza)? A woman is expressing her genuine fears and mocking her makes you feel better?

Namechangeagain2023 · 29/10/2023 19:07

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:01

@AgingDisgracefullyHere @etmoietmoietmoi at this moment yes very privileged! I bet she has a roof over her head without the fear of it being bombed. Maybe she has children who she tucks into bed at night without the fear of them being killed. She has running water, electricity access to medical care, food, WiFi! The Palestinians do not have this!!

Just to mention I'm not pro-hamas nor am I Muslim, I can't sit here and watch innocent children being murdered by the IDF

Are you just as worried about the children still being held hostage in Gaza?

just checking? Because you should be bothered about both of them

Swanny8 · 29/10/2023 19:04

I'm so sorry, OP (and other Jewish people). It's awful that you feel like this and completely unjustifiable for peaceful British citizens who have nothing to do with Israel to be feeling frightened.

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 19:01

@AgingDisgracefullyHere @etmoietmoietmoi at this moment yes very privileged! I bet she has a roof over her head without the fear of it being bombed. Maybe she has children who she tucks into bed at night without the fear of them being killed. She has running water, electricity access to medical care, food, WiFi! The Palestinians do not have this!!

Just to mention I'm not pro-hamas nor am I Muslim, I can't sit here and watch innocent children being murdered by the IDF

Namechangeagain2023 · 29/10/2023 18:59

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 18:40

@AgingDisgracefullyHere @LovePaleGreen it's not stupid! I live in north London in Stamford Hill, one of the largest Orthodox Jewish communities in Europe, Muslims and Jews walk along side by side daily with no issues. So long with blacks, Indians, turks etc A NO ISSUES!!!

Stop trying to use your privilege making something out of nothing

Are you actually joking?

just because you haven’t seen anti semitism doesn’t mean it isn’t happening. I haven’t witnessed racism towards black people or homophobia to gay people but that means nothing, I can’t say it isn’t happening. People from those groups say it is, so it is. End of

Anti semitism is the highest it has been since WW2. I don’t particularly want to go into some of the cases I’ve heard about this week because there is currently police involvement and it’s not fair on the people affected but it has shocked me to the absolute core.

until you have your own lived experience. Don’t comment on something you know nothing about

Cropcycle · 29/10/2023 18:48

I feel scared for the first time. I live in a Jewish area in a very multicultural city. According to ancestry.co.uk I am 100% European Jewish. Im non practising but look very typically Jewish. We have had information about not letting anyone tailgate us into our flats, to keep gates closed, not take post in for others and to report anything suspicious.

Since the response to the terrorist attack on 7 October, I look at people of Muslim heritage and wonder if they can tell I’m Jewish and think they must hate me. I’m horrified by Hamas and Netanyahu making innocents pay the ultimate price for their refusal to work towards peace. What Hamas did was vile. What is happening to Palestinians is vile. There was a Pro-Palestinian rally here yesterday with over 1k people praying and shouting. I understand the anger but I understand Jewish communities around the world being very unnerved.

AgingDisgracefullyHere · 29/10/2023 18:47

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 18:40

@AgingDisgracefullyHere @LovePaleGreen it's not stupid! I live in north London in Stamford Hill, one of the largest Orthodox Jewish communities in Europe, Muslims and Jews walk along side by side daily with no issues. So long with blacks, Indians, turks etc A NO ISSUES!!!

Stop trying to use your privilege making something out of nothing

What privilege, specifically, do you think I have?

etmoietmoietmoi · 29/10/2023 18:47

MumsDailyNap · 29/10/2023 18:40

@AgingDisgracefullyHere @LovePaleGreen it's not stupid! I live in north London in Stamford Hill, one of the largest Orthodox Jewish communities in Europe, Muslims and Jews walk along side by side daily with no issues. So long with blacks, Indians, turks etc A NO ISSUES!!!

Stop trying to use your privilege making something out of nothing

What privilege YOU have to never have experienced antisemitism. What ignorance and sheer arrogance to so confidently claim those who have experienced it and who fear an upsurge are making "something out of nothing".

LondonMummer · 29/10/2023 18:42

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