Right, wet fish at the ready, please.
I just did another test (umm... because testing again 5 hours after a BFN is likely to be a useful thing ), and it was, of course, BFN. Of course, being the weirdo obsessive that I am, I checked it just before tossing it in the bin, and there was the faintest of faintest of faintest lines. Now, this was right on the cusp of the 10 minute time limit, and a bit of googling suggests that internet cheapies are more likely than most tests to suffer from evap lines, so am far from optimistic, but am debating popping out for a CBD to test tomorrow morning. Have one more internet cheapy though, so wondering whether I should use that tomorrow, then get CBD in the highly unlikely event that it's positive.
Slap me now!
DG I know exactly how you feel. Someone I know has a foreign (non EU) partner - they had an accidental baby a couple of months after I had T, ended up together a year later (very sweet, I have no need to think evil thoughts of them). She is currently back in her home country and has just announced she is PG. They have been fairly open about the fact that it only took one try, and they mainly tried because they want her to maximise her visa chances, rather than burning desire for second child. I had a few unfriendly thoughts myself. I also think a lot of my friends (and family) think I am a slave to DS, as I have never left him with anyone but DP overnight (and only twice ever), and DP and I take him pretty much everywhere with us. All our family who are always talking about their next break from their kids, and who they can get to babysit next so they can go on a mini-break think we're bonkers, but we're happy
Battery sorry you had to do the supportive friend thing. I'm hoping none of my close friends announce pregnancies before me, as I will be bitter in the extreme, and probably not nearly as nice as you. Luckily most PG people I know are on DC2, which means that they are less inclined to talk about their pregnancy ALL THE TIME.