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Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome (Part3)

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BUnderTheBonnet · 08/06/2010 17:19

Hi all,

Brand new thread!

I started it so I must get a BFP before the end - them's the rules.

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fliesby · 27/06/2010 20:50

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Muser · 27/06/2010 20:34

Let's do it jolls, I'll move too. So that's two BFPs for 22 June please next listmaker.

randomimposter · 27/06/2010 20:28

sorry fliesby XP... can understand your head is mushy! Why a fluke? If you don't mind me asking?

randomimposter · 27/06/2010 20:26

s(t)inkypinky sounds intriguing... sorry if shitty.

digi am impressed (though also quite scared!) at your cervix intimacy... not that you SHOULDN'T be intimate with your own cervix, or indeed anyone else's if one so chooses... ... changing the subject, hope acu does the trick...

muse was cautiously wondering the same thing (after a more positive poas myself today - top news on yours BTW)? Am happy(ish) to go to BFP list but am SO not leaving this thread... not going to the grads thread for a very very long time...

So whoever's doing the list tomorrow can move me down - BFP 22nd June. TVM x And thanks whoever evened up all the exclamation marks on the BFPs... am such a pedant, it WAS bothering me

Cheesed off about the football. What a sad way to play and go out. Terrible positional defending, and a lack of anything imaginative up-front. Something is rotten on the state of Denmark, and I'm pinning most of the blame on John Terry's penis. With a very large and very sharp pin.

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SinkTillitsPink · 27/06/2010 18:51

NC as I fear I'll be outed by a RL foe.

Least said, the better I s'pose

I feel violated

PV x

SinkTillitsPink · 27/06/2010 18:27

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD47
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD46
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD38 BFP!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD36 BFP!!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD35 BFP!!!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD33 BFP!!!!
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD27
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD27
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD27
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD27
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD25
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD24
SinkTillIt'sPink. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL 28 CD24
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD23
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD21
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD120
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD18
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD18
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD18
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD15
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD14
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD13
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD13
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD12
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD5
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD1
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD1

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

Muser · 27/06/2010 18:26

Sorry to see it wasn't your month Curlylox. Good luck for the next round.

jolls and bunder, are we ready to take the plunge and move off the main list onto the grads one? I did a CBD today that said 2-3 weeks, up from 1-2 weeks on Tuesday. Makes me feel a bit reassured. Still cautious though.

Curlylox · 27/06/2010 18:09

Have updated myself

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD47
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD46
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD38 BFP!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD36 BFP!!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD35 BFP!!!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD33 BFP!!!!
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD27
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD27
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD27
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD27
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD25
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD24
PrettyV. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL26-28 CD24
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD23
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD21
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD120
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD18
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD18
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD18
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD15
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD14
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD13
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD13
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD12
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD5
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD1
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 5 UCL 28 CD1

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

digitalgirl · 27/06/2010 16:06

Congratulations moofold what a turn around for you!

Sorry you're on cd1 again hopefully bring on the cbfm!

My cervix is confusing me. I had lots of ewcm last week, but no positive opks. Now cervix is closed, but not in the way it's usually closed (still high). So don't think I'm post-ov but also doesn't look like I'm about to ov either. So on for another long cycle I think. Maybe next weekend. Perhaps another acupuncture session will help bring on the egg.

Hopefully · 27/06/2010 12:31

Sunday's list updated to pop me back down where I belong... Ho hum.

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD47
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD46
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD38 BFP!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD36 BFP!!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD35 BFP!!!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD33 BFP!!!!
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 28 CD29
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD27
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD27
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD27
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD27
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD25
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD24
PrettyV. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL26-28 CD24
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD23
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD21
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD120
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD18
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD18
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD18
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD15
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD14
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD13
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD13
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD12
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD5
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 8 UCL 28 CD1

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

Magic8footballhastheanswers · 27/06/2010 11:04

Welcome back Viv sorry you are feeling pants hun. It's not over til it's over and this has been proved by the lovely Jolls (great news on the line!!) Muse and Moof this week.......and we are still holding out for Hopefully too (still crossing my fingers and toes) !

As great as FB is it has a nice way of filling us with dread and bitterness There are always going to be status updates from people who are lucky not to be in our cheap, tight, blister making shoes. We would be the same if our innocence hadn't been smashed to pieces with the miscarriage sledge hammer. Hide her posts as Moof suggested and set up an annonymous twitter account so you can post your true FB updates.....or we will just have to have a MN status update when you post on here!!?!?! I have about six updates already I could post this morning!!!! Hang in there for Friday and I do hope the birthday fairy will be good to you xx Enjoy the footie later.......I feel sick already!!!!!!!!!!! C'MON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tigger I like your que sera attitude and I think that moto will stick with me now too about the cries in the night. I know what you mean about the having a DC over 3.

Well, have had a tough 12 hours as my pressure cooker exploded last night and I went into total meltdown given my almost midcycleness..........feel better now, think it's been a few weeks coming.........Postive thoughts all the way and reinforced by the sunshine We are gonna nail ze Germans later......... x

Have a good day ladies. xx

Magic8footballhastheanswers · 27/06/2010 10:12

Sunday's list

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD47
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD46
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD38 BFP!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD36 BFP!!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD35 BFP!!!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD33 BFP!!!!
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 7 UCL 28 CD33
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 28 CD29
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD27
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD27
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD27
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD27
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD25
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD24
PrettyV. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL26-28 CD24
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD23
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD21
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD120
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD18
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD18
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD18
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD15
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD14
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD13
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD13
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD12
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD5

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

Moofold · 27/06/2010 09:06

Thanks everyone for your wishes, the support from you all is amazing. I've been on this thread for 6 months now after my MMC in December and I can honestly say I don't know how I would have got through it without you. Especially those who have been there since the start. I wish you could all get your BFPs this instant, you've all been through so much but stay so strong.

Hopefully, so sorry this isn't your month too but its good to see you being upbeat about it. It will be all systems go this cycle with your temping and CBFM!!

Jollster fab news!! Know what you mean about counting chickens but that's bound to make you more at ease.

BU glad to hear you are sick as a pig! I'm actually looking forward to that now as I'm still feeling a bit symptomless. What Tigger posted above resonates strongly and I know I will not take anything for granted if this wee bean sticks around, I'll welcome everything I may previously have moaned about.

MrsPretty that girl is a pure cow. I can't believe she would behave like that when she knows your background. Your DP is so right, things will work out for you in the end but she will always be a horrible cow.

Saffron my WTF cycle wasn't so bad, 5 weeks long. I don't remember getting PMT and RTD was v light when it arrived and lasted only a few days. My 1st proper cycle was horrendous - 75 days long and I had PMT for about the last 4 weeks of it! Here's hoping yours will settle soon.

Thanks WYG, I'd like to come and join you all when I'm feeling a bit more confident. Will you keep me a seat?

Viv could the cramps not mean something else? I was convinced this last week it was RTD, even when Clare asked me the same question. About your charming FB friend, easy solution - hide her posts. I did that to someone that irritated me before I plucked up the courage to finally delete them!

Have a good day everyone

tigger15 · 27/06/2010 08:31

Hi just got back from Cornwall. We had a great holiday and I wish it could have been 2 weeks. If anyone wants to go to St Ives I found a really great self catering flat. Only bad spot was RTD coming on wednesday so I'm now on CD5 of the next one and here's the new list.

Viv my mmc was probably diagnosed about 2 weeks ago a year ago because I spent last summer holiday hoping it was coming out naturally and the Monday of my return having it confirmed that it didn't.

At the moment I have decided to go with a que sera attitude to everything. Whatever will be will be, I have made all effort I possibly can and now it is not in my hands so I must just concentrate on all other things in my life like finding a new job, new childcare for September when ds starts school, looking for a new house to buy or rent. All fine until the next person I know tells me they're pg(unless it's my best friend who has primary infertility and has been trying for nearly 3 years now and I would be delighted for her).

We have a great communal organisation for infertility, given I belong to a religion which prioritises larges families and having lots of children, and they produce a magazine every couple of years. The latest one came out last week and had an article from a volunteer who did not suffer from infertility and was saying how she thought initially she was helping others by volunteering but how much she received from doing this. When she became pg with no. 4 she described how unlike her previous pgs she appreciated every part and did not complain about twinges, sickness as every ache and pain became a milestone and a gift to treasure. When the baby was born she said it was so much easier to get up for him when he cried as she had really got the motto of "it's hard when they cry at night-it's harder when they don't" stuck firmly in her head. Saying which not everyone is that sensitive although so far people are treading carefully around me most of the time because it's assumed you have a problem if your child is over 3 and there is not another one. Well except for the few who think I'm a heartless career woman who's obviously putting off having any more to further her career.

Good luck everyone!

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD46
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD45
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD37 BFP!!!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD35 BFP!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD34 BFP!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD32 BFP!
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 7 UCL 28 CD32
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 14 UCL26-9 CD5
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 28 CD28
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD26
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD26
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD26
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD26
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD24
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD23
PrettyV. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL26-28 CD23
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD22
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD20
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD19
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD17
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD17
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD17
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD14
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD13
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD12
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD12
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD11
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD10

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

randomimposter · 27/06/2010 07:32

viv really lovely to see you, (understandably) grumpy or not!
hopefully sorry to hear that, but at least you're moving forward.

Quick post as DS wants to do everything he shouldn't... what's dark, pink and came up immediately? Yes, POAS this morning and MUCH stronger and darker than Tuesday's. So after all my gusset offerings things look a bit brighter (though I'm not counting any chickens (or coos as DS calls them)). Tarra for now.

Big x to all.

VivClicquot · 26/06/2010 21:01

Awww congrats moo, that's lovely news. Am really pleased for you missus. xxx

PrettyVuvu - sounds like you've had a tough time of it doll. Sending you lots of love xx

magic - hiya gorgeous x

Hi everyone else, and welcome to the lovely newbies. Also hope all the newly upduffed are doing well and feeling more positive with every day x

Am back and with a minor case of post-holiday comedown.

hopefully, my lovely cycle buddy, I'm here to hold your hand, babe. I fear I'm going to join you as we embark on cycle eight. Sigh. Although I'm also prepared to take one for the team and say it's not over til it's over.

I know what barrenbrook means, and it's bloody hard - like I've been here forever and while we've seen some lovely ladies come and graduate, I fear I'm going to end up like the mad old bat in the corner who smells of gin and who knits odd socks.

So in the interests of being totally memememememe, here are some things that are also playing on my mind:

  1. Cycle-wise, I'm either 10 or 11 dpo and very unusually for me, have been having cramping on and off all day. (I never get period pains) but have just noticed some pinky cm on my knicks and in Viv-land, we all know what that means...
  1. I have a sneaking suspicion my sil is upduffed due to random facebook statuses...
  1. Speaking of FB, an acquaintance of mine has recently announced she's pg with her second baby and every. single. fucking. status update is about the pregnancy. So in the spirit of 'Facebook statuses you wished you could write but simply don't have the bollocks to", I'd like to say, "Katy thinks that in her experience, a 'difficult second pregnancy' is one where you are faced with the decision over whether to terminate after you discover your baby girl won't survive to term - not one where you're just puking up your ring a bit more than usual'
  1. Friday will make one year to the day that we had the scan where we discovered I'd had a mmc.

All of which is pretty rubbish, quite frankly. Still, it's my birthday next Sunday, so y'know, I'm hoping the birthday fairy will bless me with an iPad. Oh - and I've made a pact with DH that there's no way a higher being would bless us with both being pg AND England winning the world cup, so if I'm not upduffed, then I'd put your money on an England vs Brazil final...

Lots of love and promises that I'll be less of a grumpy cow next week..

Viv xxxx

Hopefully · 26/06/2010 20:50

I think AF has finally arrived! Am not particularly downhearted about it as, despite my teeny glimmer of hope, I knew there was no real chance after the one million BFNs I got over the past couple of days. Still only light spotting, will make tomorrow CD1 if bleeding starts in earnest overnight.

As others have said, it's nice to at least have the (fairly pathetic) reassurance that my body is working as it should, and I'm hoping that the fertility monitor/thermometer do their jobs this month

Prettyvuvu sorry you had such a crappo time in work. Keep clinging onto the 'who will be happier in five years?' thought.

WestYorkshireGirl · 26/06/2010 20:25

Congrats, Moo! It does feel odd at first doesn't it? Come and join us on the grads thread when you feel up to it!

Loopymumsy · 26/06/2010 20:08

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barrenbrook · 26/06/2010 16:26

just running in as on way to work, wanted to say congrats to moo bloody marvellous news! Congrats chicken. Hopefully hopefully is next in line! FX. We are doing well on this thread, everyone's leaving

saffronbun · 26/06/2010 16:19

PrettyV - stick a couple of prawns in a pocket of her handbag when she's not looking, she sounds like she deserves it!!

Hoorah for Moof - this is clearly the list to be on.

Am very bored now of waiting for WTF cycle to end. Question to those who know (which is probably most of you) - did you get PMT like normal first time round after MC?

Am slightly unnerved by the randomness as my cycle is normally so regular you can set your watch by it so this is uncharted territory.

Magic8footballhastheanswers · 26/06/2010 15:41

Saturday's list

Urd TTC#3, CYCLE 2, UCL28, CD46
Magichen TTC#2, WTF CYCLE, UCL29, CD45
BUnderthebonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2, UCL 28-36, CD37 BFP!!!!!!
Muser TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 28, CD35 BFP!!!
Jollster TTC#2, Cycle 1 (partIII), UCL 26 CD34 BFP!!
Moofold TTC#2 cycle4 UCL~32 CD32 BFP!
Hopefully TTC#2 cycle 7 UCL 28 CD32
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 13 UCL26-9 CD28
Curlylox TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 28 CD28
vivcliquot TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD26
Littlemiss72 TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL28, CD26
InchyInchy TTC#1, cycle 1, UCL 30?, CD26
batteryhen TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 28, CD26
SarahMia TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL28, CD24
IvySedai TTC#2, Cycle 1, UCL variable, CD23
PrettyV. TTC#1,Cycle 1, UCL26-28 CD23
WildSheepChase TTC#2, cycle 1, UCL 60, CD22
LAF77 TTC #1, Cycle 3 UCL28, CD20
LucySnowe TTC#2, cycle 4, UCL 38ish, CD19
TAcrazy TTC #2, cycle 8, UCL 28, CD17
Digitalgirl TTC#2 cycle 1 (postMC#2), UCL 37+, CD17
Mummy4610 TTC#4 cycle 4 UCL 26-30 CD17
Magichen TTC# cycle UCL 29 CD14
Barrenbrook TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC#3) UCL 28 CD13
Magic8ballhastheanswers TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL28 CD12
MrsGMack TTC#2, cycle 1 UCL 28, CD12
northangoldilocks TTC #1, cycle 1, UCL 28-30, CD11
bessie26 TTC#2 cycle 2 UCL31 CD10

WTTC
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 3rd cycle post ERPC self/bastard company making me work notice imposed TTC amnesty
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait
Freezing TTC#2 MC 28/3/10 on cycle 2 of 2 cycle wait
NBelle TTC#1 MC 09/04/10
Hairytriangle TTC#1, MC /May/June/10
Fliesby TTC#1, MMC May 10
youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, MMC May 10
saffronbun TTC#1, MC 4/6/10

MIA
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 last seen cycle 2
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 last seen cycle 2
Scotchontherocks TTC#1 UCL28 last seen cycle 5
Gonnabe TTC#1 UCL28 last seen Cycle 2
Pollyanna TTC#6, UCL27, last seen cycle 3

GRADUATES
amyboo - baby boy - Matthew
totally - baby girl - Faith
hoops997 - baby boy - Benjamin
Memorylapse - Baby girl - Olivia
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
HappyGirl1 BFP 23rd March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP 2nd April 2010
Goodluckbear BFP 10th April 2010
Malteser1981 BFP 11th April 2010
Gilda BFP 19th April 2010
AlbaDeTamble BFP 25th April 2010
sparklyrainbow BFP 25th April 2010
BunnyBaby BFP 27th April 2010
Margie32 BFP 26th April
LucyT66 BFP 30th April
Redheadgal BFP 10th May
Westyorkshiregirl BFP 19 May
dorcas111 BFP 24th May
slimyak BFP
clareanna BFP 1 june 2010
LadyBee BFP 8 June

batteryhen · 26/06/2010 15:00

Quick hello from Germany pretty - someone like that does not deserve to be called a friend. You are the better person, and have a lot more going for you overall,(not to mention the BFP that will find its way to you ) in a few years time she will have a kid on her own with a useless t**t of an ex who is nowhere to be seen. xxxx for you .

Moof what lovely news this is a really lucky thread at the moment!

News from my end - felt as sick as dog this morning, DP was very excited and rushed to get a test (left mine at home on purpose) - BFN. I am not surprised really but still had a bit of hope! I feel like I am in no mans land.......no BFN and no RTD. However I really felt like I might have Ovulated last weekend, so we will see again in a week.

I hope everyone is having a fab time in this weather xxx

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