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TTC after a Miscarriage - Keep Trying!!!!

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 15:15

Well ladies, its about time we had a new thread, the old one is getting very long. Plus I think we need another fresh start, with lots of positive babydust:

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Get a big handful girls, i think we all need it.
I was trying to think of something great and positive to put, but this TTC lark is getting us all down, i'm fed up of trying, but we will all succeed eventually, our times will come.

It will be much better for our little ones to have a good start when our bodies are truly ready to carry them.

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maddyd · 28/07/2005 07:52

Morning Everyone. Was up all night with stomach ache dont know what t can be as i dont really get period pains. Must have eaten something off. Temp is back to low too, so not my month me thinks. But hey

Anyway

as i was laying there i couldnt help but think what a lovely bunch of people there are on this thread and even if i never fall pregnant again i will be rooting for everyone else.

((((((((((((((((((((((group Hug)))))))))))))))))))

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 27/07/2005 21:49

night diddle

signing off soon to watch bb

x

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 21:46

chocolatepeanut - what a lovely way to think, luck will catch up with all of us eventually.

switching off now, going to have a milky drink and big piece of galaxy caramel, yum yum.

Night night all

xxx

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 27/07/2005 21:27

life can be v unfair charleepeters

i see all sorts of lousy mums with my job,its heartbreaking and they have them like rabbits

But i do believe that if you try to be a good person (and thats not always easy,i get so angry ) that luck will catch up with you eventually.
xx

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 21:25

i Agree charlee, and of course you can add your stats, the more the merrier. It is a sad world, so unfair.

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charleepeters · 27/07/2005 21:12

I added my stats - hope you dont mind! we will get there girls, were good people who deserve childrn to love and to love us back.

dont you find it annoying that all the time you hear f women who fall pg accidently, or who abort healthy babies or who have them then abuse them when here we are trying so hard for babies who we would carry for 9 month then love them unlike anyone else in the world and yet were finding it so hard! sad, sad, world - but WE WONT BE BEATEN

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 21:06

Chocolatepeanut - Love the stats, very good, made me sad about your darling Phillipa, its not fair we've all been through this. horrible world

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 27/07/2005 20:22

added my stats to said link.now you have it all!!

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 27/07/2005 20:12

cori mine due sun and got bfn yesterday and today

cori · 27/07/2005 20:10

Welcome to all the newbies. We have a ttc statistics thread you can post your details on too. It helps people like me to keep with everyones stories, I get sooo confused.
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Welcome back diddle, hope you are feeling positive again.

Choclatepeanuts, my AF is due on Friday, I did an early test on Tuesday it was BFN. No surprise really. If AF doesnt come I will test again, I dont have my hopes up at all.

strike1 · 27/07/2005 19:59

I knew that name must have come from somewhere!

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 27/07/2005 19:40

came down as had to pick dd up from nursery,which always lifts me

we then had a play and now shes in bed (goes like a dream at 7.00

but to answer your question,i am sat downstairs flitting between here and ebay and watching corrie eating a v large bag of ......

Chocolate peanuts!!!!!!!!

maddyd · 27/07/2005 19:26

Chocolatepeanut Dont fret about work. Theres nothing they can do and im sure they are totally sypmathetic to what youve been through.

Are you eating chocolate upstairs in your hidey hole

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 27/07/2005 19:22

Pamina3

Huge CONGRATULATIONS on the safe delivery of your little bundle.Its really cheered me up.

Coupe

So sorry to hear of your loss.I had missed miscarriage at 12 wks in 1992 and i have a beautiful little girl now (but then had a stillbirth after her,which is another story )

So thats me,maddyd,strike1 and shelly24 all with af due this weekendish.Any more?

I wish i was not so obsessive but reading your notes i can see i am not alone

this testing early is just not good forthe soul.dh said 'just wait till mon' (af would be 1 day late)and i ran upstairs where i have been all afternoon.i think hes really worried about me now.
Thing is i took 6mths mat leave after loosing philippa as i knew i would ttc and i am usually v v sick for the first 4-5 mths and have to be off sick.As it is i am worried that i will be back in work (24th Oct) before i am pg and then have to take time off again cos i will prob be ill.Work would not be happy.

Sorry to rant on,just putting myself under additional pressure,i know

maddyd · 27/07/2005 19:07

2nd August. Was starting to really convince myself i was and im now convincing myself im not.

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 19:04

maddyd - when is she due? is it the weekend?

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maddyd · 27/07/2005 19:02

God i have bad belly ache and wind Stay away af, you are catagorically not allowed to visit for the next 9 months. You are not welcome

Soz just muttering away to myself here

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 19:01

hi shelly - whats your story??
Strike1 - Af is just packing her bags, should be leaving tomorrow then its back to bd.
I'm enjoying my wine too. Hope you have a good time on your break, even if you are working, its juts nice to be away from home sometimes.
I had loads of pg symptoms too, i know its tough but try not to get your hopes up.

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maddyd · 27/07/2005 19:00

Hey Hiya shelly

strike1 · 27/07/2005 18:54

Hurray!! Good to see you Shelly. Everyone this is Shelly, Shelly this is everyone!

shelly24 · 27/07/2005 18:47

Hey strike,have found it!Am alittle dim my self1
Soz for intruding everyone,hope its ok to join you!?

strike1 · 27/07/2005 18:42

I'm ok. I felt like I had every symptom under the sun a few days ago, but it all seems to have calmed down a bit today. Although I do wake up each day with my teeth aching and feeling sort hung over ( which I'm not!) And that is how I felt last time. But I might be imagining it. Off to the family holiday place again tomorrow ( but I still have to work ) and some friends are joining us. If af comes to then at least I can enjoy the local wine for a bit!

How are you doing? Is af still about or have you sent here packing?

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 18:37

oh strike, you nutter, you were just saying what you think, thats what this is for. you didn't sound too sensible don't worry how are you doing?

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strike1 · 27/07/2005 18:35

Sorry coupe, didn't mean to sound all straight talky It's just I got the same thing and my doctor said that to me. I don't normally sound so important, I don't what came over me Like Diddle say's it might be best to wait for another one just to get back on track. I know how hard that is believe me! It was my first to. I'm sure that it'll happen again soon, and you can get back to that happy pg feeling again

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Diddle · 27/07/2005 18:26

My pleasure coupe, i wish you all the best, keep trying, it will happen when the time is right

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