Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all, laughing. All welcome.

Yay fertilebrook! And Zayja... And I just saw I'm at day 7 already. Will have to get over my exhaustion after long day at work and get on with trying to join this run of good luck!

Living eolm ? Room!
Ds gone to bed so can pop on for longer...
littlemiss I'm going to be the evil temptress... If you're a day over you could POAS? I never had cramping pre RTD but the last cycle I had 5 days of achy cramps before RTD descended - which as you may recall led me to all sorts of wild imaginings...

playing I had some mid cycle spotting post erpc, quite a few of us have experienced it- can't say for definite what caused it, have you tried checking with an ov stick?

freezing sorry to hear your news and that you've found yourself here IYKWIM

Playing If you are ready to try again I would definitely take the ewcm as a great sign. I think i ov'd about 21 days after my eprc so it is defo possible.

My new book - Taking charge of your fertility raves on about egg whites and says you must do it immediately and continue to do it as much as poss when you have them.

I don't want to suggest sex to you if you are still feeling too emotional or raw but if you feel ready then I would say now is a fab time to get to it.

Congrats barrenbrook - I really hope this one sticks around. Try to enjoy it (I know I know....)

Still feeling very positive. I really would recommend Zita West's CD - not only do I have no trouble getting to sleep (fall asleep at same point every night) but she manages to make me feel sub-consciously positive.

If I don't get preg this month I will be very disappointed but I still think it's better to feel positive for the mo and deal with the let down when it comes.

Littlemiss sorry no idea but sending you lucky sticky vibes.

Unbuffy I'm gonna catch the duffers, I'm gonna catch the duffers...

Clareanna - you have a living eolm? Sounds like something out of Middle Earth!

Fab news barrenbrook!!! So chuffed for you- that's made my day completely!!!
Doing the snoopy dance around the living eolm with glee!

Just a quickie before DD's bath - well done barrenbrook!!! I knew I was right to be excited for you. Great stuff.

Hello to newbies and waves to everyone else

Tuesday's List (episode 37). Exactly as above but just moving myself on to the WTTC list as not actually trying yet! Cheers.

Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD52
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD48
cinnamonswirl TTC#? UCL23-30 cycle? CD40
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL26-28 cycle6 CD39 *23rd March BFP
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD32 *6th april BFP
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD30
Limelight TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD30
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD30
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD29
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD27
Liahgen TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 CD26
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD24
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL37 cycle 2 CD20
Gi1da TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 2 CD16
hippychick66 TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD16
Mummy3610 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle 1 CD15
Moofold TTC#2 UCL~33 cycle2 CD13
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 2 CD13
BunnyBaby TTC#3 UCL31 cycle 2 CD12
Icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 cycle 12 UCL24-32 CD12
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD11
LucyT66 TTC#1 UCL33-34 cycle 4 CD11
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 2 CD8
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle 2 CD7
slimyak TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 4 CD6
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle2 CD5
Jollster TTC#2 UCL26 cycle WTF CD5
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 5 CD2

PENDING STATS
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Spottysox

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 6 week wait post ERPC
ElmMum TTC#2 MC 28/2-17/3/10 UCL 28/29 on cycle 1 of (self-imposed) 2 or 3 cycle wait

MIA
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD64
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD60
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD60
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD58
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD54
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD42
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD37
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD33
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Kaylo12 TTC#2 UCL? cycle ? CD?

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP *2nd April BFP

Hi Girls, me me me post I'm afraid.

Been on the sofa most of the afternoon (working of course) .. I feel very crampy but no period, doesn't feel normal to me and still no RTD anyone experienced this? my lower back isn't great either, is this just playing with my mind here on cycle 2 after erpc so could all be cockahoot still, just thought it was worth asking you lovely ladies!

Gilda - When I was pg with dd, we went out for a meal with some friends (bear with me...) I couldn't finish my soup, so my friend finished it for me. I said 'don't catch it', she said 'what' and took a spoonful. I said 'don't catch pregnancy', and she snorted all the soup everywhere. Ah the hilarity...

Feel free to snuggle up and catch it - just keep away from my bowl...

Tuesday's List (episode 36)

Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD52
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD48
cinnamonswirl TTC#? UCL23-30 cycle? CD40
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL26-28 cycle6 CD39 *23rd March BFP
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD32 *6th april BFP
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD30
Limelight TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD30
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD30
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD29
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD27
Liahgen TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 CD26
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD24
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL37 cycle 2 CD20
Gi1da TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 2 CD16
hippychick66 TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD16
Mummy3610 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle 1 CD15
Moofold TTC#2 UCL~33 cycle2 CD13
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 2 CD13
BunnyBaby TTC#3 UCL31 cycle 2 CD12
Icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 cycle 12 UCL24-32 CD12
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD11
LucyT66 TTC#1 UCL33-34 cycle 4 CD11
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 2 CD8
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle 2 CD7
slimyak TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 4 CD6
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle2 CD5
Jollster TTC#2 UCL26 cycle WTF CD5
ElmMum TTC#2 UCL 28/29 cycle WTF CD3
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 5 CD2

PENDING STATS
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Spottysox

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 6 week wait post ERPC

MIA
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD64
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD60
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD60
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD58
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD54
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD42
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD37
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD33
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Kaylo12 TTC#2 UCL? cycle ? CD?

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP *2nd April BFP

oh blimey it's busy on here, am bound to forget someone so apologies in advance. Have been reading but mostly on my phone so no chance to post.

Can't remember who I've already whooopppppppppeeeeed for ref BFP so a massive smacker for all of you, but an extra sloppy one for Barrenbrook, am SOOOOOOOOO chuffed for you. Wishing u-hu prittstik glueyness to you all.

Hi to freezing am so glad you've popped over, and welcome to playing. Am also on WTF (though note the day has gorn a bit skewiff - will re-post in a mo).

Re accupuncture - spookily enough, have my first appt on Thursday. Booked it partly on recommmendation, and partly as I felt I needed to do something positive and tangible. Had acc for the first time when I had horrible carpal tunnel after DS was born, and thought it was brilliant (after many weeks of physio which made little difference, 4 sessions of needles saw it almost back to normal). My best mate used to be a big cheese at NYR and said their accupuncture therapists were always very booked out and deemed successful. Agree with Gi1da though, think you have to actually have sex too.... which reminds me, better start thinking about that again. Oh arsicles...

Been running around like a loon as we are trying to get house ready to go on the market, and getting jobs done with a toddler is interesting.... hence why little time to post.

Must try harder.... Love to you all.

hello freezing glad you have moseyed over and also on break so happy to go through that with you - as much as anyone can be happy to be here. I also had mc in Jan and March (and last August) so seems like you and I are on the same schedule! D'you want to sit on the WTTC list? happy to drop you on next time. Just wanted to extend warmest xxx

May I join you ladies?

I had a MC on 28th March, and also one back in January. I lurked on this list in January but never quite joined, and then when I had a BFP I joined the graduate list

(waves to Cheepz - hope you're doing ok)

I'm planning a bit of break before TTC again so thought I better join properly and not do everything backwards this time round. so....ermm... hello!

Big massive congrats to barrenbrook hope it is 3rd time lucky for you.

Thanks Gi1da. I'm feeling pretty strong after the mc now. Feel pretty lucky that it all happened so easily IYKWIM and that I once again fell pg pretty easily (I already have 1 DS). Could have been far worse, sure they'll be plenty of people on this thread with far more devestating stories. Just impatient to ttc again!

WTF cycle, I like it . I know there is no real way of telling for sure whats going on, I fully expect a wierd cycle or 2 but just wondering if any of you lovely ladies had any idea, as this thread seems like a good place to ask! I suppose I am just hoping that just maybe my body is getting back to normal.

Hi PlayingatMotherhood, sorry to hear of your mc. I think it's certainly possible to ovulate right after a mc, some ladies even get pg straight away. Could be ov spotting, but we call the first cycle after mc the WTF cycle (what the f*ck) as who knows what's going on as your body gets back to normal.
Best wishes.

Hi ladies,

I wonder if I could crash your thread with a question or 2?

A bit of background:

I had a mc 23 days ago, all natural at 8 weeks. EPU confirmed complete natural mc 21 days ago, although still got BFP. Stopped bleeding completely 16 days ago and thats about when my pg symptoms stopped. Got a BFN a week ago (probably was negative well before that but waited 2 weeks to test after the BFP atthe EPU).

TMI alert. So, yesterday I got a little bit of brown spotting mixed with small amounts of EWCM. Not enough to mark pants but some there when I wiped each time I went to the loo. Today there is still small amounts of old looking blood but loads of EWCM. What do you think could be going on? Could it be ovualtion spotting as there is loads of EWCM? Or is it more likely just my body playing tricks on me and settling down? I though most post mc cycles were annovultory but not quite sure why I have EWCM if I'm not oving? What do you think?

Hi Buffers stay here - maybe upduffage is contagious!

Hello everyone,

Not really posting much anywhere as don't feel I really fit in anywhere yet, so thought I'd pop in and see you guys! Very very pleased to see Zayja's come out of denial, also that Happy has decided to put herself (partially) on the bfp list if not the grads! And very excited about Barrenbrook too! YAY!! Lots of exclaimation marks!!!

Oh for doing nothing until we hit mc point here - roll on 11 weeks - but active toddler who insists on walking slowly everywhere WHILE HOLDING HANDS makes for an exhausting life, as does half-a-kitchen (grrr).

ANYHOO, love to everyone and hope the boldness has gone for good, twas hurting my eyes!

oops late posting again.. list all sorted.. move along, nothing to see here...

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYY Barrenbrook !! I'm really delighted for you!

Viv I also work near a Neal's Yard and have been seeing an acupuncturist there for about a year. Probably would have got pregnant much sooner if I had only had sex more often! I totally recommend it, am sure it helps maintain (or boost) fertility, and is also very relaxing.

Elmmum where do you want to be on the list?

Happy - you ARE preggers - relax!!

ElmMum - I am putting you on the regular list as if you are having your first period you can go on the regular list - have put CD 3 as I think you said you started a few days ago - but feel free to repost and change the day (CD1 is first day of bleeding)

(also moved a couple of the pending stats to the MIA as not seen a post for ages)

also BARREN put your BFP on the list but not on the grads list yet!

Tuesday's List

Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD52
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD48
cinnamonswirl TTC#? UCL23-30 cycle? CD40
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL26-28 cycle6 CD39 *23rd March BFP
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD32 *6th april BFP
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD31
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD30
Limelight TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD30
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD30
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD29
Curlylox TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD27
Liahgen TTC#6 UCL26 cycle 1 CD26
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD24
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL37 cycle 2 CD20
Gi1da TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 2 CD16
hippychick66 TTC#3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD16
Mummy3610 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle 1 CD15
Moofold TTC#2 UCL~33 cycle2 CD13
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 2 CD13
BunnyBaby TTC#3 UCL31 cycle 2 CD12
Icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 cycle 12 UCL24-32 CD12
sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD11
LucyT66 TTC#1 UCL33-34 cycle 4 CD11
JulesAbs TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 2 CD8
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle 2 CD7
slimyak TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 4 CD6
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle2 CD5
ElmMum TTC#2 UCL 28/29 cycle WTF CD3
Jollster TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD

PENDING STATS
meatntattypie
GinaFB
Spottysox

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait
Cheepz TTC#2 MMC 26/3/10 6 week wait post ERPC

MIA
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD64
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD60
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD60
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD58
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD54
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD42
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD37
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD33
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Kaylo12 TTC#2 UCL? cycle ? CD?

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010
Unbuffy BFP 28th March 2010
Zayja BFP *2nd April BFP

I think the list is a bit messed up (annoying of me to point this out given I'm too chicken to actually change it myself).

I noticed because a page or so back I got moved to the WTTC section now that I'm having my first period but in the one above I'm back in the Pending Stats bit. Anyone want to have a bash at fixing it?? I don't!

yay BARRENB its so good that it has happened again for you so soon - it took so long the first time - everything crossed for you - know the ladies on the grads will be super excited about you and ZAYJA joinging them

VIV - feeling for you honey and we will get there too in time but it sucks to be at the bottom of the list. I will be sending you all my get pg vibes this month since I won't be needing them as I recline on the WTTC chaise longue!

Where did MRSGAZ go - not seen here for a while

HAPPYG think positive - thats going to be my mantra from now on - it statidstically improves your chances of sucess!

SLIMY I am also 2 stone overweight and on a mad fitness charge to drop pounds and get into prime pregnancy shape!

For me am back in the office and people seem to want me to feel worse than I do, ohh its so sad for you, oh despite the brave face thiz must be terribly difficult ... no not really, I have been through this before, its not the end of the world, we will try again and get there in the long run - don't drag me down with your preconcieved ideas of how you might feel if this happened to you?!

Anyway. I am enjoying the pace and distractyion of being back in the office although have spent most of the morning chatting, drinking tea, getting the gossip and catching up on all the political manoeverings 0 you got to love a standard office job!

hope all having a good day and a big woot woot to our pregnant old timers!!