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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Why do i do it to myself :-(

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ttcbabyno3 · 13/03/2010 10:44

Hi,

i took a first response test this morning, and got a BFN i'm so silly cause i'm not due on till next sat so a week yet, but i cant help feel really upset :-(

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ttcbabyno3 · 17/03/2010 18:49

oh thank you prinpo i think i will change it to miss worrier lol xx

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Prinpo · 17/03/2010 18:42

Looks like you'd better change your name now! The very, very best of luck. I really hope it all goes well.

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ttcbabyno3 · 17/03/2010 16:59

oh thank you prinpo i have done about 8 FR and a clear blue normal one and tescos own and they are all faint but positives :-)

I am even sure enough that i called and arranged my first midwife appointment, seams like ages away lol but something to now look forward to.

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Prinpo · 17/03/2010 13:00

ttc, just had to reiterate point above about faint lines with FR. I had those too with previous pregnancy and, even though Clearblue digital said 'not pregnant', I was. I'd trust the FR result. As others have said, a line is a line is a line. Congrats- I'm exceptionally jealous!

rosieposey · 17/03/2010 11:28

Im sure you will get your dark line soon ttc - good luck with the rest of your pg

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ttcbabyno3 · 17/03/2010 08:50

Oh i have cramping and have had with my last 2, aslong as its not to bad its a good sign means little bean in doing what it should.

i have done about 10 FR tests all have lines .. i know some people sY Clm down lol but thats just me little miss obsessive when it comes to something i care about so much i just wont believe it till i have the darkest line ever lol

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MrsWajs · 17/03/2010 08:09

Haha ttc you're a woman on a mission!! I started cramping last night - AF still not here but pretty sure she's en route

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ttcbabyno3 · 17/03/2010 06:43

Did another FR this morning its faint but a tad darker than yesterday :-) i bought loads in boots they were buy 1 get 1 free so i have plenty to be used xxxxx

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MrsWajs · 17/03/2010 00:32

Yep ttc I think waiting til the weekend now and testing then is a good idea and try not to get yourself stressed about it!x

rosieposey · 16/03/2010 20:09

Just stop worrying if you can, there is absolutely no point and you have no control over the outcome either way. Personally i think you will be just fine but have tested very very early which is why you are only getting faint lines and no positive on a cb digi. Please just take my advice and try and wait till the weekend to test again, it will be fine

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ttcbabyno3 · 16/03/2010 19:15

Oh i didnt know about chemical pregnancy, just looked it up and got a bit of a fright so tad upset now :-( just add to the list of worries i guess.

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rosieposey · 16/03/2010 19:00

If you are getting lines then hopefully they will get darker over the next few days - you are pg i would say because they cant all be coming up positive but just wait and see as chemical pgs can and do happen - i havent had one myself but reading on here its not that uncommon, try not to worry and just take it easy - it will work out and your line will get darker but now you know you are pg then save some money and maybe do one at the weekend or something?

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ttcbabyno3 · 16/03/2010 14:59

it's everyone else keeps saying to me no no it need to be dark so i done a wee literally 15 mins ago so afternoon wee and straight away another faint but def there line came up, i feel like im having tp prove tp DH and everyone else that i am!!! so annoying.

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rosieposey · 16/03/2010 14:19

I wouldnt worry i cant see three false positives with FR or even three evap lines - Just do another one with FMU to ease your mind but you i would say, are most definately pg

I find the test lines on FR really thin as well so i reckon that sometimes makes them a bit harder to see iyswim?

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ttcbabyno3 · 16/03/2010 12:38

oh that is good, im sure fR surley cant be wrong all 3 of them, i have buy 1 get 1 free on FR so i do another tommorow so if its darker i will just take that as a yes and not bother with digital.

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rosieposey · 16/03/2010 11:34

I dont think that the clearblue is as sensitive as FR added to that did you use exactly the same sample? If not given that it is early days you might have just used a sample with less hcg in. I have read about ladies on here who have got positives from FR but not from clearblue digi until a day or so afterwards.

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ttcbabyno3 · 16/03/2010 10:22

well i have done 2 FR tests, both lines very faint but there :-) done clear blue digital and it sais not pregnant? :-(

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MrsWajs · 16/03/2010 08:15

A question actually, would it need to be a first response test or would a CB digital do the trick?????

I have one CB dig and one cheapo test in the house, kinda wanted to save the CB tho - weird I know!! lol

MrsWajs · 16/03/2010 08:13

Ooooheeee!! This is your 2nd faint line isn't it?? Sounds VERY promising!

Now tempted to first response myself, am on CD28 and longest cycle has been 32 so technically that would be 4 days before AF due????

To test or not to test, this is the question?!?!?!?!x

rosieposey · 16/03/2010 07:37

If you got a line with a FR test then you are pregnant. I got a line and it was faint but it was definately a visible line with DS 4 days before AF was due, they are pretty good so i think that congratulations are in order!

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ttcbabyno3 · 16/03/2010 07:32

Too late did one got a very faint line with first response so I don't know sodding faint lines xx

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MrsWajs · 16/03/2010 00:06

No more testing for you til at least Thursday me thinks!! Then you'll almost definitely know whichever result you get is probably right!?
C'mon you know you can do it - if I can wait you can too hehe

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ttcbabyno3 · 15/03/2010 08:44

Oh you are sooo good, i would of tested by now. my cycle is between 27-28 so im not even sure i got my ovulation date really, and prob imagining pregnancy symptoms.

Yes we all go through crazy stages, i did a first response yesterday and busted it open to have a closer look and there was a slight faint line, but i think maybe an evap line or something. i sooo want to test today. But i wont :-)

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MrsWajs · 15/03/2010 08:36

Yep I reckon so although I am never sure as my cycles are different most of the time 27 - 32 days so up to the 21st would be my 32 days which is why I'm waiting til then to test! Although saying that I've just been readin about anovulatory cycles and have now convinced myself that's what I'm having since I haven't been able to pinpoint ovulation this month lol! Crazy I know!!xx

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ttcbabyno3 · 15/03/2010 08:12

Yeah it is too early, i have an obssesion lol i have been really good today no peeing on a stick for me today.

So we are basically due about the same time? fingers crossed for you

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