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TTC and TWW, AF due 5th March - can you help me keep my sanity?

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Cozie · 28/02/2010 20:43

Hi

Im now 9 days past ovulation with a BFN using first response this morning yet my breast are unusually large. They are quite painful from right after ovulation until AF.

My husband and I have been TTC since Dec 08 and MC at 14 weeks in June, now almost 9 months ago, i am of course dissapointed when AF arrives each month but what kills me more is this dreaded TWW

Would be keen to vent my 'phantom' symptoms with aynone else

x

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lucybarnes · 02/03/2010 19:44

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Olivetti · 02/03/2010 19:39

No.....am trying to hold off until a bit nearer AF due date, as don't want the uncertainty of thinking it may have been too early to test, if that makes sense. I know that's stupid, cos if hormones are causing my symptoms then it should show up on a test.

lucybarnes · 02/03/2010 19:35

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Olivetti · 02/03/2010 19:32

Hi - can I join as well? TTC #1. AF due in 4-5 days....am falling asleep at desk and boobs HUGE and sore...wishful thinking?? Good luck everyone xx

lucybarnes · 02/03/2010 19:22

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Cozie · 02/03/2010 10:54

Lucy

It was very enjoyable wasnt it, its so nice to vent our frustration and at least that site raised a smile - we are not mad after all.

How long have you been trying for now hun?

x

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Cozie · 02/03/2010 10:53

To the sea

I suppose if you have resigned yoru self to a BFN then you are managing yoru expections well, other than keeping insanley positive only to be dissapointed!

The stupid idiot tested again this morning 11dpo and still nothing!

I am going to give up now until friday and continue to fret each time i check the loo paper after visting the ladies!

GRRR
xx

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lucybarnes · 02/03/2010 10:39

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tothesea · 02/03/2010 09:43

I am riddled with PMT symptoms so have no hope at all for a BFP this month

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Cozie · 01/03/2010 21:58

This made me smile!

www.bellybelly.com.au/articles/conception/two-week-wait-activity-list

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Cozie · 01/03/2010 21:34

Excuse the typos these I phones too technical for me!

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Cozie · 01/03/2010 21:33

Ladies

it is something that is hard to share with the other halves as they already think were nuts!

Tonight I'm dizzy and have cramps and ..... Tested still nope!!!

Roll on Friday when the bloody thing us actually due least like you say we can get on again (literally) I don't mind the first bit waiting to ovulate and 7 days of 'dies he know only slwring with him for his swimmers'

He does know this , last month I blubbed on this damn tww so this month we turned it into a real project, legs up, preseed and twice daily so really thinking if we've not hit the nail on the head this time when we really gave it our all what chance we got?!

Any positive pills going spare!

3 more sleeps!

How you girls getting on?

X

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Loujalou · 01/03/2010 13:51

I am not due to 8th March but am already going dolally! This is cycle 11 so am getting bored of it all now.

Cozie sorry to hear of your loss.

tothesea · 01/03/2010 13:38

Hi Cozie, I'm with you! TTC no 2 for same period of time without even a sniff of pregnancy. I am so sorry to hear of your MC, this is something I have luckily never had to go through, it must be so hard.
My body plays the cruellest tricks on me every month.. I've had em all... sore boobs, bad taste in mouth, late period, dizzy and nauseous, incredibly tired.
I have today had an implantation bleed, of course thats not what it is, its just that's what my body wants me to think it is
I am feeling crampy too so AF is probably coming early, at least if it does I will be put out of my misery sooner. I am usually so good at not POAS but AF was late last month so caved on second day over... AF came an hour later.