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Just MC...Long haul, short haul, ranting, weeping, laughing all encouraged. Oldies and newbies very welcome

991 replies

liahgen66 · 22/02/2010 21:46

Ok, feel a bit scared actually starting the new thread but here we are, for however long (or short) our time here may be.

Off you go ladies. Welcome () one and all.

OP posts:
barrenbrook · 22/03/2010 17:35

Allthe8s Sorry you're feeling shitty chick and that got you, sending you lots of love (and chocolate and wine)

Clareanna P*ssing myself about you groping your own boobs (and breathing a sigh of relief that it's not just me that gropes ones own bosom!!)

Mumsie123 Any news on the EPU appointment?

littlemiss Hope the docs appointment goes well tomorrow matey and that there's nothing to worry about. Good to go and get it checked out though if you have a hunch something ain't what it should be.

Hello to everyone else (barrenbrook waves then sneaks off with cracklepops)

clareanna · 22/03/2010 17:06

Stop me please! all this talk of testing has got me considering a quick trip to a pharmacy before we fly home... Have got a nice CB waiting at home to crush my hopes test with argh!!!

clareanna · 22/03/2010 17:00

allthe8s if there's one place that can understand that mental torture and will listen it's here- I think everyone has good and totally shite days. If it's any help I'm nearing the end of my tww and actually found myself squeezing my boobs to see if they were bigger whilst in the queue at a kids themepark. (which could have got me arrested in he USA!) The emotional rollercoaster is exhausting ( not just real ones!) I am pretty certain my RTD is about to start, but that doesn't stop me hoping against hope. Big hug to you. X

littlemiss72 · 22/03/2010 14:25

HUGS Allthe8s so sorry your having such a tough time right now. Lots of TLC and that lovely virtual comfort package hunni x x x

Gi1da · 22/03/2010 14:16

Oh bugger Allthe8s so sorry you're having such a hard time. There's homemade Nigella's Chocolate&Guinness cake down here at the bottom of the list, with a side helping of Irish coffee to help it go down. And a big box of clean hankies too. In fact, its all boxed up as a takeaway, so here off with you to find a quiet spot to yourself. Look after yourself and DH, hope things feel easier soon.

Allthe8s · 22/03/2010 13:55

Hi Ladies, been lurking for a few days as have been on a rollercoaster of emotions. Feel totally and utterly shit today to be frank and it is hard to talk to anyone as no-one really understand the mental torture of that hope building and being snatched away. BF had baby at weekend (Which I am chuffed about btw) RTD came today (have given up trying to convince myself its implantation bleeding!) along with a letter from the hospital about a Rememberance service next month for dd2, born 10 months ago today. Off to cry into my jacket spud

I promise to come back later and be less self indulgent as I know sone of you ladies are having a tough time right now xx

updating the stats for Monday

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD62
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle WTF CD57
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD53
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD49
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD49
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD47
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD43
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD37
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD33
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD32
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD32
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD29
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD29
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD28
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD26
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD25
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD25
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD25
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD22
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD22
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD20
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD18
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD17
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD16
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD16
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD16
Limelight TTC2 UCL35 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD15
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD15
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD13
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD13
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle 1 CD13
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD11
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL 37 cycle 2 CD 5
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD3
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle2 CD1

PENDING STATS

sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD?
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF CD?

meatntattypie
GinaFB
Elmmu
Spottysox waiting for MC scan 18/3

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

Unbuffy · 22/03/2010 13:26

oo oo me can i have twins? [buffy starts whittling at rod for own back].

Someone had better hurry up and have a bfp soon, its been aaaages [whips out serious specs to examine stats list]. Hmmmm... last bfp 8th March! That's two WHOLE weeks ago. Who's at the top of the list, and what news? [Looks at Moofold, Mummy369, Northlondonchoclover RunForTheHills, yogamat, sunburntats, NoShouting, Tigerbear, Allthe8s and dirtgirl over the top of serious specs librarian-wise]. I'm starting to get twitchy about testing mesself, but there's all these folk above me on the list, and I must wait my turn ...

[Buffy looks at everybody above herself on list speculatively, trying to see if any seem bigger around the middle and are avoiding wine/blue cheese/men]

Waves to newbies, and to see you here. We'll all get onto the grads list in the end. Meantime, here is a good place to be.

[buffy tries to restrain manic chipperness and return to zenlike calm state. fails horribly.]

littlemiss72 · 22/03/2010 13:21

Doh.. just seen the stats updated

littlemiss72 · 22/03/2010 13:09

Afternoon all,

Updated the list for today, spring has sprung so it would be lovely to have couple of BFP's.

Question: OV pain, for the last two cycles post erpc it's been more painful than usual, is this normal.? Guessing not so have booked into the docs tomorrow for an examination something certainly doesn't feel right and I'm starting to get a little worried.

Been doing the swi since Thursday and have had the occasional twinge, never have before so it's ringing alarm bells now. anyone else had any experience of this?

< grabs the cracklepops and runs>

littlemiss72 · 22/03/2010 13:05

MONDAY'S STATS

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD62
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle WTF CD57
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD53
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD49
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD49
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD47
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD43
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD37
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD37
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD33
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD32
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD32
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD29
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD29
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD28
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD26
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD25
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD25
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD25
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD22
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD22
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD20
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD18
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD17
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD16
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD16
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD16
Limelight TTC2 UCL35 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD15
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD15
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD13
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD13
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle 1 CD13
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD11
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL 37 cycle 2 CD 5
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD3

PENDING STATS

sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD?
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF CD?

meatntattypie
GinaFB
Elmmu
Spottysox waiting for MC scan 18/3

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

AlbaDeTamble · 22/03/2010 12:54

Big tub of caramel cracklepops on my desk, any takers?

Just read first page of this thread, Liahgen predicted twins before 999 posts... We're not far off now, so waiting for a flurry of BFPs or maybe redandyellow or floweringcurrant popping back in with exciting news from early scans!

I'm busy planning Easter hols lastminute skiing trip to cheer me up if BFN this month... Could become a very expensive year if I'm not up-duffed soon if this is setting the standard for cheer me up treats!

So sorry for those of you still going through early days of pain, confusion, sadness, fear and grief... Bubble baths, weeping, white wine* and chocolate do all help.
Putting on a brave face doesn't, so feel free to rant!

(*red wine for me still tasted like vinegar till I got my first BFN... and others found the same)

big waves to all... whether you're hiding from the world or back to optimism and the joys of spring

mumsie123 · 22/03/2010 11:50

Hi everyone,

I went to my GP today, she is going to book me in at the EPU and it think they will give me a scan.

Im really scared just sitting at home waiting for phone call to see when to go up.

spottysox · 22/03/2010 11:36

Hello lovely ladies,
thank you all so much for thinking of me. Didn't go for the erpc, have a scan booked for next Monday to check what's what so FX. Won't go into detail as I don't want to stir bad memories but everything seems to be ok so far.
I too feel lonely in RL and it is greatly comforting to know that this group is here for support/hugs/advice etc at such a sad time. I feel lucky to have found you and think you are incredibly brave and generous to care about peolple you don't know when your own difficult experiences are still fresh and still healing within.
Anyway enough mushy stuff.
Hussy Cat update still can't find kittens, think they may be in the garage but it's full of junk DH's stuff, so can't look properly.

Goodluckbear · 22/03/2010 10:35

Hi Mumsie and Jules - glad you came here, but sorry it's a sad time . Sometimes it is a bit lonely in RL if those around you don't understand the loss. The ladies here have often been the only ones who get what I'm on about, slightly concerned that some may be mind-readers (mostly concerned for them, as I am quite insane and assume no one would genuinely want to read my mind).

Elmmum - bigs hugs, hope the day gets better.

And Bigmuther - big hugs for you too.

MrsG - hope we don't have to rename today "Day of Hell" (DoH for short) - have you got that meeting with HR today? Good luck for that, keep coming on here for a rant if you like.

WestYorks, your post just reminded me so much of me about two weeks ago. (Don't mean to pretend that it's the same, obviously not, but I think we've been in synch with a lot of stuff so whenever you write stuff I think - oh yes, she's one of the mind reader ones, she knows exactly what I'm thinking). When I got my second period post mc (and had obviously - despite PMT - convinced myself could be pg again) I started balling my eyes out in front of my fitness class. Fortunately all women. I literally said "I have to go home now because I've got my period", and cried and cried all the way home. I thought the first one was bad, but the second was worse (and heavy, and more painful). And it's so shit.

Hi to Jollster and Barrenbrook, and everyone else (I forgot to take notes from the weekend's posts, but I did read them all and I am thinking of you all). Unbuffy - experimental chocolate is right up my street, lovely.

Viv - what's the chat?? High fives for a French bean!!

xxxxxxx

Unbuffy · 22/03/2010 09:44

Testing soon but being very very good to not try too early as a) can't afford more tests than have got in the cupboard and b) don't particularly want to see that bfn if I can avoid it. Would far rather test for confirmation if at all possible . But who knows what's going on at the moment. No signs of anything at all going on round here!

Here's some experimental chilli chocolate truffles I made on Saturday to pass out. Now, who was it baked yesterday [hopeful emoticon]...?

Gi1da · 22/03/2010 09:23

ooops a BPF is closely related to a BFP by the way. Bountifully Pregnant Foo-foo?

Gi1da · 22/03/2010 09:21

Good morning All! A beautiful March morning today, the birds are busy chasing each other about, the buds are budding, 'tis the season to get SWI and somebody surely must win a baby this month! Come on you lovely ladies on the virtiginous upper echelons of the list, someone give us a BPF to start the Spring off with a Bang!!

Viv hoping for a little frenchie bean from you bien sur!!

Mrs G, now behave yourself and no frotting!

MONDAY'S STATS

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD62
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle WTF CD57
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD53
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD49
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD49
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD47
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD43
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD37
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD37
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD33
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD32
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD32
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD29
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD29
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD28
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD26
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD25
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD25
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD25
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD22
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD22
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD20
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD18
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD18
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD17
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD16
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD16
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD16
Limelight TTC2 UCL35 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD15
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD13
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD13
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD13
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle 1 CD13
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD11
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD9
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL 37 cycle 2 CD5
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD3

PENDING STATS

sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD?
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF CD?

meatntattypie
GinaFB
Elmmu
Spottysox waiting for MC scan 18/3

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

ElmMum · 22/03/2010 09:13

Not having the best start to the day. I've got an upset stomach and DH is incredibly stressed with work atm. He's just raced off to the station in a complete tizz having taken DD up to nursery.

I should really have taken her but I'm not sleeping well so waking up exhausted and when he offers, I'm too tired to say no. But I should really, as I've now got the morning off and he's commuting to v stressful job.

So now feel guilty as well as tired and not 100 percent. Hey ho.

MrsGazebo · 22/03/2010 08:22

Morning all

Hope everyone is well.
I can't do the list as I'm on my mowbli.

Mumsie how are you holding up? I hope as the days go by things start looking brighter.

Spotty how are you doing?

WCG you too, it's good to see you back and keep the SWI up it'll be your turn soon.

I'm going in on a late train which is rammed. I'm looking forward to a day of hell, supposed to have gone in early but 2 trains were cancelled and I've been hanging around for nearly an hour.
I think I'll be needing one of those group hugs later!

Have a super day and I'll catch up later x

mumsie123 · 21/03/2010 17:53

Thank you west my DH doesn't really seam to have any feelings about it as it was so early on "chemical oregnancy" and has just carried on. Everyone else kind of sais oh well atleast it wasn't further along. Which i am very grateful for that i wasn't further along but i still had a positive test and still got happy like everyone else would and had my hopes and dreams reuined.

I just cant help but worry, and the waiting dont help i guess.

I am having what seams like a normal period very heavy as usual, but i keep thinking what if its an eptopic etc and working myself up and getting all paniked and i really cant relax :-( i actually ok on the pain front now took some tablets had a hot water bottle and a little sleep so it eased it.

xx

MrsGazebo · 21/03/2010 17:32

Welcome back WestYorkshireGirl
I've taken you off pending.

SUNDAY'S STATS

Moofold ttc#2 UCL~33 cycle1 CD61
Mummy369 TTC#4 UCL 26-30 cycle WTF CD56
Northlondonchoclover TTC#1 UCL28 cycle WTF CD52
RunForTheHills TTC#1 UCL30 cycle 14 CD48
yogamat TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD48
sunburntats TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 2 CD46
NoShouting TTC#5 UCL? cycle 1 CD42
Tigerbear TTC#1 UCL26 cycle 7 CD36
Allthe8s TTC#3 UCL28 cycle1 CD36
dirtgirl TTC#2 UCL28 cycle1 CD32
clareanna TTC#2 UCL35 cycle 1 CD31
sakura TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD31
LucyT66 TTC 1 UCL 33-34 cycle 3 CD28
Underneaththestream TTC#1 UCL ? cycle 1 CD28
Unbuffy TTC#2 UCL? cycle 1 CD27
shinysideup TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD25
icedlemonmuffin TTC#2 UCL24-32 cycle11 CD24
HappyGirl1 TTC#1 UCL 26-28 cycle1 CD24
cinnamonswirl TTC#? cycle? UCL 23-30 CD24
albadetamble TTC#2 UCL25 cycle1 CD21
CCBloom TTC#1 UCL28 cycle1 CD21
Pollyanna TTC#6 UCL27 cycle1 CD19
BunnyBaby TTC #3 UCL28 cycle 1 CD17
Barrenbrook TTC#1 UCL 25-28 cycle 12 CD17
slimyak TTC#2 UCL 26 cycle 3 CD16
Zayja TTC#1 UCL24-26 cycle 12 CD15
vivcliquot TTC#1 UCL27 cycle 4 CD15
Hopefully TTC#2 UCL28 cycle 4 CD15
Limelight TTC2 UCL35 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD14
Goodluckbear TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD12
LittleMiss72 TTC#1 UCL28 cycle 2 CD12
Tigger15 TTC#2 UCL26 cycle 10 CD12
Curlylox TTC #3 UCL 28 cycle 1 CD12
Liahgen ttc#6 UCL 26 cycle 1 (post erpc) CD10
Malteser1981 TTC#? UCL28 cycle 1 CD8
westyorkshiregirl TTC# 1 UCL 37 cycle 2 CD 4
Gi1da TTC #1 UCL28 cycle 1 CD2

PENDING STATS

sparklyrainbow TTC#1 UCL 28 cycle WTF CD?
hippychick TTC #3 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
lauraloo09 TTC#2 UCL? cycle WTF CD?
Urd TTC#3 UCL28 cycle WTF CD?

meatntattypie
GinaFB
Elmmu
Spottysox waiting for MC scan 18/3

WTTC
Muser TTC#1 EP 18/02/10 on month 2 of 3 month wait
Jollster TTC#2 MMC2 26/02/10
MrsGazebo TTC#1 MMC6 Molar 8/1/10. On 3-6 month wait

GRADUATES
amyboo
totally
hoops997 BFP 11 July 2009
Stressy BFP 22nd August 2009
becky78 BFP 4th September 2009
LittleOneMum BFP 7th September 2009
Waitingisntfun BFP 19th September 2009
Chamois BFP 7th October 2009
Apples BFP 9th November 2009
Meita BFP 10th December 2009
CakeandFineWine BFP 27th December 2009
boodleboot BFP 2nd January 2010
LeeWT BFP 21st January 2010
TFLS BFP 22nd January 2010
Louisesh BFP 22nd January 2010
MrsRigby BFP 27th January 2010
TheKurgan BFP 30th January 2010
effilump BFP 8th February 2010
Sarahlou8 BFP 10th February 2010
samanthab123 BFP 10th February 2010
Cheepz BFP 16th February 2010
redandyellowandpinkandgreen BFP 6th March 2010
floweringcurrant BFP 8th March 2010

WestYorkshireGirl · 21/03/2010 16:51

Mumsie123 I'm sorry to hear you are feeling lonely. I felt this way too when I was having my mc and afterwards. In terms of the pain, I was prescribed some anti-cramping tablets by the Dr, but to be honest, they gave my an upset stomach so I just took Paramol tablets and stuck it out with the hot water bottle. The worst pain lasted about 4 days and I bled for nearly 2 weeks, but it got lighter.

I found the leaflets on the Miscarriage Assoc website very helpful. I also found it better not to just 'try and get on with things' - I gave myself time to grieve, often having little cries when something set me off. I think the worst thing to do is not to acknowledge the pregnancy - in the end after 5 weeks when I had my first period I got upset all over again and felt I needed to do something to mark my baby so I had a little service at our church with DH and the Priest - he said some prayers and we lit a candle and that really helped me. This month has been a bit tricky as it's our first month trying and we haven't been successful so I have been a bit sad, but I am not afraid that the sadness will consume me any more and I think that comes with time.

There's a lot of support on MN, but have you got anyone n RL who can support you - what about your DH/DP? Mine didn't deal with the loss the same way as me, but I mistook that for not caring which caused a few problems..

Hope you had a good day with your DD.

sparklyrainbow - I sent my stats in yesterday so can I move from the pending section now?!

JulesAbs · 21/03/2010 15:54

Mumsie, so sorry to hear that you aren't having the best of time lately.

MrsGazebo · 21/03/2010 15:23

BigMuther Marley & Me
What are you trying to do to yourself woman!
The book is far worse.
I sobbed through the last 4 chapters.
I still watched the bloody film knowing what was going to happen so I was sobbing from near enough the start, and I can't abide Owen Wilson so that really didn't help matters.

In fact,as I remember I made a bit of a day of sobbing.
Marly&Me
then The Notebook
then The Boy In The Striped Pajamas.

Poor MrG came home and I'd got through the best part of a (mansize) box of tissues and his a selection box and was faced with me looking like a quivering lipped Panda with allergies

littlemiss72 · 21/03/2010 14:40

Hi girls, what a lovely sunny Sunday!

mumsie so sorry you have found yourself here hunni, as mrsg said be kind yourself. it will get easier. Big (HUGS)!

Hello again to bigmuther we were on the same thread a while back, leave all as it is right now is my only advice. I'm sure in time you will make the right decisions between you. Let them tears flow, I love a good weepy!

Well.. I'm waked out swi is going a bit too well, dp seems to be on some sort of fertility mission. Think I've ov'd yesterday, limbering up again for more just incase I'm wrong

I have to say I'm dreading the 2ww, it's a real roller coaster of emotions this ttc lark.

House hunting has been rubbish again this week, now starting to think it might be better to get dp to sell up and move in with me until we sort out something. He's a messy git though and I'm a clean freak, coupled with the highs and lows of ttc he could send me over the edge.

Going to make a lovely big chocolate cake this afternoon, baking on Sunday is bliss!

Have wonderful day all x x x