Waiting to TTC part 2!

thats my worry bebe, it wouldnt be the end of the world but im not sure im quite ready, plus falling pregnant now would mean i would have to have baby in the town we currently live in and im less than convinced that their homebirth policies will be great, need to look into it.

amanda do not worry about birth, there is this thing amongs some women to compete over who had the worst labour. its hard work but your body wil get on and do it and you will be fine, i really recomend looking into hypnobirthing if you havent already, google mary mongan or look for the book on amazon, there are courses which are brilliant but the book explains the theory behind it really well

hi again all, sorry things have been pretty hectic lately, sorry i havent been on.

bebe that sounds like a nightmare, i hope things settle down for you

Amanda dont panic, that never helps, just dont think about it!

Im still struggling in my own little world to hold off TTC so tempted to just see what happens! must hold strong

You have to rehouse them? Do they mean let them move back in? I thought it was the tenants who decided they wanted to move out in the first place? So what happens now? Will you have to go to court to get them out? What about your new tenant? Nightmare!

Strayed off the straight and narrow path this morning and read one of the other Conception threads (I know, I know) it was a BFP announcement from someone who had been TTC since December 08. So lovely to read someone's good news - even if it was another horror story about TTC for months and months!

I will not panic.

I will not panic.

What have they done? I have to say being a landlord doesn't seem to be all it's cracked up to be. My friend's always having problems with her tenants not looking after the place and causing neighbours to complain. Then again, as a tenant I'm not entirely thrilled with my landlord (has refused for two years to replace three broken wall heaters, hence the flat is freezing).

I didn't realise the charting was to do with your treatment, sorry. So do you know now when it will all start? I'm sorry you've got all this hanging over you when all you really want is a baby. Don't forget you can vent on here as much as you want/need to x

Bebe for some reason that last message of yours didn't display for me until just now. Sorry to hear that your weekend wasn't much fun. Hopefully Easter weekend will be better. Are you going to start charting now for December, or are you thinking you might bring it forward now? Don't you think it might make you feel like you've been TTC forever once you finally get down to it? I'm trying to enjoy the freedom of not TTC while it lasts.

Oh hang on it's two hyphens... like this

No apparently not! Does anyone know?!

Do you have to put the '-' signs round every word -like- -this- rather than before and after a whole phrase -like this-?

I can never get the strike out to work. Oh well!

Hi all! I've taken advice and haven't read the conception forum for a day or so. I did however look on Ebay for how much fertility monitors cost

I've got to the point now where I'm desperate for a night out away from DS and DH, just to get pissed with my friends so I'm beginning to get nervous of TTC again. It'll just mean another year and a half of sobriety! I'm not a raging alcoholic or anything but I would like to feel young and irresponsible just once! Maybe I'll just go to town with the sherry at Christmas when there will be babysitters on tap.

what ever you do dont watch fims about childbirth they are so scarey the real thing isnt as bad belive me my dd2 was 10lb 6oz i had a natral birth with gas and air and i came out in 1 piece

Well I just woke up after a whole day sleeping, after a night out boozing so I guess I've done my quota of "things I won't be able to do once baby comes" this month! Got to make these last months before motherhood (hopefully) count for something. Am planning a day at Alton Towers to ride all their stupidest white knuckle rides this summer - another TIWBATDOBC!

It doesn't matter how much people seek to reassure you about childbirth, it's still the most terrifying thing. But if I don't face it, DH and I will never have a wonderful little DC in our lives. I've watched so many videos (field research don't you know) and read so many accounts and I just can't get my head round it. I read something which compared the pain to the pain of losing a limb on a medieval battlefield!

Amanda, mine is a little anxious too! I think it's mainly because I seem to have come round to the idea quite suddenly, so have slightly thrown him off base... but I think he is getting his head round it.

I am pretty terrified of childbirth as well - I think my DH would be quite fascinated by the whole thing though!! He's not as squeamish as I am...

Iwantanother enjoy your fry up and F1!

Morning all! Well the club was great fun - although I was falling asleep on the sofa in the bar area by half two and dragged DH home at quarter past three. I'm so tired. We had a good chat about TTC this morning and it seems we are back on the same page. We were discussing the prospect of childbirth, which utterly petrifies us both. DH was stunned by my encyclopaedic knowledge of the subject!

Silvertulip of course, good to have another member of the club! You are very welcome. You sound like you're in a similar situation to me and my DH. Except perhaps with a slightly less anxious DH!

Bebe that's really good news. Isn't it easy to panic! I'm really pleased things could be back on track.

Hello! Can I join? My husband and I are starting to talk about TTC, but aren't in a financial position to do it quite yet. We're both 30, and have no children yet. Big decision but I'm starting to chafe at the bit! I'm really hoping that we'll start TTC before the end of this year. Will have to see how things pan out for a bit though...

New tenant? Have you sorted out someone already?

dp is working tomorrow morning then were going to meet his dad for a fry up and take dd2 to get some new wellies and watch the F1