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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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milosmum · 04/07/2005 19:22

hello!

this thread is gonna be the luckiest yet! trust me!

Stats:

Me:27
DH:32
DS:4
TTC:2yrs
MC Dec 04 & May 05

Im currently waiting on AF after last mc had a few pains today so maybe shes on her way- its the only time you will here me wishing for AF! i just want her to come so i can get back on the wheel!

I want to wish anyone without a BFP lots and lots of babydust!!!

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fairydust · 31/07/2005 16:27

can i join you all?

We've decided (me n dh) to try for a second.

We already have one dd who is 3.

I'm scared and excited at the same time as dd has cerebal palsy and although it's not genetic in our case still feel scared.

We had a little try / talk last month which turned into nothing which made us want to try properly now.

So i'm on CD11 so here's hopnig for a bean.

munz · 31/07/2005 15:33

debs (((((hugs))))) i'm so sorry babe. i'll email u tomorrow once DB is at work. keep your chin up for now and rest up. CP will mail u as well.

Bella - fingers crossed for u hon.

Jen1209 · 31/07/2005 14:35

Just logged on to catch up as have manic few days

Debs - so sorry to hear that the old cow has turned up. sending you loads of hugs, you must be feeling really rubbish. I always feel dreadful when af rears her ugly head and am really angry for a few days. It all feels so unfair doesn't it? Am sure that your time will come (hopefully soon) and that things will work out.

For now, be selfish and give in to the anger and tears and then pamper yourself with some lovely things (including choc)

Same for you successful...

charleepeters · 31/07/2005 13:57

Oh Debbsy life is so unfair, take care of yourself hun and pamper yourself 100% you deserve it.

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milosmum · 31/07/2005 11:20

oh debbsey- im so very sorry

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romilly · 31/07/2005 10:18

debbsy i really am sorry to hear AF showed up. keep strong and positive, i know its hard, but you have to just keep going. each month is another chance.

successful · 31/07/2005 08:59

Debbsy I know it is hard we went through years of this trying for our first baby. Had you had any results of tests yet? Has DH been for his sperm tests?

I have no idea why life can be so unfair.

Debbsy · 31/07/2005 08:08

WHY?????????????? has this happened to me what have i done in my life thats so wrong that i have to go through this pain everytime!!!!!!!!!!!

Debbsy · 31/07/2005 07:46

yeah me 2 successful cant beleive it as had 3 faint positives im giving up now as i cant do this anymore its breaking me into little bits and i cant cope any longer!

successful · 31/07/2005 07:41

eldestgirl & Debbsy - I am so sorry . I am sure the witch will be joining me tomorrow also.

Thinking of you both .

Debbsy · 31/07/2005 07:27

afs arrived im absolutely devastated really thought it would be my month cant stop crying

eldestgirl · 31/07/2005 05:06

AF arrived this morning. Bah humbug.
Ah well, at least I didn't waste my one pregnancy test. Better luck next month...
Hope someone else gets a BFP soon!!

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milosmum · 30/07/2005 21:04

you didnt embarrass me honey- have fun!

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charleepeters · 30/07/2005 21:03

Cheers [smile dp will be jumping for joy now!

Debbsy · 30/07/2005 21:02

i did too i think you should be ok with protection and also take it real easy as u may be a little sore

charleepeters · 30/07/2005 21:01

Haha! only mumsnet would i openly talk about sex whilst bleeding

Sorry if i embarrased you, dp's pacing like a puppy! he always does when he cant bd for ages

Men eh who'd have em?

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milosmum · 30/07/2005 20:59

would have though that ( sorry to be a bit crude) anything that was in there have now gone and what id bleeding now is just normal af- and its ok during that.....

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charleepeters · 30/07/2005 20:58

Hmm i cant seem to find anthing, i just thought that without protection it could risk infection if the cervix isnt closed yet but didnt know if its ok whilst using portection? oh well!

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milosmum · 30/07/2005 20:55

really dont know......have you tried checking on the net?

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charleepeters · 30/07/2005 20:52

SO do you think its safe to bd if using a condom?

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milosmum · 30/07/2005 20:51

charlee i only bled for 3 days- i also thought it would last longer........

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charleepeters · 30/07/2005 20:49

My bleeding is really light at the moment, i thought it would take 2 weeks? then again my last m/c the bleeding wasnt long.

Dp's desperate to get back to bding! randy git! he wants so know if we can even if he wars protection to stop infection! i have no idea what to tell him!

Thinking of you Debs i really hope its your turn next

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milosmum · 30/07/2005 20:47

can be tough being in on your own sometimes- especially with all this. my dh works away alot so i know how you feel- when i say i "book him in" i really do- no joke!

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Debbsy · 30/07/2005 20:45

im going to test again in the morning but dh isnt here hes away tonight racing

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milosmum · 30/07/2005 20:43

oh debs! ill nick you one hon ! trust be it will happen! it has to you cant stay on this thread forever- imagine the length of it!....it can be so depressing sometimes especially in the 2ww- or in your case 3ww! but we re all here to help.... im forever on here!

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