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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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milosmum · 04/07/2005 19:22

hello!

this thread is gonna be the luckiest yet! trust me!

Stats:

Me:27
DH:32
DS:4
TTC:2yrs
MC Dec 04 & May 05

Im currently waiting on AF after last mc had a few pains today so maybe shes on her way- its the only time you will here me wishing for AF! i just want her to come so i can get back on the wheel!

I want to wish anyone without a BFP lots and lots of babydust!!!

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Charlee · 06/08/2005 10:06

CONGRATULATIONS oh Shelly that great news well dont girl you must be so pleased!

shelly24 · 06/08/2005 10:05

Hiya girls
Hope your all ok this morning
Well this is abit of a surreal message for me to be writing right now,but i went and got a cb test this morning and its a BFP! i'm def pregnant!!
I really can't get my head around it right now,but i've been crying all morning!!!
I wanted to send a message to all you ladies who are ttc,please don't give up hope,it WILL happen for you!....be strong and believe in yourself and your time will come.x.xI promise
I'll go to the docs on mon to confirm everything,and will let you know how everything is going...
love,hugs and baby dust to you all.x.x.x

Hulababy · 05/08/2005 21:02

On the red too tonight; very yummy. Actually have a weekend of indulgence.Off to a wedding recpetion tomorrow night (the three of us; DD will be up dancing all night) and then me and Dh are going out for dinner with friends (their house) on Sunday evening. These friends live ina big house on the same estate as out new house will be.

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milosmum · 05/08/2005 20:48

thats great hula! it will give you something to look forward to! hummmmm australia in November- nice and warm!

you got me started now, i just started my 1st glass of a lovely juicy red

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Hulababy · 05/08/2005 20:39

Have spoken to DH over dinner (well, pizza ) about it. e wouldn't be booking until March time enxt year at earliest. So we will look at the situation just before. We don't mind taking a little baby there (probably easier than taking our then 4yo!) and I don't mond missing the trip if I was due around then. However, if we are not pg around time of pg, will will work out dates for being able to fly if we are pg, and put the TTC on hold for 3 or 4 months (or whatever) so we can go. Seems silly to miss out on such a fab opportunity, esp as it would be last time we could easily go - DD would be starting school the january after.

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milosmum · 05/08/2005 20:11

i know its not till next november but im always of the opinion that we cant put everything on hold. i ve booked my holday for next july, im hoping to be able to take a beautiful new addtion, or be bloody pregnant!

I really hope to tests go well for you... i really wish we could all get our BFP soon..... i cant beleive how good i feel with the whole charting thing out of the way......

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Hulababy · 05/08/2005 20:07

The holiday? Australia? It wouldn't be unti NEXT Novemnber anyway - so ages away. Only just had my hols! I have to admit I haven't done charting or OPKs for 2 or 3 months and it does feel more relaxed most of the itme. Mind, next month I am having investigative blood tests - on CD2/3 and CD21. Not really sure how I feel about that, but hey.

Oh, on second glass now Don't worry at least this bottle will go, if not a second

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milosmum · 05/08/2005 20:02

dont just have a glass- have the bloody bottle hula i know , only a few weeks ago i was soo upset it wasnt happening but i dont know what did it - i just thought to hell with it , so for a few months im going it alond, no charts or tests- just me & hubby.... and i have to tell you im really enjoying it........ is there really no way you could take that holiday? it may be just what you need...

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Hulababy · 05/08/2005 19:59

Ah thanks. I am fine really; it just gets to you ometimes doesn't it? And with this Austaralia holiday idea being knocked about all the time I have to think about it all a bit more re timing.

Having a glass of wine at moment, so getting cheery all the time

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milosmum · 05/08/2005 19:41

oh hula- you too honey ..... we will ALL get that illusive BFP.... i know it feels like everyone else can get pregnant by "accident" and i have commented before that we could all do with a few of those "accidents"! but it will happen- we all HAVE to believe that, or whats the point?

As im in a very positive mood at the moment its my job to cheer everyone up!!!! so ill have to think of some jokes and post them in a bit!!.............

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Hulababy · 05/08/2005 17:54

Oh Debbsey, it will happen. Know how you feel; I think we all get like that at times.

Feeling a bit fed up right now too about the TTC. BIL & SIL want us to go to Oz with them next November. With a little baby, that's fine. But it is taking so long. I can't agree in case I am pg and beyond the flyign cut off point. But I don't want to put off TTC in 3 or 4 months time to ensure that doesn't happen either - feels like losing precious time. But then I'd love to go to Australia too. Argh. Why can't I just be normal and be able to get pg in a normal period of time like others seem to be able to do. Doesn't seem fair.

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milosmum · 05/08/2005 15:08

oh debs- it will happen- i promise! if it doesnt you can come and get me! and dont forget i promised to nick one for you!

Shelly- my fingers are well and truley crossed for you!!!

Charlee- you and me both- the more relaxed approach is really working for me! im actually BDing for fun!!! for a change.... im on 17dpo and should test on sunday but i know its a bfn- but it actually doesnt bother me this month-

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Charlee · 05/08/2005 09:34

Oh Debs hunny we all feel the same, but it will happen for all of us! and it will be so worth it when it does i had a couple of weeks when i was going through my m/c when ijust thought screwit i just ant keep this up i had a gorgeous son whom i love dearly that will do. but nowi think if ts going to happen it will so im taking amore relaxed approach to ttc, life will go asit is ment to go nothing anyone can do will change it. hope your feeling better soon

Debbsywillgetherbeanie · 05/08/2005 07:47

Feeling v down again today that another month has gone by and im not pregnant feel like its never going to happen for us

shelly24 · 04/08/2005 21:08

So do i hulababy,funny isn't it!?

Hulababy · 04/08/2005 19:32

It is sounding more and more positive Shelly; I think you are pregnant! And for what it is worth I prefer the old fashioned pg test, with the lines. I don't like the new digital ones at all. Not sure why though. Have everything crossed for you.

shelly24 · 04/08/2005 19:31

Ok,well talk to you all soon.x

shelly24 · 04/08/2005 19:27

Anyone around!?

shelly24 · 04/08/2005 17:28

Hry girlsHope your all doing ok today.x
As for me,well i don't know how i feel really,have got butterflies and feel abit sick,but thats cos of everything thats happening right now,did another test today(yeah,i know,am seriously wasting money,and should just wait abit!)It was a thicker line than yesterday,and slightly darker too,i think i am but that its just really early still.Please don't think i'm crazy,but i'm really scared and keep thinking 'i'll wait another day',and sure enough the test gets darker each time.
I don't want to go to the doctors yet because i want to wait until i'm def that my period would have been and gone,and i want a really strong result,instead of the ones i've got.
I didn't help matters really this morning when i was on a site where loads have people had written that they had loads of positives then went to doc,did a blood test and it was neg!?there was loads of women all saying similar things,and it done my head in!and made me give in and do another bloody test!!!
I'm so scared to even get my hopes up even alittle bit!!!what if its all for nothing?,i couldn't handle getting all excited and then finding out i'm not!
I've already done my DH's head in and hes gone down the pub,cos i keep asking him questions and repeating myself!! Hes 98% sure that i am,but like me doesn't want to get our hopes up just yet.
I must sound really annoying,and i'm sorry,and your prob all shouting at me'GET A BLOODY DIGITAL TEST!!',but i'm too scared to do that just yet,i just wanted to let you all know whats going on,as its really important for me to write on mn,and let all my(mixed)emotions out,...sorry.x.x.
I've just been through so much lately that i won't let myself even get alittle bit excited,i've been too used to disappointment already this year.

Charlee · 04/08/2005 16:41

Afternoon ladys! Shells its lookinggood hun i think your deffo pg!

I am ok the bleeding has stopped so im bding when the feeling takes me! im dffo going to take a more relaxed approach to ttc i dont think i will chart ect, if its ment to be its ment to be and im sure its better to be relaxed whilst ttc. i just can tput myself through another cycle like the last one its not good for me!

Hope everyone else is doing ok,
Hugs to all xxxx

Hulababy · 04/08/2005 12:11

Fingers crossed FD

How are you today Shelley?

fairydust · 04/08/2005 12:09

wel girls on cd15 here and the new bed has arrived lets' hope it's a lucky ones

shelly24 · 03/08/2005 21:01

Thanx girls(really appreciate the support).
Am going to test at the wkend,fingers and toes crossed.x.x

Hulababy · 03/08/2005 19:05

It is looking more and more positive Shelley; fingers crossed.

I hope so too FD. Been pg twice before, both took 14/15 months, so only another 2 or 3 to go

Debbsywillgetherbeanie · 03/08/2005 18:35

sounds v possible shelley fingers crossed xx