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milosmum · 04/07/2005 19:22

hello!

this thread is gonna be the luckiest yet! trust me!

Stats:

Me:27
DH:32
DS:4
TTC:2yrs
MC Dec 04 & May 05

Im currently waiting on AF after last mc had a few pains today so maybe shes on her way- its the only time you will here me wishing for AF! i just want her to come so i can get back on the wheel!

I want to wish anyone without a BFP lots and lots of babydust!!!

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munz · 22/07/2005 20:12

ooh sounds like me now! (two mouthfuls and i'm anyones for a can of baked beans - and i'm not talking strong wine either - a lambrini spitzer with lemonade!)

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 20:09

youll be ok munz- i ate all kinds when pregnant with milo- had a real craving for seaford- nurse said just dont eat loads- a little is ok. kept of the booze for a total of 18mths though- good god that was ages and got hammered on one glass when i had my first drink- lol!

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munz · 22/07/2005 20:05

whispers I had a monster night out and raw cake mix two days b4 I found out, hopefully everything's OK. it's good to let ur hair down - after all hopefully it will be the last time for the next 8 months u can do!

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 20:05

im very proad of your strength - i could nt refuse alcohol- borderline alcoholic myself-. i just thought-sod it - after the last mc. i did everything right with both pregnancies this year and look where that got me! now i just do it in moderation.

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Debbsy · 22/07/2005 20:01

no no want non alcholic been drinking far too much with my freind who has just become single and if am i dint want to risk anything dont think i am though as af signs are on the way

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 19:59

only just done it hon, sod the non alcohlic- go for the real stuff- let go for a bit!

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munz · 22/07/2005 19:58

no alcholic course u can hon, (and u can get v v low alcholic wine)

Debbsy · 22/07/2005 19:57

thats true v true do you know if you can buy non alcholic wine?? did u say u catd me havent received anything

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 19:53

i think we all need each other Debs

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Debbsy · 22/07/2005 19:48

ahh thanks you guys are fab dont know what i would do without you.xxx

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 19:44

munz- like the letter thing- never thought of that.

i have a big hug waiting for both charlee & debs- could also squeeze in some gingerbread men i made with milo, if you want one!

debs- i ve cat you, just so you know im here if needed....

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munz · 22/07/2005 19:42

debs - getting to mail u now babe.

munz · 22/07/2005 19:41

cp - just mailed u, please don't bottle things up babe, it's not good in the long run, even if it's just writing a letter then burning it.

debs - I like to always know where I am as well with things but honestly this last cycle was the first cycle in 13 months where i've not thought this is it then after each BD - u know how I mean, or been so anxious whilst BD thinkin that this time could be th one u know? I knwo it's v easy for me to say, but try to forget about it till next weekend - go out have some drinks go to the pictures then next weekend hopefully you'll see the BFP staring back at you from your tests.

Debbsy · 22/07/2005 19:35

cp know just how you feel was like that with my dh in floods of tears one minute in a violent temper a minute later ((( hugs))) you just fel so empty like youve lost something but dont know what.x

Debbsy · 22/07/2005 19:33

good luck for this mth everything crossed for you x

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 19:28

hey- thats what im here for right!

the only reason im feeling so positive is cose i ov'd yesterday so getting loads of lovely attention from DH.... ill be the same next week-

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Debbsy · 22/07/2005 19:26

thanks mm xx

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 19:24

im with you debs - i like to plan everything and have total control- bit of a freak myself!- and i know its sooooo hard when you fell like all you are doing in waiting!- we re here for you.....

and you charlee- dont bottle it up!it will come back to haunt you if you do and you dont want your little seeing that . i just keep remebering i have one and if its meant to be just the one- at least i have him.....

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Debbsy · 22/07/2005 19:19

if it happens mm getting anxious as coming up to 16 mths my mum thinks its affecting me like this as everything ive ever done and wanted ive been in control of but im not in control of this and i hate it.

charleepeters · 22/07/2005 19:19

Juast my evening drop in to say hi! nothing happening here - told my mum today about m/c and she went mad shes thinks its time somebody did some investigating to see why it keeps happening.

Anyway im fine v.emotional i have been either thowing things at dp or crying at him today so maye its pmt and af will come soon though im not sure you get pmt with m/c bleeding? i actually think its just me bottling up all my feeling about m/c and its finally bursting out after me trying to convince myself i wasnt upset.

Hugs to all xx

munz · 22/07/2005 19:00

debs - in all honesty I was going to do it at lunchtime but things got away from me after a horrible day (again at work) doing the month end for june and the vat's etc I didn't have time, i'll try on here althou this comp for some reason won't let me send emails from hotmail, actually will try from explore instead of fire fox.

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 18:53

debs i dont think you are being stupid hon i think this whole ttc thing can really mess you sometimes....... it gets to everyone differently. i think you are thinking there MUST be a reason why its not happening and, understandably, you are checking everything is ok.... its is understandable but i make you a promise now, the day you hold you 2 minute old baby in your arms, skin on skin, you will forget EVERYTHING you have had to endure.....and it will all have been worth it- trust me Debs

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Debbsy · 22/07/2005 18:50

mm y arent u bd you hmm hmm ??? munz how are you doing hun did you cat me back?

Debbsy · 22/07/2005 18:48

i know i know im just being stupid i just want it to happen so so much im still having those twinges again and got springing in my boobs dare i say it the same feelings i had in may .

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milosmum · 22/07/2005 18:41

im with munz- they d tell you if it wasnt. Chin up Debs- it will happen!

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