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TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

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Diddle · 04/07/2005 18:09

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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OP posts:
Lottielou · 26/07/2005 15:32

Hi Ladies!
How the devil are you?
So Sorry i have been away for sooooooo long i've had way too much going on at the mo at home n with my family that i cudn't bare to come on here I guess i was kinda thinking that if i did i would talk to you guys bout it and get all upset n wudn't of coped at work. How i've coped without you i will never know and i know i shud've came on sooner but you know how it is when u feel you can take the world on and deal with it all on your own! The worst is over now so... Well... i'm back now!
Diddle - Sorry i didn't reply to your text hun, i kinda shut everyone out. Nothing against you and i really appreciate your thoughts! How you doing? I've read a little of the thread. So sorry bout AF. I was realy hoping to come back on here and see you with your BFP How are you doing sweetie! I've really missed you!
So whats been goin on with everyone, i am not even going to attempt to read back what i've missed!
Oh just to let you know AF arrived today!
Oh i've missed you all xxxx it's good to be back xxxxx

maddyd · 26/07/2005 12:08

Take Care Honey. Hopefully i will have some news tomorrow

HellKat · 26/07/2005 11:45

Yep ds2 was the same.
Off to bed for a little while so take care x
Hope you're doing well too!

maddyd · 26/07/2005 11:38

Little ones do know. After i came home after the mc, my dd never mentioned the baby in my belly again. Its like she knew.

HellKat · 26/07/2005 11:35

Bet you were so relieved.
Well that's why the non-smoking kinda went out the window lol. At least we don't have the worry of ttc this month either as af is still here so that's a relief.
Bless little one. He's figured that something's up (I'm normally throwing him about etc) and he keeps snuggling up to me!

maddyd · 26/07/2005 11:27

yes i was relieved after my scan, they can tell alot from that. If i remember rightly my pictures were white so meant scar tissue, i was so relieved. Good Luck hellkat, this ss exactly waht you dont need. Take Care. Youll have to lift litle one up on the other side

HellKat · 26/07/2005 11:25

Thanks hun. They said about 2 weeks but the consultant said he'll try to hurry them through. Good thing is the scan looked pretty clear.

maddyd · 26/07/2005 11:21

Oh im so sorry, hope it all turns out ok for you. What a nightmare thing to go through. I had a lump removed to off my brestbone. It turned out to be scar tissue from a car crash id had years earlier but it was still scary. How long will you have to wait for the results???

HellKat · 26/07/2005 11:20

Bad thing is, can't lift anything heavy for a day or two so having to be careful lifting ds2 lol (28+ lbs)

HellKat · 26/07/2005 11:17

Maddy- Long story but I'll shorten it. Found a lump in my boob 2 mths ago and it was growing (pretty quick) so went to the dr's and he got me an appt at the breast clinic. Because there's a history of all sorts of cancer in my family (I've had cancerous cells removed from my cervix before plus aunts, cousins, great- grandmother, great uncles etc had it) they decided on a deep biopsy rather than a fine needle one. Was'nt as bad as it sounds and hurts more now than having it done.
Hope that was'nt a huge essay

maddyd · 26/07/2005 10:25

hellkat what has happened to you??

HellKat · 26/07/2005 09:12

Will be having a very lazy day here. did'nt sleep much last night (kept turning over on it lol) but looking forward to another day of endless pampering and fuss from dp

HellKat · 26/07/2005 09:09

Thanks Pet and Strike.
it's more painful now than yesterday but that's because there's no more anaesthetic left in it! Wish they gave me some .
Have a great time Pet and take care

strike1 · 26/07/2005 09:07

Have fun petunia, say hello to the sea from me

strike1 · 26/07/2005 09:06

Hellkat, glad to hear it's all done now, good that the scan looked clear.Hope it's not too long a wait.
Poor Diddle, I hope you bounce back next month with lots of enthusiasm, we miss it! I understand the need for a break though. You take your time, and try to forget about ttc.

How's everyone else this morning?

petunia · 26/07/2005 09:03

Hellkat- I was wincing at what you went through yesterday, it sounds awful. Have a restful day if you can.
Strike and maddyd- I thought I was the only one to still have spots. I think the only time my skin has cleared up is when I've been on the pill and the middle few months of pg. Bloody hormones!
I'm off to work later today. Then off to the south coast tonight to stay with my Gran, so I won't be signing in for a few days.
Take care everyone.

maddyd · 26/07/2005 08:58

She prob feels like Lottie Lou and is taking a break for a while. BFn is so dissapointing and deflating especially if you have a late af. It so draining this ttcing, and all the build up for testing.

Take care Diddle and come back soon. We miss you Honey. It will happen soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

HellKat · 26/07/2005 07:30

Just had a thought. Have'nt seen Diddle for a while. You ok hun?

HellKat · 26/07/2005 06:06

Morning all.
Very sore here today. Had the appt yesterday (was there for 4 hrs!!). Had an ultrasound, looked pretty clear but they did a "Wide core biopsy". Not pleasant(numbed, cut then what sounded like staple gun taking samples out, did'nt hurt but sounded awful, hurts more now) but would've been worse if I knew what it entailed. Have a lovely open cut on my boob and blackening up already with bruising. Should'nt have to wait long for the results though.
Needless to say I'm smoking, but not too much.
How's everyone?

cori · 25/07/2005 23:07

Wow, my first ever link

cori · 25/07/2005 23:07

here
Trying to be more positive have found an interesting article on the importance of good
nutrition and fertility. Hope it helps everyone to feel that we can take positive steps to enhance fertility.

strike1 · 25/07/2005 22:39

Evening all.

Sorry to hear about the chicken pox Maddyd! I suffer myself, I feel like a teenage sometimes (although I never suffered from breakouts then, so getting it all now)
Chocolatepeanut it's lovely to hear you DD is taking good care of you, make sure you pamper yourself as much as poss to, and it will be you (and hopefully all of us)pushing those prams soon.

Hope we all feel more positive tomorrow.

Night Night all x

HumphreysCorner · 25/07/2005 20:42

Evening ladies

AF getting heavier again so can't see us BD this week

I saw an old friend today who innocently asked "are you having any more children?" so I just said oh I should think so one day-ha ha!

Never got round to saying that MIL turned up right in the middle of the GP racing and said to DH that his dad was watching it so she'd left him to it. WHY OH WHY didn't her 1 brain cell realise that if her husband was watching it then we would be as well????? She had to sit in silence for 45 mins until it was over-hurrah!

It is nearly August so let us have a record number of BFP's next month.

DD is in bed and DH is out on his bike so having a glass of BH and might have a go on the Sims 2 as haven't had chance for a while.

Love to all
x

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 25/07/2005 19:11

(((((((Cori)))))))))))

I got my mat leave as my loss was over 25 weeks but its a small consolation as i keep looking at mums pushing new borns and think 'that should be me'

My dd made me smile yesterday on the day i needed it most.When shes tired she puts her head on me and i say "oh my baby" .I lay down feeling a bit down on the sofa watching her play and she stopped,came over and put her head on me saying "oh my baby"
cute

maddyd · 25/07/2005 18:48

Havnt got any news really but got a funny saying from ny DD.

Today i am makeup free due to a spot breakout and she came up to me earlier, gave me a kiss and a cuddle and said ' Poor Mummy, you got chicken pox' Bless her