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TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

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Diddle · 04/07/2005 18:09

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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Diddle · 18/07/2005 10:13

cori - i'm 3 days late, how are you doing??

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Diddle · 18/07/2005 10:12

maddyd - no chance of my dates being wrong, but i've never been this late and i don't feel very stressed and have not done anything different to slow it down, not surprise excerise for my body, so not sure whats going on. think i've run out of tests now, only got ov sticks left. The only difference i ahve today is that i feel very hot, which normally happens before AF comes but with more symptoms and high temp can also mean i'm pg so pretty much still in limbo.

i dreamt i was pg last night. i really hope i am.

Congrats again madrush, what did your dh/p say, is he thrilled???

HK - thanks for the babydust, much needed, and thanks for the support. we'll get there eventually. Hope you get a bfp soon, very odd that you have tingly boobs, do you normally get that with af?? or could you be pg?

Every month we say we will do it every other day from af to af, and never do, so next month if we need to we really are going to. dh is getting just as obsessive as me, which isn't a bad thing as he is then more willing to bd as often as needed.

i'm fed up of thinking about it all the time, i'm constantly running to the bathroom to check for af, its unavoidable.

Must find something else to concentrate on.

strke1 = deep breaths, all will be fine in London don't worry. The chances of it happening again i would imagine are very slim, but i bet you can't get away from it down there. Its on everyones mind. When i go to our local shopping centre and into Birmingham i wonder if it could happen while i'm there, and what i would do if it did. esp as i have the kids with me most of the time.

Hope you all have a good day, looks like rain here, think we need it.

maddyd - how are your roses doing, my are huge, and they supposed to be patio roses, so they don't grow much. they need pruning, might spend some time on them today and give them a good drink, i'd hate for them to die.

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cori · 18/07/2005 10:09

Congratulations Madrush. Glad to see someone getting a BFP.
Hope everyone is enjoying the gLorious weather.

I ovulated last week. Now the long wait til test day begins.
If I dont get pregnant this month I am going back for more acupuncture.

How many days late are you Diddle?

Xena · 18/07/2005 09:43

Goodmorning all, Thanks HC and Diddle I'm sure too that she has forgotten what she said 2 min after she said it.
Strike, DD1 and I were supposed to be going to into London last week but I couldn't bring myself too
Hope everyone has a good day.

madrush · 18/07/2005 09:18

Of course I tested again this morning, still very faint but it's there!

I really hope this does bring others luck too. Good luck to all the testees (Diddle, don't give up hope yet) and to all those waiting for af to appear.

Strike1 - I know what you mean about the London thing. I've been in every work day since and still think about it much more than I should. Doesn't help that you buy a paper at the station sit down to read it on the train and get faced with all the latest on the bombers (pages and pages of it). Take a deep breath and go for it!

HellKat · 18/07/2005 08:53

Hmm not sure why that posted twice lol.

Been testing every couple of days and nothing so far. Boobs still swollen though so very puzzling.
Strike- Good luck today hun, You'll be fine.

HellKat · 18/07/2005 08:51

How are you by the way?

strike1 · 18/07/2005 08:48

Excellent news madrush!!!! Make sure you keep us up to date on how you're doing.

Of to central london for the first time since the bomings today, and have worked myself up into quite a state, I'm such a wimp!

maddyd · 18/07/2005 08:48

Im fine ta. I dont like bding during af at all. I do nearer the end and as you say after a bath.

Have you thought of testing at all, just incase?

HellKat · 18/07/2005 08:40

How are you by the way?

HellKat · 18/07/2005 08:33

Maddy- Yep all gone!! But confession, we were bding all the time anyway . Trick of making no mess is to bd straight after having a bath (works really well) but obviously we could'nt when I was really heavy.

maddyd · 18/07/2005 08:23

Hellkat how are you, has your af finished yet, is it light enough for you to bd.? When would it make your next af due?

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HellKat · 18/07/2005 08:20

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HellKat · 18/07/2005 08:18

Morning all
Madrush-{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} Congrats!!!!! Wahooooo.
Humphreys- Here's hoping she shows herself!
Diddle- So sorry hun! Keep testing.

maddyd · 18/07/2005 08:08

Morning Diddle, what a shame. Is there any way you could have your dates mixed up. I know thats a no going by how obessive and in tune with our bodies we are but you never know.

Madrush, Congratulations, have you tested again this morning, i bet you have!!!!

had a good bd session last night and if that didnt do it i dont know what will. Was Day 13 but im sure i ovualted last week. We will see. Maybe Madrush will bring us luck

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Diddle · 18/07/2005 07:58

oh xena - people can be so thoughless, can't believe they're your family though. Maybe they just don't know how to deal with it. When i bought my roses in memory of the little ones i lost, my mom told me she thought it was morbid, which really upset me. Some people just don't understand how you feel about it, unless they've experienced it themselves.

Tested again today, still BFN. losing hope now, even though i don't feel like af is coming, we'll see.

morning to everyone else.

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HumphreysCorner · 17/07/2005 21:54

Xena-some people just have no idea about various things in life (Gits are what I call them). I know it's not easy but try to ignore them because they will have forgotten the conversation 2 mins later while you are still dwelling on it. Happens to me alot-as they say 'elephants never forget'. ((xx))

Going to bed now.

Night night everyone.
x

Xena · 17/07/2005 21:25

Hi all
Congratulations Madrush

Gosh I feel soo weepy this evening, pmt?? feel a bit like it in my tummy and AF due this week.
I've been feeling much happier lately and not so sad about the m/c but we went to a family party today and my younger sister and her DH (who still haven't even acknowledged the m/c) Where all blarsay asking if we were going to have anymore??
Other people who don't know what happened ask me that, but they know why are they asking??

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 17/07/2005 21:12

Madrush

You give us all hope.Sleep well tonight,you must be thrilled.

xx

madrush · 17/07/2005 21:05

Thanks for the congrats, you're guesses are right, baby due late March. Feels a bit weird calling "it" a baby right now, too nervous of things going wrong again.

Can't believe you've been decorating Petunia and Diddle, much too hot for work.

HC - you were supposed to be going on ebay to SELL things, not buy hope af arrives soon.

HumphreysCorner · 17/07/2005 20:54

Been on Ebay and had to buy 10 more testing strips. Should last a couple of weeks
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petunia · 17/07/2005 20:14

Diddle- you've been painting today as well! I've been painting our garage door and got nicely toasted from being in the sun!

I'm still waiting for AF to appear. Still getting cramps but not as bad as they were a few days ago.

HumphreysCorner · 17/07/2005 20:09

madrush-wow-that is such brilliant news. Must be a March/April baby. ((xx))

HellKat-yes, the watery pink stuff was after bd this morning-not had it before. So still waiting for AF-will be 7 weeks tomorrow.

Off on Ebay to try and sell some more things.

xx

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Diddle · 17/07/2005 20:00

excellent madrush, congratulations!!!!!

hope you had a nice day.

sounds like you've all been busy, me too, have painted our front bedroom two coats, which took all afternoon, i'm knackered now.

off to relax. night night all

xxx

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petunia · 17/07/2005 19:55

Congratulations madrush!