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TTC after a Miscarriage - A Fresh New Start

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Diddle · 04/07/2005 18:09

Here we go, another new thread for us to fill with our highs and lows.

Lets start off with a good dusting of babydust, think all the rest we had has washed off in the rain

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HellKat · 20/07/2005 09:49

Spub- That scene makes cringe!!!!! Yuck lol.
Humphreys- Not had it done yet. Going Monday morning at 9.20pm. Dr reckons a biopsy but you never know, they might be kind and just do a mammogram!
Maddy- That wait's going to be a nightmare!!!!

HumphreysCorner · 20/07/2005 09:20

Irons !!!!!!!!!If DH even picked up the iron to move it I would pass out-LOL.

Catch y'all later
x

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Diddle · 20/07/2005 09:18

HK - don't watch little britain, but think the hypnotisng has worked. I will not test again.

Thanks Spub - fingers are crossed

Humphreyscorner - Thanks for the positive vibes, i know theres still a chance until AF appears, just hate the waiting, and will hate it even more if my body is playing trick son me, so cruel.

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maddyd · 20/07/2005 09:17

Morning all. Diddle i really do feel for you. Its so awfull when you are late and you desperatly want to be pregnant. You could have ovulated late in your cycle though. Are you ov testing?

Hellkat re men. Mind you im ok with mine at mo. We bd'd on day 13 and 15 so chances are good for this month. Am now on the two week testing wait which is a killer as i know although i promised i wouldnt that i will test earlier.

Hc my man irons for me Its one job i loathe. Whats going on with your af, how wierd.

HumphreysCorner · 20/07/2005 09:08

Morning girls

Ooh I lurve Little Britain and Andy and Lou are my fave characters.

Diddle-the month before I got PG this last time my AF was a week late which was a first considering I am always 28 days on the dot. Fingers still crossed for you though hun. ((xx))

LunarSea-sorry about your AF . Hopefully next month for you. ((xx))

HellKat-How long will it be before you get the results from your biopsy? AF has a nerve showing up again!

As for my bloody AF she only stayed 3 hours to do her washing then buggered off again. So still don't have a LMP!!! Bit fed up now as it is 7+2 but I know she is not far away considering my backache. Grrrhhh!

Had a lovely day yesterday-we took DD to Fantasy Island for her B'Day and she loved all the rides. V. expensive though but we managed to sneak all 3 of us through the little gates a few times so only putting 1 lot of tokens in. Should have been 12 for the big wheel (£7.20) but got away with 4 (£2.40) Yay!

Anyway-must go as lots of ironing to do. Hope everyone has a good day!

Bye for now
x

spub · 20/07/2005 09:08

Yeah, but let's just not get started on a "Bitty" thread.....

HellKat · 20/07/2005 08:36

LOL!!!!!!!!!!

spub · 20/07/2005 08:32

HK - but Diddle's walking around stores looking at OPK's and PT's and going, "I want that one"!!

HellKat · 20/07/2005 08:27

Diddle-do you watch Little Britain? The hypnotist sketch....."Look into my eyes, my eyes, not all around the eyes but deep into my eyes....you will not test until the weekend!!"

spub · 20/07/2005 08:27

Diddle,
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo more testing for you for now.
Fingers (but not legs) crossed for you.

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Diddle · 20/07/2005 08:22

right don't any of you let me test now untila t least the weekend. Send me lots of mental messages saying NOOOOO!!!

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HellKat · 20/07/2005 07:33

{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}} hun!
Awwww. I'm not surprised!

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Diddle · 20/07/2005 07:27

nice mugs Hellkat - might leave it now, fed up of testing, just wanted to try the no drinking before bedtime thing. Can't be arsed now.

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HellKat · 20/07/2005 07:15

Morning all.
Diddle- Why don't you try to leave testing until Friday? Then it'll be a week and if no sign of af, make an appt with you dr. Something's got to show eitherway. Love the idea that a little beanie is staying safe until 7/8wks! Ohhhh I so hope it's that for you .
CP- Lol at the ball toys! Why oh why do we do it?
Maddy- at the pms thing!! You missed a good one though. PMS= permenant male stress! Well that's my one lol. As it sooo happens I have two coffee mugs. First one (both retro 50's design) says " I'm having my period therefore can legally kill you", second one says " MENtal anxiety, MENtal breakdown, MENstrual cramps, MENopause.....all problems begin with MEN!".

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Diddle · 20/07/2005 07:04

morning all
bfn again, not impressed, very confused, can't undertsand it. Feel very fat and sick. no pains to say that af is coming, what the hell is going on. Maybe i am pg and my body is getting me past the 7 and 8 weeks that i lost my little ones at. But they are a long way off now.

I don't get it!!!

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Diddle · 19/07/2005 22:28

Cp - is it your birthday or have i missed something??

Just had a lovely evening, where i actually managed to forget about babies and ttc. My best friend since primary school is visiting, she now lives in New Zealand and hasn't been back for 3 years, it was so good to see her, all we've done is talk, loads.
I loved it.

Off to bed now. have not had a drink of anything since 7.00 so I am testing out the theory that if i don't dilute my urine too much i may get a beter result as af still hasn't shown today.

Night night everyone

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Tabs · 19/07/2005 21:55

I just had a go. It reckons that my 'real age' is 30.8, but says that I'm actually 32 - I've still got nearly 2 weeks before I turn 32, so it can't count!!

LunarSea · 19/07/2005 21:39

Just tried that test online here - and it reckons I'm 2 years younger than my chronological age too.

Tabs · 19/07/2005 21:31

Happy Birthday CP!

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/07/2005 20:32

Just bought 10 ultra early detection kits.Says can use 7-10 days after conception.

Anyone had any success tesying so early?

Should arrive in next day or two. Guess who is going to use all 10 straight away......

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Diddle · 19/07/2005 19:55

maddyd - no sign of af yet no, not sure if shes coming or not.

CP - Thats positive thinking for you, stay positive, its never too late to try.

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/07/2005 19:48

Did you do that test on Sat night on BBC1? Test your real age? I came out as a 36 and would have scoredlower but to the fact lost mum before 75 and to breast cancer

Anyhow,your as young as you feel and after a box of Black Magic I feel 21!!

LunarSea · 19/07/2005 19:36

Cp -- If you're too old, then I definately am

CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 19/07/2005 19:25

Hellkat, my sister had the same last month,turned out to be a cyst.Hope everything ok for you too(I bought dd a boat with loads balls.Never again) xx

Tabs,great news re scan.A little step further.x

Lunarsea,our other halfs can be v difficult at times cant they? I know we are difficult to understand at these times but can you imagine if the situation was reversed? Mine is in sulking mood because he has a sore throat and said he feels like a 'donor'.Ha.Make the most of it pal cos IF i get pregnant its the last leg over he will be getting for quite a while....

In fairly good mood today cos its my birthday. Fairly I say cos I am 38 and think I am too old to be having babies.Anyhow due date this week and think as God took my baby away then I have no choice but to have a go,no matter HOW old I am .

Good though cos got lots chocs for birthday which is helping......mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

maddyd · 19/07/2005 18:38

Im fine ta already trying to work out when i can test. How about you, has your af appeared yet?