****October bus ready to depart****

Umbongo I hope this story of two people I know happens for you too!

xxx

Thank you everyone for your support, I will have a nag at dh! I feel better today after a good rant and a good sleep. All I need now is a good shag and everything will almost be back to normal or what counts for normal round here! Fairygodmother Thank you particularly for your support, you make me even more aware that I am very lucky to have ds. Even if I do need to get off mn and go and change a stinky nappy!

Nancydrewrocks TTC#4 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD43
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL30 CD35
SilverBoots TTC#4, Cycle 1, UCL 28-32 CD33
Whatkatydidnext TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL27 CD32
cailin1974 TTC#2 Cycle 10 UCL 32-36 CD31
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTT#1 Cycle 15 UCL 29-30 CD30
evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD30
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL?? CD29
mumofzac TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL28 CD29
Asianbabe TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL 29-31, CD27
Heading4home TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 29 CD27
bunny TTC1 Cycle11 UCL 25-29 CD26
vodkaontherocks TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 27-28 CD26
LadyBee TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 27, CD26
FrenchLimeBlossom TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD25
vivivi TTC#2 Cylce 1 UCL 22 CD24
Spacefrog TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 32 CD24
LunaticFringe TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD24
Lucybrad TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL 26-36 CD23
Lucylev- TTC-1 Cycle-6 UCL-35-36 CD21
Totallyfloaty35 TTC #4 cycle 1 ucl 28 cd 20
Nymphadora TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL no idea any more CD19
SamanthaB123 TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD19
Eadwacer TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL24 CD19
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#4 UCL28 CD18
FairyGodmother1 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD18
stuffedmk TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 25-34 CD17
BUnderTheBonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 24-36??? CD17
craftykamo TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD17
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL32 CD16
sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD16
Pointsmakeprizes TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 30-42 CD15
Gracie14 TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL 28-30, CD15
UmBongo TTC#2, cycle 20, ucl 31-34, cd14
nickymorris TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29-37 CD13
kawaiiko TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 29-33, CD13
Armi TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD12
Nanny01 TTC#5 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD11
Lorelai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 26 CD4
FedUpAndHateFul TTC#2 Cycle 1(MC Dec) UCL 28 CD ?
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 30-70(!!) CD?
manchestermummy TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL? CD?

Graduates:

Bessie123
legallyblond 24 Jan
Jennimoo 26 Jan

Sorry shelleee and mmmcoffee. Shelleee have a fabulous wedding!

Sundays list:

Nancydrewrocks TTC#4 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD43
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL30 CD35
SilverBoots TTC#4, Cycle 1, UCL 28-32 CD33
Whatkatydidnext TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL27 CD32
cailin1974 TTC#2 Cycle 10 UCL 32-36 CD31
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTC#1 Cycle 15 UCL 29-30 CD30
evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD30
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL?? CD29
mumofzac TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL28 CD29
Asianbabe TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL 29-31, CD27
Heading4home TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 29 CD27
bunny TTC1 Cycle11 UCL 25-29 CD26
vodkaontherocks TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 27-28 CD26
LadyBee TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 27, CD26
FrenchLimeBlossom TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD25
vivivi TTC#2 Cylce 1 UCL 22 CD24
Spacefrog TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 32 CD24
LunaticFringe TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD24
Lucybrad TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL 26-36 CD23
Lucylev- TTC-1 Cycle-6 UCL-35-36 CD21
Totallyfloaty35 TTC #4 cycle 1 ucl 28 cd20
Nymphadora TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL no idea any more CD19
SamanthaB123 TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD19
Eadwacer TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL24 CD19
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#4 UCL28 CD18
FairyGodmother1 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD18
stuffedmk TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 25-34 CD17
BUnderTheBonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 24-36?? CD17
craftykamo TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD17
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL32 CD16
sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD16
Pointsmakeprizes TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 30-42 CD15
Gracie14 TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL 28-30, CD15
UmBongo TTC#2, cycle 20, ucl 31-34, cd14
nickymorris TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29-37 CD13
kawaiiko TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 29-33, CD13
Armi TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD12
Nanny01 TTC#5 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD11
Lorelai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 26 CD4
FedUpAndHateFul TTC#2 Cycle 1(MC Dec) UCL 28 CD ?
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 30-70(!!) CD?
manchestermummy TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL? CD?

Graduates:

Bessie123
legallyblond 24 Jan
Jennimoo 26 Jan

hi all , af arrived yesterday so its time for me to get off the bus ,im not boarding anymore for a while now as my wedding is in may and i have lots to organise so that will keep my mind off babies for a couple of months , were not going to try and prevent a pregnancy but i have so much going on i dont think we will have the energy to do much bding ,,,,, good luck to all of you and i hope you all get yr bfps over the next couple of months xx

Oh crap. Tests arrived in the post today, too late as it turns out AF arrived in the night.

Hey ho. Off to the November bus.

Keep trying everyone! Fingers crossed for lots more BFPs for you all.

No sign of ovulation here. Still time though, if I'm in for a long cycle to make up for last month's incredibly short one.

Sorry to all the AFs.

Think the full moon mught be good luck for those at the top of the list?

Umbongo I'm actually on cycle 26 but put 6 on stats as I'm counting it from when i satrted clomid as I actually started ovulating then. Totally feel for you hon - but I made dh get tested after 12 cycles. Turns out he's fine & I have PCOS.

You could try guilt trip.

Not being a man - I don't know what their issue with it is. I know two people who's DH wouldn't get tested but when they'd finally worn their DH down (both convinced it wasn't their 'problem') both women fell pg (which feels totally unfair to me)!!!

Keep your chin up.

Nag away umbongo!

Nancydrewrocks TTC#4 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD42
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL30 CD34
SilverBoots TTC#4, Cycle 1, UCL 28-32 CD32
Whatkatydidnext TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL27 CD31
shelleee TTC#2 Cycle 8 UCL 30-31 CD30
cailin1974 TTC#2 Cycle 10 UCL 32-36 CD30
Mmmcoffee TTC#2 Cycle 20 UCL 26 CD30
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTT#1 Cycle 15 UCL 29-30 CD29
evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD29
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL?? CD28
mumofzac TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL28 CD28
Asianbabe TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL 29-31, CD26
Heading4home TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 29 CD26
bunny TTC1 Cycle11 UCL 25-29 CD25
vodkaontherocks TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 27-28 CD25
LadyBee TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 27, CD25
FrenchLimeBlossom TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD24
vivivi TTC#2 Cylce 1 UCL 22 CD23
Spacefrog TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 32 CD23
LunaticFringe TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD23
Lucybrad TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL 26-36 CD22
Lucylev- TTC-1 Cycle-6 UCL-35-36 CD20
Totallyfloaty35 TTC #4 cycle 1 ucl 28 cd 19
Nymphadora TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL no idea any more CD18
SamanthaB123 TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD18
Eadwacer TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL24 CD18
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#4 UCL28 CD17
FairyGodmother1 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD17
stuffedmk TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 25-34 CD16
BUnderTheBonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 24-36??? CD16
craftykamo TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD16
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL32 CD15
sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD15
Pointsmakeprizes TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 30-42 CD14
Gracie14 TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL 28-30, CD14
UmBongo TTC#2, cycle 20, ucl 31-34, cd13
nickymorris TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29-37 CD12
kawaiiko TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 29-33, CD12
Armi TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD11
Nanny01 TTC#5 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD10
Lorelai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 26 CD3
FedUpAndHateFul TTC#2 Cycle 1(MC Dec) UCL 28 CD ?
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 30-70(!!) CD?
manchestermummy TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL? CD?

Graduates:

Bessie123
legallyblond 24 Jan
Jennimoo 26 Jan

Umbongo just start nagging, 20 cycles on I would be totally nagging. In fact we made DS1 after 18 months of TTC and it was just prior to DH going to have an intimate relationship with a petri dish ..!

Anyway, I am off to November bus as the evil witch has got me! Now, where is that bottle of wine??

Here are updated saturday's stats:

Nancydrewrocks TTC#4 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD42
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL30 CD34
SilverBoots TTC#4, Cycle 1, UCL 28-32 CD32
Whatkatydidnext TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL27 CD31
shelleee TTC#2 Cycle 8 UCL 30-31 CD30
cailin1974 TTC#2 Cycle 10 UCL 32-36 CD30
Mmmcoffee TTC#2 Cycle 20 UCL 26 CD30
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTT#1 Cycle 15 UCL 29-30 CD29
evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD29
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL?? CD28
mumofzac TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL28 CD28
Cokie TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL 28, CD28
Asianbabe TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL 29-31, CD26
Heading4home TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 29 CD26
bunny TTC1 Cycle11 UCL 25-29 CD25
vodkaontherocks TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 27-28 CD25
LadyBee TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 27, CD25
FrenchLimeBlossom TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD24
vivivi TTC#2 Cylce 1 UCL 22 CD23
Spacefrog TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 32 CD23
LunaticFringe TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD23
Lucybrad TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL 26-36 CD22
Lucylev- TTC-1 Cycle-6 UCL-35-36 CD20
Totallyfloaty35 TTC #4 cycle 1 ucl 28 cd 19
Nymphadora TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL no idea any more CD18
SamanthaB123 TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD18
Eadwacer TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL24 CD18
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#4 UCL28 CD17
FairyGodmother1 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD17
stuffedmk TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 25-34 CD16
BUnderTheBonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 24-36??? CD16
craftykamo TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD16
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL32 CD15
sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD15
Pointsmakeprizes TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 30-42 CD14
Gracie14 TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL 28-30, CD14
UmBongo TTC#2, cycle 20, ucl 31-34, cd13
nickymorris TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29-37 CD12
kawaiiko TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 29-33, CD12
Armi TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD11
Nanny01 TTC#5 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD10
Lorelai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 26 CD3
FedUpAndHateFul TTC#2 Cycle 1(MC Dec) UCL 28 CD ?
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 30-70(!!) CD?
manchestermummy TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL? CD?

Graduates:

Bessie123
legallyblond 24 Jan
Jennimoo 26 Jan

Sad to see you go Lucie Good luck with the November bus

umbongo you have every right to moan. 20 cycles would take it's toll on the most patient of people. And there I was feeling sorry for myself because one of my friends whose dd is younger than my ds is already 11 weeks pregnant with dc2. Not quite sure how I'll feel if we're still trying by the time she gives birth. Which is very likely.

This 2ww (3ww) is now boring me because I really really don't think my chances are any good now. I want to start the next cycle please.

I am also feeling crap right at the point where we should be making like bunnies! So I guess that is another reason for my mum to sign me over to the nearest loonybin.

Problem is, I think she may be right.

[disapears back into whisky bottle]

I'm really sorry to do this but i have to have a moan, please feel free not to read this post.

One of my mates had her dd2 yesterday. I have been feeling crap for 3 days. My mum asked me this morning if I was all right, so I had a major blub at her. She then said that I had to get dh to do his test. (I know that). That I had to move forward. (I know that). That I had to be thankful for ds. (I know that and am. Very.) That some people don't have any dc. (I know that too) That I had to "Feel the fear and do it anyway" and talk to dh about doing his test. (I know that my mum reads self help books!) I was kind of happy (ish) living in cloud cuckoo land thinking that dh would do his test, but I am going to have to nag him. Don't like nagging.

OK so to sum up, I am a coward, who is heading the right way towards depression. And that that is not helping me care for my ds. Oh bollocks to it, anyone got any whisky? (Oh and another box of tissues)

Just signing off the October bus as AF arrived for me today. Armed with vitamins and have forewarned DH of plan to 'step up the action' for this month, so fingers crossed February is going to me a lucky one!

Fingers crossed for all those still in with a shout for an October baby

Vodkagirl, I'm really sorry, it's so hard isn't it that even when you get positive results nothing is guaranteed. Good luck with November and go easy on yourself.

Here are saturday's stats:

Nancydrewrocks TTC#4 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD42
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL30 CD34
SilverBoots TTC#4, Cycle 1, UCL 28-32 CD32
Whatkatydidnext TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL27 CD31
shelleee TTC#2 Cycle 8 UCL 30-31 CD30
cailin1974 TTC#2 Cycle 10 UCL 32-36 CD30
Mmmcoffee TTC#2 Cycle 20 UCL 26 CD30
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTT#1 Cycle 15 UCL 29-30 CD29
evilgiraffe TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD29
Lucielooo TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL 28-32 CD29
digitalgirl TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL?? CD28
mumofzac TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL28 CD28
Cokie TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL 28, CD28
Asianbabe TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL 29-31, CD26
Heading4home TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 29 CD26
bunny TTC1 Cycle11 UCL 25-29 CD25
vodkaontherocks TTC#1 Cycle 12 UCL 27-28 CD25
LadyBee TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 27, CD25
FrenchLimeBlossom TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD24
vivivi TTC#2 Cylce 1 UCL 22 CD23
Spacefrog TTC#2 Cycle 3 UCL 32 CD23
LunaticFringe TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 26-28 CD23
Lucybrad TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL 26-36 CD22
Lucylev- TTC-1 Cycle-6 UCL-35-36 CD20
Totallyfloaty35 TTC #4 cycle 1 ucl 28 cd 19
Nymphadora TTC#3 Cycle 5 UCL no idea any more CD18
SamanthaB123 TTC#3 Cycle 2 UCL 28 CD18
Eadwacer TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL24 CD18
Beckylou85 TTC#1 Cycle#4 UCL28 CD17
FairyGodmother1 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD17
stuffedmk TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 25-34 CD16
BUnderTheBonnet TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 24-36??? CD16
craftykamo TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL ?? CD16
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL32 CD15
sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL32 CD15
Pointsmakeprizes TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL 30-42 CD14
Gracie14 TTC#2, Cycle 2, UCL 28-30, CD14
UmBongo TTC#2, cycle 20, ucl 31-34, cd13
nickymorris TTC#2 Cycle 4 UCL 29-37 CD12
kawaiiko TTC#1, cycle 3, UCL 29-33, CD12
Armi TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 28 CD11
Nanny01 TTC#5 cycle 2 UCL 28 CD10
Lorelai TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 26 CD3
FedUpAndHateFul TTC#2 Cycle 1(MC Dec) UCL 28 CD ?
twolittlemonkeys TTC#3 Cycle 1 UCL 30-70(!!) CD?
manchestermummy TTC#2 Cycle 6 UCL? CD?

Graduates:

Bessie123
legallyblond 24 Jan
Jennimoo 26 Jan

I tested this morning and had a BFN at about 10-11 dpo. AF still not due for a couple of days so will just wait for it to come and if (by some miracle) it doesn't by Wednesday, test again. I'm going out tonight though - have decided not to stress about it.

It would be lovely to see a few more graduates though - mmmcoffee did those tests arrive?

vodkagirl sorry to hear that

Bfn for me just now. So definitely didn't ovulate as early on in my cycle as I initially thought. I'm still a little unsure whether I definitely ov'ed last weekend too. Oh well, suppose I'm going to have to wait to find out next weekend if I get my period.

Got a full body massage booked in 45 mins so that should take my mind off it.

vodkagirl so sorry to hear that

Must feel so rubbish - don't blame you for feeling down in the dumps. TTC really does put you through the mill doesnit it.
Fingers extra crossed for you for next month instead.

re -read TCOYF this morning and am now totally convinced that this month I have not ovulated. This month is so different from the others as I usually get sore boobs after ovulation (or what I assume to be ovulation) but this time there has been nothing, and i had a few patches of ewcm, and now normally i would be dry but i am damp. I have been under stress this month as i have started a new job and the kids have been ill for weeks.

i think my day 21 test results due next week will probably confirm this. we will just have to wait and see. Also expecting imminent arrival of baby nephew, so thats exciting.

VodkaGirl for you...

I've done a few tests which was a bit stupid as it's way too early - all BFN but too too early in any case!

Hi

Please can you remove me from the graduates list - I started bleeding on CD32 after 2 faint positives, so think it must have been a chemical. Have been feeling down over last couple of days, so stayed away, but think I'm feeling ready to join the November bus now.

Lots and lots of good luck to everyone still waiting for their BFPs.

Ah Decafgirl and yumyum73 I?m really sorry AF got you, especially with all those symptoms.

Nymphadora why do you think you?re not ovulating?

mmmcoffee fingers crossed for testing tomorrow, I hope those tests arrive!

Digitalgirl I?ve got exactly the same dull ache, pretty sure it?s a complete washout for me, it?s happening a bit earlier than normal too to add to the insult.

I still went and bought a couple of tests though, a friend has asked me out for a drink and there?s still a bit of me that thinks ?but should I?? Gonna test tomorrow, if it?s negative I?ll have a drink. That would be about 10-11 dpo I think. Not beyond the realms of possibility to get a result. Still quite early but it?s the best compromise I can think of. Plus I really feel like a drink.

So am I nymph Hopefully will bump into you on an antenatal thread in the near future.

Thanks for link