The continuing adventures of The First Time Frolickers!!!!

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that, Sevans. I was really hoping everything would turn out to be ok for you. It's horrible that things have ended badly.

Definitely take a few days off. It's a major loss of a close family member that you're going through, which is distressing in itself. You'll also have the hormonal highs and lows to ride out for the next few weeks too as your body tries to get itself sorted.

You need a few days off to let yourself recover both emotionally and physically. There's no reward for stoically pushing through it, take the time and be gentle to yourself.

Whiteroses and Yorkshire hope you girls are still holding out as long as possible? What news from you?

Sevans, I am thinking of you right now. I hope you can have the time to be sad and come to terms with it. I promise you will get through this and happier days are on the way.

Be kind to yourself and talk to us soon.

xxx

Sevans, I'm so sorry this has happened. I wish I knew something to say to make you feel better. As you know, we're always here.

Sevans, are you able to take a few days off, to just 'be' at home? Are there people there with you? I feel very sad for you x.

That was just you Kaloki

Here you are HypotheticalMummy: (hope it's right)

Sky27 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 24? CD96
chico193 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL36 CD74
Stellybelly TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD58
Hamsterlover TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL34 CD51
WhiteRoses TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL23-49 CD31
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTC#1 Cycle 13 UCL 30 CD28
honeymoo TTC#1 cycle2 UCL? CD25
aly323 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-? CD21
addie81 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 27 CD21
Calyx TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL 25-26 CD19
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 29 CD19
HypotheticalMummy TTC#1 Cycle1 UCL 30(?)CD 19
chalky3 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL40 CD17
vix206 TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 27 CD16
Ozziegirly TTC#1 cycle UCL 27 CD15
blueberry noo TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 31-32 CD13
pixiestix TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD11
CJ2007 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL26/7 CD11
Kaloki TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL ? CD10
Zippys TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL34 CD9
Homebound TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-32 CD7
NovemberAli TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30-34 CD7
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL?? CD7
claireinthecommunity TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL29-31 CD4
Eleanora TTC #1 Cycle 1 UCL 33(?) CD4
Muser TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL30 CD3
Confuseddoiordonti TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 27-28
CD?
Sevans TTC#1

Graduates:
Trying4Baby1 BFP 21Aug
Kaystar BFP 27Aug
Pepperonipizza BFP 12Sep
Fulhamgirl BFP 18Sep
Ladyemmalou83 BFP 13Oct
bluesnowfalcon BFP 14 Oct
Spirael BFP 7 Nov
Curlycasper BFP 11 Nov
TishTosh21 BFP ???
EmsieRo BFP 16 Nov

Oh sevans I am so sorry to hear that, I really don't know what to say other than take care and we are all here if you need us x.

"Do I have to participate in an intiation ceremony to be included in the list?!"

Yes, you have to dance naked in the moonlight while singing "I'm a little teapot".. oh wait, maybe that was just me

Sevans I'm so sorry to hear that xx

Had bleeding and cramps again this morning so I was almost certain the news would be bad at the appointment and sure enough it was. My temps are still up which is weird. Hopefully they will drop soon and I can get through this miscarriage quickly. I decided not to go into work today after my appt because the cramping is pretty painful and I am not emotionally fit to be there. I haven't really had any heavy bleeding so it is yet to come. I think I am as good as I can be right now. I took myself off the BFP list and added myself to the bottom of the TTC list with no stats.

Sky27 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 24? CD96
chico193 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL36 CD74
Stellybelly TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD58
Hamsterlover TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL34 CD51
WhiteRoses TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL23-49 CD31
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTC#1 Cycle 13 UCL 30 CD28
honeymoo TTC#1 cycle2 UCL? CD25
aly323 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-? CD21
addie81 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 27 CD21
Calyx TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL 25-26 CD19
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 29 CD19
chalky3 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL40 CD17
vix206 TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 27 CD16
Ozziegirly TTC#1 cycle UCL 27 CD15
blueberry noo TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 31-32 CD13
pixiestix TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD11
CJ2007 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL26/7 CD11
Kaloki TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL ? CD10
Zippys TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL34 CD9
Homebound TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-32 CD7
NovemberAli TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30-34 CD7
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL?? CD7
claireinthecommunity TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL29-31 CD4
Eleanora TTC #1 Cycle 1 UCL 33(?) CD4
Muser TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL30 CD3
Confuseddoiordonti TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 27-28
CD?
Sevans TTC#1

Graduates:
Trying4Baby1 BFP 21Aug
Kaystar BFP 27Aug
Pepperonipizza BFP 12Sep
Fulhamgirl BFP 18Sep
Ladyemmalou83 BFP 13Oct
bluesnowfalcon BFP 14 Oct
Spirael BFP 7 Nov
Curlycasper BFP 11 Nov
TishTosh21 BFP ???
EmsieRo BFP 16 Nov

Do I have to participate in an intiation ceremony to be included in the list?!

Morning all,

Welcome back CJ2007

Not envious about you spending the weekend on the beach at all bunnygirl Glad the move went well.

Kaloki, how on earth did you manage that!?! (Ok, I probably don't want to know.)

Here's the list:

Sky27 TTC#1 cycle 3 UCL 24? CD96
chico193 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL36 CD74
Stellybelly TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL? CD58
Hamsterlover TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL34 CD51
WhiteRoses TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL23-49 CD31
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTC#1 Cycle 13 UCL 30 CD28
honeymoo TTC#1 cycle2 UCL? CD25
aly323 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-? CD21
addie81 TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 27 CD21
Calyx TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL 25-26 CD19
bunnygirl80 TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 29 CD19
chalky3 TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL40 CD17
vix206 TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 27 CD16
Ozziegirly TTC#1 cycle UCL 27 CD15
blueberry noo TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL 31-32 CD13
pixiestix TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL28 CD11
CJ2007 TTC#1 cycle 6 UCL26/7 CD11
Kaloki TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL ? CD10
Zippys TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL34 CD9
Homebound TTC#1 cycle 4 UCL 30-32 CD7
NovemberAli TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30-34 CD7
kkas TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL?? CD7
claireinthecommunity TTC#1 cycle 7 UCL29-31 CD4
Eleanora TTC #1 Cycle 1 UCL 33(?) CD4
Muser TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL30 CD3
Confuseddoiordonti TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 27-28
CD?

Graduates:
Trying4Baby1 BFP 21Aug
Kaystar BFP 27Aug
Pepperonipizza BFP 12Sep
Fulhamgirl BFP 18Sep
Ladyemmalou83 BFP 13Oct
bluesnowfalcon BFP 14 Oct
Spirael BFP 7 Nov
Curlycasper BFP 11 Nov
TishTosh21 BFP ???
Sevans BFP 15 Nov
EmsieRo BFP 16 Nov

Thinking of you sevans, hope all is well with you x.

Hi everyone

I've been awol for a while as was busy moving but am starting to settle in to life in Oz now. Spent the weekend at the beach!!

Bought a shiny new BBT thermometer at the beginning of this cycle, but so far my temps have been all over the place. Not sure what's going with my body any more!

Sevans I'll be thinking of you today - hope everything turns out OK for you.

I hope everything turns out ok, Sevans!

When I had problems a few months ago, I found that on the second day of bleeding my temps did drop, as they would have done if AF had shown up. So the fact that they've not dropped is a good thing.

Hopefully the tests the surgery are doing will show your levels increasing nicely and that everything is fine. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

Panic over, turns out it wasn't a period yesterday, I'd somehow managed to cut myself down there instead

So I'm actually TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL ? CD10

Phew!! Found you all!!! Sorry I've been off radar for a while and then I came back and you'd gone!!
I'm cd11 again, af eventually caught up with me after late ov, ever since we started ttc my regular cycle has disappeared!! So frustrating!!!
Here's hoping there's good news from those approaching testing, would be a wonderful time of year to discover you were pg.
Hoping everyone is well.
Thinking of you sevans, take care.
X

Just peeping in before bed... sevans big cuddle and good vibes for you, it's good the temps are high, keeping everything crossed for you. Best luck at the doctors xxx

Sevans, really sorry to hear about the bleed, am keeping everything crossed that its just a 'normal' bleed and everything remains ok.

Hello HypotheticalMummy and Eleanora, welcome aboard. HypotheticalMummy your symptoms sounds almost exactly the same as mine. I've had funny cramps for almost a week now and AF is still a couple of days away. I believe they can be symptoms of pregnancy, but I tested yesterday and got a BFN, so I'm assuming its long range PMT. Hope yours is an indication of better things.

(I hope that didn't sound insensitive sevans, it wasn't meant to) [worried emoticon]

Oh sevans, I'm so sorry if it turns out to be what it sounds like . But, bleeding in the first few weeks pf PG is quite common, so I really hope it is nothing too serious (will be thinking of you).

Welcome to Eleanora and HypotheticalMummy

Lovely to hear from you Yorkshire, can't believe you're almost 20 weeks gone, time really has flown by. Take care of yourself and I (we) look forward to hearing your next update.

Kkas - hope you enjoyed your day skiving off

Kaloki - hope things start to settle down for you soon.

Calyx - I would say sex other than TTC sex would be a gooood thing

Pixie - keep us up to date with the monitor, I haven't gone down that route yet and it's always interesting to hear how other people get on with things first.

Hello to everyone else AF coming to an end for me, so now the real fun begins...

Thanks aly. I really have no clue what is going on. I talked to the nurse this morning and she said really it can go either way and couldn't give me a definite answer.

I am still temping and my temps are still up. I don't know if that means anything but it makes me just a little hopeful.

Oh Sevans, I truly hope this is just a scare. Please try to take care of yourself today and keep us updated. I'm sending you loads of online hugs.((((()))))

I may be joining you all again. I had a bleeding scare over the weekend. I had been spotting brown last week and wasn't too concerned about it since it was very light and I had no cramps. Saturday night when I went pee, the bleeding came out a bit heavier and more red in color. I also had some cramps. Sunday morning when I woke up I had a little bit more bleeding and a clot. No cramps or bleeding for the rest of the day, just some brown when I wiped. No bleeding again today. I went to the doctor this morning to do blood work to test my HCG levels and I am going tomorrow morning for my scheduled first appointment however it doesn't look like it is going to be a joyous visit anymore. I should hear back with the blood test results today in the next few hours.

Ok - I am swimming in neurosis having never done this before so help...

It feels like my period is about to start (a crampy tummy, constipation, frequent urination, a sore back - all of which I get when my time of the month rolls around) but its way to early for my period to start! Is it possible these are the early symptoms of pregnancy or am I just about to get a nasty suprise 2 weeks to soon?