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Emmsy's weebles continue to grow.. Onwards & upwards

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bluesatinsash · 03/11/2009 20:11

Come on over, its cosy now mermaid has bought the throws and insulated the greenhouse

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MummyLovesSadie · 30/11/2009 12:55

Thinking of you 4ever. I'm sure you will be back here later all smiles & we'll all be collectively letting out our bated breaths.

Well I'm on cd15 & desperately trying to ignore my aching boobs & extreme fatigue. I think I may actually have ovulated this cycle after all but ff thinks I o'd three days ago which I don't agree with. I've decided I'm not going to call my consultant for another week & then my blood tests should be back & I should know more what is going on with my cycle.

Barbie I can't believe you start mat leave in three weeks, it's gone so quickly. Yes dd is now getting a blue putie for Christmas - a Peppa Pig one, thanks to Blue for the idea!

Joolsiam · 30/11/2009 10:52

Thinking positive thoughts today for you 4Ever What time is the scan ??

4everhopeful · 30/11/2009 10:00

Agh wobbling weeble here.. Im just so scared about todays scan as never been this far before & just praying its grown & moved, please please please god?

barbie1 · 30/11/2009 03:50

Good morning uk!

Im sat here listening to the birds singing and a sleeply dubai come to life, the temperture is a cool 20 degress and the sun is just starting to peak through the trees...

I got a fb message from buddha last night who told me to stalk on her other thread for updates from her, i will cut and paste anything she writes there. I think for the moment she is still in the hospital as she hasnt got any internet access?

mls glad i didnt scare you away...your dd is so cute with all the things she says...so is father christmas going to bring her a blue puter?

curly lovely long post and for perferring a certain sex..nope im not bothered what is is, although i did have a mls moment with the willie thing at the pool on friday a tiny toddler was running around naked and i did think ewwwww im not sure i can cope with cleaning willies!

blue a women after my own heart..love space nk and any other brand of makeup....my name is barbie and im a makeup aholic! i miss working for the estee lauder compainies, all brands of makeup had 65% off for staff, came in handy this time of year for christmas.

NOthing much going on in the barbie house hold apart from requesting to start mat leave early...22nd of dec, just 3 weeks away! I would of had to work christmas day and all the other holidays which i really didnt want to do, and to be honest the 45 mile round trip is getting a little too much in all the dubai traffic. I was also dreading dh family of 5 coming and staying while working at the same time so now i finish the day they arrive and will get as much done with their help while they are here...i still have to find another villa, pack and move!

Hearing buddha go into early labour kicked me into touch, i have up until now had my head firmly in the sand still, not quite believing the whole baby thing....but i could have the baby in 7 weeks if i follow buddhas lead hence dh and i spending the whole afternoon friday nursery shopping, i refused to bring any of it home though so will get it all delievered in jan.

I have been getting really bad leg cramps at night, the other night i woke dh screaming in pain the poor man thought i was going into labour, the look of horror on his face was priceless any tips girls to coping with the pain???? Im scared to go to sleep in case it happens again

oh and finally at my 28 week checkup my doctor told me she didnt like the hospital im registered to give birth at and told me to go to look at another one she likes spent fri morning driving around trying to locate it and then realised it was all closed due to eid public holiday i have to make an appointment to meet with the hospital midwife for a guided tour....the thing is im too scared to go i really dont want to see the delievery room and stuff, the thought of giving birth is really really terrifying me Im trying to play ignorant, avoiding reading past the pregnancy bit in my book, avoiding antenatal classes and such like...im going with the fact ignornace is bliss but i know i have to face these things sooner or later.....

.....just not today

Have a good day everyone xxx

CurlyBigPants · 29/11/2009 22:18

xpost mls night night

I think you'll definitely get a boy now - willy and everything

Smiled at thought of ds nearly expiring with happiness blue. How cute that must have been to watch I just spent the weekend with my lovely nephew and he entertained himself for nearly two hours just crawling under a duvet and pretending he was emerging from a tunnel

Night all. bleugggh at the thought of work tomorrow

CurlyBigPants · 29/11/2009 22:11

Hey blue and mls I'm still up and it's lovely to see I haven't scared everyone away with my post

at your dd mls I'd like a new putie too She sounds adorable. I hope you have a magic christmas watching her get all excited

blue you always say the right thing, so I'm very glad you never shut up

Just ate lots of cake which was probably a very very bad idea, but it was LOVELY CAKE

MummyLovesSadie · 29/11/2009 22:07

I can't have a boy - they have willies & things!

I'm off to bed too, night night. x

bluesatinsash · 29/11/2009 21:59

at your DD. I'm sure you can get a wee Peppa Pig one that will satisfy her needs . We took DS to Toys R Us yesterday for the first time and he nearly expired with happiness at all the LEGO - reminded me of me when I used to go into Space NK with lots of disposable income

Really hope you do post more but even if you don't, as Curly says, we're all rooting for you. I also think you're going to have a boy next time!

Going now, back has seized up in this crap chair and DH has posted me missing downstairs. You sleep tight and to quote Scarlett O'Hara - tomorrow is another day x

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MummyLovesSadie · 29/11/2009 21:50

Blue I promise I won't disappear again & I will try my hardest to post when I'm feeling low. Dd had a doll's house for her birthday last month, she's saying for Christmas she wants a blue 'putie' (computer)!

bluesatinsash · 29/11/2009 21:39

Hey MLS - x-post! You sounds more positive tonight and hope all our posts have made you realist how special you are to us all .

I am one to talk about pouring things out as I also retreat when things get bad (and yet I'm a Gemini who never bloody shut up ) in my head - if you remember I could barely post during my dark weeks of bleeding daily from 6-10 weeks. We all cope differently but what I was trying to say is don't fell you can't post because you're down, that's what we're all here for to pick you up the best we can.

What is your DD after for Xmas? My neice is the same age as your DD and is getting a Doll's House .

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MummyLovesSadie · 29/11/2009 21:35

Curly x post but glad to see you back to your massive posting usual self. You are very kind.

bluesatinsash · 29/11/2009 21:32

Hi Curly - just logged on after putting DS to bed (he's up way late tonight ) MAHOOSIVE post indeed but lovely to hear from you. You're probably in bed now so I won't stay long...

I had SF jag last Thurs after weeks of debating and decided to go for it as (a) is protects soon to be here lo and (b) I always get winter chest infection so if I do again I'll hopefully avoid SF to boot . Been getting Gaviscon on prescription for months - two bottles per prescription and they taste rank but do work.

Intruiged by your name . We have two girls names and three boys names but can't narrow them down...

Anyway, lovely to hear from you and hope the next 6.5 weeks at work fly by - you have xmas in amongst them to break it up too - ho ho ho!

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MummyLovesSadie · 29/11/2009 21:26

Evening all

Thank you for all of your support & wise words. I think I've spent so many weeks feeling angry/sad/jealous/bitter/gloomy that I'd forgotten how kind & sympathetic you all are.

Barbie yes I will definitely try & concentrate on the positive things from now on.

Blue wise words as always, yes I do think about 4ever lots when I'm at my lowest & she is a stronger lady than me for being able to pour her heart out. I'm a typical cancerian & when the going gets tough I scuttle back into my shell.

Moon thank you for being there, I know how much you too have been struggling recently. Neeko told me when I was in Rome that you were having a hard time & I asked her if she had your number as I think you & I were both fighting with our demons at the same time.

Vjay you are so lovely, you have your hands full & you are still there for others. Don't ever go away.

Cupcake I hope your prediction is right for a Christmas BFP. Did you manage to get your scan pic online?

Neeko did you succeed in getting some r&r this weekend & are you now raring for work tomorrow?

Jools yes I remember your last cp clearly. In fact for that week when I was doing untold hpt's which gradually faded into nothing while my symptoms remained, your words "I've never been so sure of anything in my life" were ringing in my ears. I guess the ultra sensitive hpt's we have now are able to tell us things before they are meant to be.

Curly bless you for saying that everyone is rooting for me, that made me smile.

Waves to everyone & lets hope this week is a more positive one on our thread.

CurlyBigPants · 29/11/2009 20:55

Sorry girls that was MAHOOOOOOSIVE

CurlyBigPants · 29/11/2009 20:55

Feel I should warn you all - behold a full curly style mother of all posts ...

First big congrats to buddha and annie. I have been smiling solidly for the last few days thinking about our new graduates. Hope the spd has cleared up buddha. I've just been catching up on about three weeks of posts and smiled at you talking about having to wait three more weeks - I'm glad that you get a couple of extra weeks with your little one instead

mermaid your post a couple of weeks ago about giving away the cotbed made me so sad for you but I also had the same sneaky thought that it might result in a bfp I love your posts, you are always so wonderful and brave and thinking about everyone else. You do make me want my own greenhouse too

hey lovely moon how are you doing hon? What an awful month for you. How could you not have hope with a cycle that long. Are u using opks to track ovulation? It might be a good plan with your cycles being unpredictable. Or sex every two days not that we ever managed that once we started properly trying for a baby . TTC is such a passion killer . I'm so glad you and your sister had such a good heart to heart. I just so hope people are supporting you enough in RL. Big hugs to you xxx

jools I hope you realise how lovely you are A friend of mine suffered depression recently and she is coming out the other end now. She says the worst thing was being so down on herself and assuming her friends felt the same way I'm glad you are getting support honey. I know it is hard to talk sometimes and I reckon this thread must be unbearable to even lurk on sometimes. I have this really hopeful feeling for you though and that you have turned a corner to happier times ahead. Here's a massive hug from me. Glad DP is feeling better after last week xxxx

MLS The bleeding sounds worrying but hopefully it is just your body getting back to normal. What date is your appointment with the consultant? Hope you get some answers xxx

Really wanted to say to all three of you moon jools and mls and all the small and nopanters that I'm so sorry that you are still going through this hell and I hope that 2010 is the best year for all of you. Please tell us when you are feeling shit, even if it is every day. I know we get caught up in pregnancy and baby news, but really this thread was set up to get us all through this journey and we should be focussing more on you lovelies. And what moon says is so true, People in RL don't realise the impact of MC. But we all do on here, and will be around as long as you need a friend xxx

baking Angry at your fertility consultant for being so tactless and stupid but at least now you have a plan. Does this mean no clomid till new year, or no TTC? Hope the holiday was lovely and you got a decent break? Where did you go?

iggy such wonderful news I'm so happy for you and promise I will be better at being around for handholding over the next few critical weeks!! We reckon we conceived around our EDD and it means a lot. Like we have one of our angels looking after our little baby this time. I think you are right giving up strenuous exercise for the moment - trust your instincts. I'm keeping everything tightly crossed till Monday week for your scan

blue I didn't realise there was a baby's name section on MN We have pretty much decided on a name which I will keep to myself for the moment but it will mean a lot to everyone on here I think Ooh get me being all mysterious Hope the SPD, heartburn and piles aren't too bad. Have you got anything from the docs for the heartburn. I was finally put on ranitidin which they give to premmies so is fine for pregnant ladies and it does make a big difference Good news too that you are off red alert, it must have been so stressful.

neeko you domestic goddess. You will cope fine with xmas dinner And just over 11 weeks to go before your mat leave. I've got about 6.5 to go now and I can't wait to finish. Sorry to hear about DH's grandpa I think it is so sweet that you write in the shower steam every morning. I've become so superstitious too

lbm is your head out of the sand now? How are you doing?

sabs I loved hearing about the Indian traditions. I can't believe you are a mum now, it doesn't seem like that long since we were both trying to cope with the awfulness of last year. Saara is beautiful Hope you had a good Eid

cupcake I cried buckets over your article on MN. Really beautiful and I think I will pass it on to a friend who has just had a MC. Hope the heartburn is better. Love the name johnny btw What course are you doing?

4ever your nuchal scan results are fantastic, I'm so glad for you and lovely dh especially after your previous experience. 14 weeks next friday (don't worry am touching wood as I write those words ) Take it easy lovely lady, good luck tomorrow and try not to worry about measurements. Mine were very similar at 12 weeks. Keep that bean nice and warm and tucked in. Hope the back is continuing to improve xxx

MM thanks your words mean a lot. It does get a bit too much sometimes but will be so worth it I can't believe you are nearly 35 weeks. We'll be hearing your good news soon. So exciting that you have CS booked and that your lo will be here before new year

barbie loved the 3d scans. What a cute baby. I reckon its a boy Do you have a preference at all?

mrskate wonderful news that you are having a boy. I know some people like a surprise but I find it much easier to bond when you know the sex... and you don't have to refer to him as it all the time Hope you are feeling better and the heartrate has calmed down. Take it easy girl. How is gracie doing these days btw?

VJ hope you got to catch up on more sleep this weekend and that you and AJ are fully better. How is your other lovely DS doing? How does he feel about having a little brother?

lion lovely to get your update on Arlo. He sounds wonderful. Are you getting any sleep during the day?

Big waves also to ginger and scorpio where have you got to?

Not much news from me, puking and spd still a big part of my day but I'm loving feeling this little one kick and remind me what it's all about .

I got the swine flu jab last week and felt awful afterwards, both physically which I didn't mind so much (slept all day instead of going to work!) and emotionally because it really worried me. I did lots of research and listened to a lot of advice from doctors I know and in the end decided that it was the best thing as at least the baby would get some protection when she's newborn and vulnerable. Still not sure I did the right thing though Haven't even had the baby yet and feeling the pressure of a hundred thousand decisions ahead to worry about.

Anyone around tonight. Tis very quiet. Hope the post hasn't scared everyone to a new thread

Big hugs to all of you lovely ladies. I have so missed talking to you but I always lurk to see how your doing

cupcakefairy · 29/11/2009 14:49

Hi barbie glad you found us again

I'm studying hard today...boo..but just wanted to say that Vjay and blue yes I am totally up for Love Actually next week!! Talked about it loads with a friend yesterday and desperately want to watch it now

barbie1 · 29/11/2009 10:29

Hi all

seems the mumsnet elves have been busy messing up my mumsnet and i couldnt get on for a few days i wish they would leave well alone....i couldnt even find you all as i hadnt been able to get on for so long [angry) least by searching weebles i found you all pretty quickly...

What a few days eh?
Im at work so cant post much but wanted to say....

mls i cried tears of frustration after reading you post...life is so bloody unfair everyone has pretty much given you the advice i would of given so im not going to repeat. All i would say is sometimes its very easy to concentrate on all the negatives and miss all the positive things in your life. After my mc i was told by a very dear friend to write down one thing a day that made me smile....you soon realise life is full of things that we are usually to preoccupied to see...small things when grouped together can made a big difference. Please dont look back at the hard time you have been having in a few years time and have regrets that you have missed special moments with your dd or your dh. You will never get the time back, nothing can change what has happened but lets be thankful for small things eh??? Hope that makes sense and doesnt seem patronising Chin up...sending you bundles of love, hugs and bundles of pretty things xxxx

jools your strength amazes me Im so glad you have sought help...keep smiling lovely lady xx

4ever i was thinking about you on friday even though i could post, your mum sounds amazing...hope you are calm and collected today and ticking off another day

Ill be back later as im going to get caught if i post much more.....big hugs xxx

bluesatinsash · 28/11/2009 21:58

MLS - sorry I wasn't on here last night and have been out all day today.. You have had a heartbreaking year and your summary of where you should be this Christmas was just so to read. The cruelest thing about mc is the killing of our future dreams with our lo - what age they would be, what size bump we would have at a given date and I know the only thing that will ease your pain is falling pg again and holding your DC2 in your arms. Neeko made a very wise point, you've done it before and have a beautiful, healthy DD and you can do it again. I do think counselling would be a great support for you, to talk about your three mc (and CP )and also be there to support you through your next pg as you will be terrified. Please keep posting. Look at 4ever as an example, she pours everything on here and it helps her feel she is not alone, through the good days and the bad.

Moon - glad you were able to talk and share things with your sister.

4ever - thanks for lovely txt and glad you and your Mum were at peace yesterday xx

Neeko - glad you got through yesterday OK. Yes its December on Tues. my due month, can't quite believe lo is still in situ after all the scares but onwards and upwards...

I'm off to church tomorrow, not been for a few weeks so will give extra strong prayers for us all especially those who need it most xx

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BlueMoon1981 · 28/11/2009 21:02

evening ladies

mls please hang on in there, i know its tough, and i cant add anything that hasnt already been said, but just know that you aren't a complete nutter and if you are then i'm right there with you as the queen of nutters. some days i feel ok and can look to the future, some days i feel like everything happened yesterday and i'm a big mess on the floor with no way up. have never really chatted to my sister properly about it all before, but i did last week, and she was shocked by how much it still affects me and was crying with me - i think people do forget how much of a trauma it all is, and no matter how strong you are as a person, its enough to completely break you. you just stick with us, we will get there.

hi to everyone else and sorry for the lack of individual posts, just wanted to be there for mls. by the way jools am also proud of you for getting help. if i wasn't such a control freak i'd be tempted to do the same.

VJay · 28/11/2009 19:58

hello, hope you are all enjoying your Saturdays

Big wave to curly that was a lovely post thankyou

mls thought about you a lot last night and today, hope you are ok

jools your post came across as you being very calm , you are stepping in the right direction getting help, just admitting we need help is sometimes the hardest step, so you can only go up from here

cupcakefairy · 28/11/2009 18:34

Ooh and iggy- wanted to say hope you're feeling ok lovely. Are you having any nausea? How many sleeps til scan now?

cupcakefairy · 28/11/2009 18:33

Neeko you are soo organised we've just bought our parents' pressies today but that's it for Christmas so far! Eek. Well done you. And well done on getting through a tough week.

Blue I can't wait to see what flavour you're gonna have a friend has just put up loads of pics on fb of dresses she's received for her dd due in Feb...they are so cute that I'm almost tempted to find out the flavour of ours so we can buy cute gender-specific clothes! But I don't think we will...

MLS just massive massive hug to you So sorry you feel you're crashing down and about cp I really hope and pray this Christmas is a special one for you, and maybe even a sneaky Christmas BFP.. Thanks so much for being so honest.

Weather here is manky but we are off to some friends' for dinner and Strictly, yippee

I'm gonna attempt to put our 12wk scan photo on profile in a mo too...if anyone's interested.

Neeko · 28/11/2009 16:37

Hi
Jools You sound so much better. I know you have a long way to go but it has obviously done you good to seek help. Hope this doen't sound condescending, but I'm really proud of you. It can't have been an easy step to take. What are the side effects of the drugs?
I'm feeling much less tired today and have managed a few tasks to make me feel a bit more in control (til Monday, no doubt!)

4ever well done for yesterday. It won't be long until you move up into big pants and then the weeks days will go faster, I promise.

MLS I've already emailed you but please think about what both 4ever and I have said.

Moon are you ok? I hope you're keeping track of your cycle length in case you want to discuss it with the doc.

Mermaid I haven't "spoken" to you in ages - sorry! How are you doing? Is this weather keeping you indoors much more than you'd like?

Iggy How are you doing? Is the sand nice and comfy?

Cupcake At least the good thing about your late 16 week appt is that after that it should be no time until you're half-way.

Curly really nice to see you on here. Hope you're doing ok. We really miss you.

Blue You've almost made it to December and your next milestone. How are you feeling?

Sorry, know I've missed loads of you, but hope you're all well.

I started wrapping Christmas presents today and very nearly stayed patient whilst DD was "helping" . I'm now having 6 guests for Christmas dinner ! Details of how that came about are hazy - just hope I cope ok.

Joolsiam · 28/11/2009 14:19

Meant to say re chemical pregnancies - I've definitely had one (first conception), then possibly had another just before Xmas last year but unsure whether it was that or left over pg hormones from Nov 11 MC.

I also had a faint line recently - August I think. It is dead common, and does bode well for next month

Hello 4Ever - hope you are feeling less wobbly under your cotton wool duvet today.

Joolsiam · 28/11/2009 14:16

MLS - that feeling of emptiness you talk about is oh so familiar I think you just have to keep telling yourself it will pass (it does but it will come back when you least expect it) Please keep coming on here and talking - we all know that place you are in right now.

Just look after yourself - lots of choc (keep away from the alcohol) and keep an eye on your mood - I'm a fine one to preach as I've only just asked for help, but just speaking to a GP and knowing that I've been referred for counselling is enough.

Barbie and Mermaid - thanks for the Citalopram info. I think I'm happy enough to stick with the tablets (although the side effects are kicking in today) and review if when I conceive again - apparently there is no real danger at all till the third trimester.

Thinking of Buddha and Babybuddha - hope things are going OK

Lovely to hear from Lionstar and MM Hello to Scorpio too - I think we were practically due date buddies at one point ..

Glad the funeral went ok Neeko I hope you are feeling less tired today