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Twenties ttc part 2

292 replies

seanybosmummysfedupwaiting · 29/10/2009 20:41

Hi girls, here's the new thread...may it bring baby dust,bfps and positivity

GOOD LUCK EVERYONE

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jumblequeen · 10/11/2009 11:46

Hi harmony - I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Best of luck for your next cycle!

sparechange - my appointment is at 3:40pm. I'm not holding out much hope because of my BFN this morning but would obviously like some answers as to why AF hasn't arrived! I guess if if i've had implantation bleeding then a test would show positive for another couple of days so I'm going to ask for a blood test. God, this is so stressful!

harmonyb23 · 10/11/2009 11:19

Hello everyone, I don't know if you remember me I was on the thread about a month ago. I had a BFP a short while ago but it turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy and so I have had to have an injection of methotrexate to abort the otherwise healthy pregnancy. I am looking at ttc again asap but the doc says I may need to wait 3 months for the drug to leave my body.

How's everyone else getting on? I can't wait to start trying again...

x x x

sparechange · 10/11/2009 10:54

What time is the appointment?
We can all keep our fingers extra crossed for you...

jumblequeen · 10/11/2009 10:37

!! I've got the day off so in a no less mystic meg fashion, I think I can predict the same. Shame my "powers" don't extend to my current predicament

sparechange · 10/11/2009 10:30

The only silver lining is that my boss has phoned in sick today.
I was panicing a bit about being very late, and not being able to phone and warn anyone.

I can predict a day of mumsnetting ahead

jumblequeen · 10/11/2009 10:28

sparechange - horrible isn't it? Sorry to hear about your tube delay - they're the worst!

sparechange · 10/11/2009 10:23

Fingers crossed for you, Jumblequeen

I'm sharing your grey, freezing london day, with an added sprinkling of being stuck in a tube train for 45 mins after someone was taken ill on the train in front

jumblequeen · 10/11/2009 10:14

Morning,

Thank you for the support... Well, the spotting (what there was of it) was totally gone by this morning. I have had minor cramps on the lower right hand side of my abdomen and my lower back is still sore (as it has been for about he last week). I'm really trying not to make too much of this but at the same time would love to know what this is all about?!

I did a test this morning (BFN)... I've no idea what mIU the test was as Tesco don't list it on their boxes! So I have an appt with the dr this afternoon. Hopefully she'll be able to shed some light on the subject.

How is everyone else? It's a grey day in London and bloody freezing!

x x x x

kairo · 09/11/2009 23:13

if your spotting is light and brown even pinkish but its very light and goes away in a day or so then i guess you could be pregnant.
Like bathroomsink said monitor your spotting, note if you get severe cramps, then try and make an app with gp.

update us
x

bathroomsink · 09/11/2009 21:37

Its possible, is there any cramping at all?
Monitor it over the 24 hours and see if there are any changes.

Might be worth making a Drs appointment if they do emergency "on the day" appointments for extra clarification.

I could post a few links but don't want to add to the confusion!

Stay positive and try not to stress too much - easier said than done I know!xx

jumblequeen · 09/11/2009 21:31

Okay ladies, if you are of a sensitive disposition, look away now...

I was certain that AF had come but now now so sure. Yesterday and today I've had very pale brown spotting (TMI, i know...) but absolutely no blood. Is there any way this could be implantation bleeding at 14 DPO?? I haven't the first idea - maybe one of you can shed some light here. Rifling through the internet has been more confusing than anything else!

kairo · 09/11/2009 19:42

AGE:27
TTC #1 CYCLE 11 UCL 28-36 CYCLE DAY 25
1 ABORTION JUNE 2007 GESTATION 4WEEKS DUE TO LIVING IN SUCH BAD CONDITIONS, HAD BEEN BULLIED(SO PLEASE DONT JUDGE ME UTS A VERY SENSITIVE ISSUE)
APRIL THIS YR CHEMICAL PREGNANCY

jumblequeen sorry to hear nasty AF found its way
seanybosmummysfedupwaitin hmm i wonder why you felt that pain, wiered, is it pokin pain?

Hi Lay82 this is a difficult one, you want to enjoy yourself but you want to be cautious, please dont take my advise but i just wanted to say that one of my hubbys collegue has one daughter and she drank wine sensibly before 9 wks, everything turned out fine, shes a pharmacologist. She is pregnanat with her second child and she found out at 8 wks, was scared and told her gp she drank alchohol if that was ok, GP told her if it wasnt too much and was once in a while, sensibly, before 8 wks, shouldnt cause her too much problems, she is now due in 2 wks and had scans confirming healthy baby.
Ithink decision is yours but get medical advise just in case then you can jugde better.

bathroomsink hello
sparechange hi, i know i keep telling myself not too get too excite as it leads to dissapointment, but us women cant help ourselves , lol, we go crazy reading articles, but its just cuz we want a babyyyy

sparechange · 09/11/2009 15:23

Hello ladies
Did you all have lovely weekends?
I'm symptom spotting again!
Achey boobs and really sore nips (which are permenantly errect -TMI!!)

And I only had EWCM for 1 day this month (instead of 3-4 days usually) so I've convinced myself I got pg on the very first day
AF should be due this saturday, so I've already bought some tests in anticipation for next week

Why oh why will I never learn not to get my hopes up like this

bathroomsink · 09/11/2009 14:18

Hello!

Sorry to hear ol' Aunt Flo doing her pre-Christmas rounds. Once she's gone, lock the doors so she doesn't come back!! (wellat least for a lil while!)
I went back to my GP today, blood tests result are back and I'm well but they have only now decided to do a hCG so will know on Friday. Symptoms still persisting and told to stay of Nurofen just in case...Friday seems so far away...
lay82 - I'd say stay off just incase or just a small one if the temptation is too much!x

lay82 · 09/11/2009 09:26

morning ladies I have a question ...

AF arrived this morning. I have quite a short cycle of 25 days so looking at the OV calculator we are goo to start TTC again early part of next week.

I go on a hen weekend on the Friday of that week. Would you just drink as normal that weekend or stay off the booze just in case?

xx

seanybosmummysfedupwaiting · 09/11/2009 09:07

Ugh jumble af is such a bitch! grrrrr Good luck for next month x

kaylo i meant to mention your dream last night but i was so tired i forgot-have you tried googling it to see what it means? I google my dreams all the time-should really get around to buying one of them dream interpretation books sometime.

kairo sorry i cant offer much advice re the temps-i've never tried temping so i've no idea what way it works. How are you feeling today?

I phoned into work sick today-hardly slept at all last night,and had horrible cramps in my stomach in the early hours-not af type cramps,cant really describe what they were like other than to say they were very sore,started really low in my belly and went right up to my ribs.

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jumblequeen · 09/11/2009 08:51

Stats for today. Kairo please do add yourself (if you want! )

Seanybosmummy TTC#2 Cycle 18 UCL 29-31 CD26
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD24
Kaylo TTC#3 Cycle 2(after mc) UCL 29 CD17
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD15
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD3
Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL26 CD2

jumblequeen · 09/11/2009 08:36

Morning ladies,

Well, AF got me yesterday
Feeling a bit sorry for myself today... I know I've only been at this madness for two months but I can't help it. I suppose I just thought getting pregnant would be easy - especially given the fact that time is on my side in terms of age. But ooooooh no. I can't help feeling that my teachers were fibbing just a little but in my PSME lessons...!

Ant so sorry to hear that bitch AF got you too. Let's hope that the next cycle is a lucky one for us. Although this now raises the prospect of having a baby on my birthday...

kairo welcome!

seanybosmummy - sorry to hear you're feeling rotten. I don't think the impending winter is doing much to lift anyone's spirits.

kairo · 09/11/2009 01:39

oh sorry, ur af is due friday, fingers crossed is good news and hope af can go on a long holiday

kairo · 09/11/2009 01:37

hi seanybosmummysfedupwaitin i feel the same way to hun. My bbs are sore,painful and heavy, keep having to tell hubby off, he loves them looking big, but am screaming 'arghhh it hurts dont touch' lol
i am getting odd feeling on the right ovary, but i probably gone mad, imagining things.

Are you about to start you period?

my AF is due in the next 7 days (ucl is 31 days)

my bbt was up 36.9 celsius yesterday, today its 36.4cel..Iam 7 dpo and this is a dip in temp, which might mean i prob not preg. Did Hpt BFN, am hoping it goes back up.

seanybosmummysfedupwaiting · 08/11/2009 22:29

Hey everyone

ant so sorry to hear the witch got u-next month will be your month,im sure of it!

Welcome to all the new girls and good luck! Everyones lovely on here, if slightly maddened by all this ttc lark

ive been feeling pretty shitty today,all fluey and achey and tired. Have had a sore back the past two days and a weird crampy full feeling low in my stomach-i guess im just coming down with something. My boobs have been feeling heavy the past few days too but i dont know if its all just in my head

Anyway will just have to wait til friday to see if af turns up.

Did everyone have a nice weekend?

kaylo hows you hun?

kairo when is af due for you?

whitty hows the wedding plans coming along?

jumble how are you sticking the wait?

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kairo · 08/11/2009 01:03

oh yes, i have forgotten to mention that i have the premenstrual cramp feeling as soon as i wake up in the morning but it lessens throughout the day

kairo · 08/11/2009 01:01

hi everyone, I am new to mumsnet.
I am 27 ttc since jan09 still no success, feel really crap, I feel like am all broken and my body dont work. This month I had 2 peak on clearblue fertility monitor and one high, i bd on both my peak and days leading up to the peak days but hubby was too tiered to bd on my high day. So i am thinking if ive messed up. I am 5-6 dpo and still no symptoms apart from very painful boobs, and slight pokes on my right ovary. The poking might be in my head just imagining the feelings. I am due to start my menses in the next 8-9 days, i have a 31 day cycle

Antdamm · 07/11/2009 21:28

Seanybosmummy TTC#2 Cycle 18 UCL 29-31 CD24
Jumblequeen TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL26 CD23
Sparechange TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL31ish CD22
Kaylo TTC#3 Cycle 2(after mc) UCL 29 CD15
Katiecubs TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL31ish CD13
Antdamm TTC#2 Cycle 12 UCL32ish CD1

Have updated

Antdamm · 07/11/2009 21:25

Hello Ladies

Unfortunatley AF got me late last night.

Well, at least i didn't waste a test

DP took me and DS to Derry to try and cheer me up.

Hope everyone else is doing better than me.