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Trying To Conceive after a Miscarriage - We CAN Do It !!!!

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Diddle · 15/06/2005 07:59

Thought as there was 955 messages on our old thread that we should have a new one again, its very annoying scrolling down to the bottom.

{grin}

Welcome to our new thread girls.

Should we put our stats again???
saves us thread hopping, and we have had newbies.
I will try and copy some from the old thread.

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Mamatoto · 01/07/2005 17:04

thanks Maddy and good luck for you !

Tabs - I am on the feb 2006 thread ( used to be mama5) and just too scared to report in much!

Xena · 01/07/2005 16:43

Oh tabs I'm glad your scan went well you should be resting abit easier

Tabs · 01/07/2005 15:21

Mamatoto that's great news! Why don't you come over and join us on the due in Feb thread. There are several of us who've had m/cs before over there too, so we can all worry together!

2Girls - please don't worry about having had a D&C - there are so many other things to worry about already! They do say that sometimes a D&C can help as it 'clears the way'! I had a D&C in October last year, but it doesn't seem to have caused any probs with this beanie sticking. I'm 9 weeks today and saw it's little heart beating on a scan on Monday .

Maddy - sorry about BFN, but don't give up hope!

Hi to everyone else. Glad you had a great holiday Diddle.

maddyd · 01/07/2005 13:53

Bloody still a bfn 11dpo. Im off out this afternoon to see a chinese herbalist and see what they can give me. Ive got my grren tea. I like the chinese and trust them explicitly.

Good news Mamatoo, fngers croosed. keep your feet up and tell your other half to step in your shoes for a while, of course your feeling negative. Rest and eat cakes xxxxxxx

Back soon, love to all xxxx

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Diddle · 01/07/2005 13:26

Xena - had an email back from Oftsed, they've accepted my request which is great, i'm really thrilled. they're just waiting for paperwork to come through. yay

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Diddle · 01/07/2005 13:09

LOTTIELOU -WHERE ARE YOU??????

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Diddle · 01/07/2005 13:08

Xena - Have just checked my emails and the last message i had from Ofsted about my request was over a month ago, they're useless sometimes. I have emailed again.

Looks like rain here in the midlands, big cloud over our house, the lounge has gone dark. missing the spanish sun.

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Diddle · 01/07/2005 13:05

xena - no still haven't heard about my overlap of hours, which is very annoying as it has been weeks now.

2Girls - so sorry that you have been through the same as us, horrible isn't it, and its so hard to stay positive, but we're a great group here, very supportive and always willing to listen to each other ranting and raving.

Mamatoto - thats great news, you make sure you try and take it easy, even if its just a little easier than normal. Really pleased for you. Its easy for DH to wish you were more positive, he hasnt got it growing isnide him, and hasn't got the bond and emotions that you already have. Just ignore him, i'm sure he doesn't mean to upset you.

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Xena · 01/07/2005 12:54

They always say that the rate of m/c goes down to 1/20 once they have seen the heartbeat

Mamatoto · 01/07/2005 12:52

They put me 8+4 which is fun cos I thought i was 8 ish so its nice to have a big one!

Xena · 01/07/2005 12:48

Hello 2girls
Mamatoto that sounds good how many weeks are you now?

Mamatoto · 01/07/2005 12:45

Got back from EPU - baby still clinging on! Can see the bleeed though- a little patch near the sac . they said all looked positive and said go away and get on with life. I am kind of feeling better but half of me finds it harder ( last m/c was blighted ovum so I could not really bond this time it feels more real and I am soo scared)Just want to go to bed for a few weeks but with 4 children...... DP says he wishes I would be more positive!

2GIRLS · 01/07/2005 12:33

Hi everyone, am ttc number 3. had m/c about year and half ago and this is first time ttc since then. Am bit worried:will it happen again ect. But also, I had D&C and am worried that it somehow makes it harder to 'take' IYKWIM. Know it's probably fine but still worried!!

Xena · 01/07/2005 12:23

Hi all, Thanks HK its nice to be missed, I still lurk daily but I think you'd all be bored with me saying I don't know what to do!!
Diddle did you ever get permission for a slight overlap in minding? I'm thinking about it for sept half an hour once a week and DD3 would be at nursery so I would only actually have 3

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Diddle · 01/07/2005 12:04

Hellkat - you're always cleaning, you're cats must leave fluff everywhere. I'm ok thanks.
Just been trying to book my smear test, bloody doctors are useless, they're not open weekends, and i work 7.30 till 6.30 everyday, and their last appointment is 6.00. I don;t want to have anymore time off, its so annoying.
I really don't want to have to take any kids with me, i know i would it it was my own, but its not right to take someone elses. plus you can't take pushchairs in so the little one would be abe to see what they're upto. Gross, sorry.

The've just pissed me off. surely they should have one late night.

ooooohhhh thats better

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HellKat · 01/07/2005 11:17

Im good ta Diddle and you?
Just getting ready to clean (again) lol

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Diddle · 01/07/2005 09:29

morning all,

good luck mamatoto - hope all goes well today, please let us know what happens.

Hi HK - How you doing?

hope you're all ok.

diddle
x

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HellKat · 01/07/2005 08:44

Morning all.
Poor Twinkle!! Bloody shites! God I swear I'd have killed (angry little soul for a hippy ).
How's everyone?
Lottie- great to see you back!
Cori- So sorry hun. Fingers crossed for next time!
Maddy- If it's bfn then gung ho all the way next month girl .
Mama- to hear your news. i really hope the scan today brings good news. Keeping fingers crossed for you hun x
Xena- fantastic to see you again! Was wondering if you were ok as had'nt seen you for a few days!

LunarSea · 01/07/2005 08:36

Keeping everything crossed for you Mamatoto. Here's hoping it's good news.

Mamatoto · 01/07/2005 08:25

After a crap night I am off to EPU wish me well!

LunarSea · 30/06/2005 22:54

maddyd & mamatoto - If you 2 are too old thaen I've got not chance as I'm (whicper it) a couple of years older thatn you

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Diddle · 30/06/2005 20:27

night xena
night maddyd - its our pleasure, glad to be a support to you, and you're just as much of a support.

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Xena · 30/06/2005 20:24

Night guys xx

maddyd · 30/06/2005 20:06

Right im off to have a cuddle with Dp. Night Night all and take care and thanks nce agian for all your support. I swear id go potty if it wasnt for all of you. xxxxx

maddyd · 30/06/2005 20:04

There are many women our age with perfectly healty children. The risk is greater once you hit 40. I dont think i could cope with a child with sn and i have great respect for those who do. But it is a bridge ill cross if i should ever come to it.