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Trying To Conceive after a Miscarriage - We CAN Do It !!!!

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Diddle · 15/06/2005 07:59

Thought as there was 955 messages on our old thread that we should have a new one again, its very annoying scrolling down to the bottom.

{grin}

Welcome to our new thread girls.

Should we put our stats again???
saves us thread hopping, and we have had newbies.
I will try and copy some from the old thread.

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Mamatoto · 03/07/2005 17:50

Diddle - thanks for asking....yes bleeding has subsided thanks but i still expect it again. They saw where it was from but said it was outside pg sac so not to worry - I am trying not to!

munz · 03/07/2005 17:48

hc - thanks hon - I think we'll be having words b4 this beanie's born! lol - how do u cope? we live 250 miles apart as well.

just wanted u girsl to know it can and does happen after a m/c so please don't give up hope girls.

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) to all, i'll keep looking in to see how maddyd's getting on, but will stick to the other thread for now so as not to disturb u guys. fingers crossed all is well for her.

Xena · 03/07/2005 17:41

I'm good HK how are you? Diddle I still have mixed feelings and I don't know what to do I haven't gone back on the pill this month and this thurs is the day but I'm not sure its a good idea.

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 16:54

mamatoto - Hows things going is your little beanie hanging in still, has the bleeding subsided yet???

2girls - how are you feeling? everything alright.

very quiet on here today.

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 16:42

humphreys, i'm a childminder, no degrees needed for my job. Couldn't cope with 30 kids running round my feet, i have enough with 6.

what do you do?

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HumphreysCorner · 03/07/2005 16:26

Forgot to welcome 2GIRLS to our thread. Warmest wishes and a big welcome to you hun {{{{{{xxx}}}}}}

x

HumphreysCorner · 03/07/2005 16:13

Well Diddle, it's just that when I read Friday's bits I saw that HellKat has lots of degrees, Maddyd was in management and you are talking about Ofsted so take it that you are a teacher. I feel honoured to be amongst you all .

Think I've had too much sun-turned fairly cloudy so didn't bother with the lotion today=oops .

Where oh where is my AF????????????????????? Please can you all have a look for it-thank you kindly

Maddyd-any news hun? {{x}}

Hugs to all, bye for now.
x

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 13:27

hi humphreys, enjoy the sun while it lasts.
Not a brainbox here, why do you feel less brainy???

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HumphreysCorner · 03/07/2005 10:42

Good morning ladies from sunny Lincolnshire

Maddyd-what is going on hun? Test again as you can't get false positives so you have to be PG {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{x}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Soz I didn't get on yesterday but DH and I had a busy day and then got in at 6pm and watched Live8 until 12-15am. Can't believe so much happens on here in such a short time.

Have to say you all seem to be brainboxes-me, I only have 7 o'levels

Munz-being as though I've seen you on this thread (I follow your thread as well) mega congratulations P.S. I am with you on the MIL bit as my DD is 2 this month and I still feel I am looking after my MIL's daughter. {{x}}

Well girlies, I'm off to cut the grass so I will catch up with you all later.

Lots of love and hugs to all
x

HellKat · 03/07/2005 09:47

Yep all done! Now i can recover from my cold in a clean place

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 09:42

thanks munz glad all is going well for you.

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 09:41

hi Hellkat, i'm fine thank you, how about you, did you get all your cleaning done

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HellKat · 03/07/2005 09:24
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munz · 03/07/2005 09:20

we're doing OK, i'm suprisingly reassured by feeling sick and stress out when I don't feel sick! anyhow i'm noticing not much baby dust .... so u can have some of mine

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HellKat · 03/07/2005 09:14

No probs munz. Good to see you. Thankyou!!!! Hope you and beanie are well.

munz · 03/07/2005 09:12

(sorry bout the gate crash then girls.) hope everyone's lucky for this cycle.

munz · 03/07/2005 09:11

mad - ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))) for u honny, don't stress to much - I know it's easy for me to say but try not to and test again tomorrow (if u can hold out that long) also what time of day did u test? was it the same test as b4? lot's of reasons, I knew a lady once to have neg tests for a week after her pos and she's not about 24 weeks. so there could be lots of reasons. hang in there. when were u due on? also fwiw, I think the fact you didn't take the herbs yesterday would give u more accurate results, perhaps it's safer not to take anything apart form folic acid until you know for sure. as the other girls have said a false BFP is v rare.

HellKat · 03/07/2005 09:10

Morning Xena and Diddle!
How are you two?

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 09:09

morning xena - hows the thinking going? are you deciding what to do yet??

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Diddle · 03/07/2005 09:08

maddyd - its so hard to read the blue in line tests, i often wonder fi i've let it long enough, or if i'm seeing things, maybe you could get a digital test where it says the words, that way you won't have to fiddle with lines, wait until you haven't urinated for 4 hours then try again, or try tomorrow.
HK is right, very rare to get a positive when you're not pg, there must be something there.

big hugs x x x x

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Xena · 03/07/2005 09:06

MaddyD I agree with hellkat your unlikly to get a BFP if your not pg.

HellKat · 03/07/2005 08:53

Aww babe. Did'nt mean to make you . Just trying to state facts. It's so rare to get a bfp when you're not actually pg. However it is pretty common to get a bfn when you are.
Sore boobs are my very first symptom too.

maddyd · 03/07/2005 08:36

youve made me cry now. Im so scared of getting my hopes up. Fk Fk Fk i know your right. I do have symptoms too going to the loo alot, sore boobs and butterflies but im just keep putting it down to other stuff like the amount of water i drink. nerves for the butterflies and the kids jump on my boobs.

HellKat · 03/07/2005 08:27

Maddy- chill hun. It's common to get a neg result but not to get a positive. Been reading up on this and it says that even if you get alot of negs and only one pos, go with the pos. Just make an appt tomorrow with your gp. Look at it this way, there has to be hcg in your urine otherwise you'd never had had a pos in the first place {{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}

maddyd · 03/07/2005 08:10

{sad] I got Negative reults this morning. Now im really unsure. Yesterdays was quite clear and no mistaking. I think i can see a faint line but also could be imagining it as i want it so much.

I cant help thinking that maybe the chinese herbs may have affected yesterdays result as its quite a coincidence that i didnt take them yesterday and now its neg iyswim/

As you can imagine im so emotionally up and down that im goona take a break till i get another clear result or my af. I cant stand this rollercoaster of emotions.

Thankgod i didnt get Dp's hopes up too

Hope to be back with you sson with some good news. Take care everyone. xxxx