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Trying to find Gillydaffodil - anyone know how she is doing?

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chocolatedays · 18/09/2009 12:08

... maybe she has changed her name?

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KC11 · 07/07/2010 12:24

Gillydaffodil how are you these days? Has anything good been happening in your world?

Saladdays · 22/01/2010 07:07

Hi Gilly - If you are lurking, just wanted to say hi and thinking of you. Know you were thinking of doing FET early 2010 so thoughts and prayers are with you. (This is Choc on a diet! 11lbs lost so far!)

Choc x

Wheelybug · 03/11/2009 18:27

Good to hear from you Gilly.

Thanks for the offer of work experience - will have a think .

I really wish you a better 2010. I'd go for January if I were you. These things never work when its the 'right time' (as you are v. aware) and at least if you're busy it would take your mind off the worry of being pregnant. But obviously, you'll know what's right for you.

Pop in if/when you can/feel like it. I Will keep thinking of you. Stay strong !

nomoremagnolia · 02/11/2009 20:31
gillydaffodil · 02/11/2009 19:39

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kensgirl · 23/10/2009 22:10

stay strong, Gilly, sending you love xx

Ready · 23/10/2009 12:45

xxx

RahRah1 · 21/10/2009 08:03

Me 2!! Been thinking of u loads. Take care of yourself and sending lots of love xxxx

Ready · 20/10/2009 19:51

Just to let you know, in case you are lurking... thinking of you every day. Big hugs. Shout if you need me. You know where I am.

KC11 · 19/10/2009 17:27

Gilly. I'm truly sorry. I really thought you were there. I have tears in my eyes at the thought of your last couple of weeks. I hope you're ok. This will make you smile but i'm jealous that you've even seen a BFP on the stick. I can't get that far. I know that sounds a mean vicious thing to say/think but I really just want to see a +ve result with my own eyes (even it is for a friend or relative).

I'm so incredibly sad for you and DH.

Wheelybug · 16/10/2009 13:47

Well said ChocolateDays - we're still here for you (but understand not wanting to post).

Thinking of you.

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chocolatedays · 16/10/2009 09:11

Hi Gilly
I'm sure you've stepped away from MN for the time being - tho you may be lurking. I (and I'm sure the others) are here for you if and when you want us. I'll keep an eye out for you but also come and find me if you find it helpful to have me/us around. If it increases the stress then no-one will mind if you keep schtum.

Take care of yourself - or cut loose for a while - whatever you need.

much love
Cx

(do not feel you have to respond to this btw)

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toomuchtimeonline · 15/10/2009 22:49

Oh Gilly, I've just read this - I am so sorry - life is so unfair! Huge hugs xx

PiggyPenguin · 13/10/2009 21:08

So sorry to hear this Gilly. Hope you are ok, thinking of you.

Ready · 13/10/2009 20:37

Oh Gilly, flower I am at a loss for what to say. I am thinking of you, and just know that you will get there, I wish I could tell you when. But you will. Hang in there. Please look after yourself and take it easy. Big hugs xxx

BellaBear · 13/10/2009 14:46

I'm so sorry Gilly
xxx

AppleAndBlackberry · 13/10/2009 10:22

Thinking of you Gilly xxx

seaside72 · 12/10/2009 22:51

gilly - I am so sorry (and sorry for googling obsessively to give you false hope) this is just so not fair.I know there are no words that can make it any better/easier. TTC in all it's forms seems more and more to me like some elaborate crystal maze task - if all the slots/stepping stones/gates/whatever line up then you get through but it seems almost impossible - we just need to find you the right combination to get you that crystal.
I will always be looking out for you and that good result. And you too nomore - I had to wait a while for Ready and Rah but they came through in the end pretty close together so I have high hopes for another double eviction from the TTC threads for you two too.
Sending you a big and some virtual wine and chocolate.
xxx

kensgirl · 12/10/2009 22:31

Oh, Gilly I am so sorry, I don't know what to say, but please know that i am thinking of you. wishing you all the luck in the world for FET. Keep going with the positivity, it can only help.

(quick wave and hello to Ready, Wheely, Nomore too, must try to catch up with you soon x)

RahRah1 · 12/10/2009 21:15

Hi gilly, so very sorry (((hugs))) life sucks! But u seem to have a very positive outlook. I hope Fet happens really quickly 4 u. Just a thought but it might be worth discussing aspirin and steriod use. A lot of nhs clinics do not advocate steriods as it's not been clinically proven but they r widely used in the USA and private. They stuck me on all of it and it worked. It may not of been the drugs but it must of helped. I think the steriods r helpful for killer cells etc and aspirin for implantation and establishing the placenta...

All here 4 u and 4 normore... (hi nomore hope u r well)

Sending lots of love and that big glass of red u wanted and some chocolates too! Xxxx

nomoremagnolia · 12/10/2009 21:13

So for you. Don't know what else to say, it seems so unfair
Take things easy and look after yourself x

hobnobs · 12/10/2009 20:16

So very sorry Life is so very unfair at times like this.

Hope you don't have to wait too long for the review appointment and that the weeks fly by until you can do the FET. I'm sure that (if it's helpful), we'll all be here rooting for you.

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chocolatedays · 12/10/2009 20:03

So sorry Gilly - I'm sure you will feel exhausted after all this uncertainty. You are still in our thoughts.

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Wheelybug · 12/10/2009 19:36

So sorry Gilly. I hope we weren't keeping your hopes too high - you have seemed very level headed and stoic about it all although am sure you are feeling a whole range of emotions. I hope you have someone/somewhere to let these out.

Please take care of yourself as best you can. I hope your review appointment comes round quickly and you can book FET.

In the meantime, I will still be thinking about you, and hope to see you on here when/if you feel able, and wish you lots more strength for the coming months.

Good luck !

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