MLS I am thinking about you my love... Sending positive sticky thoughts to you for today. Im sure you are in turmoil. Im praying that this will end as a happy day for you... Sending a hug an hour for you xxx
LovelyNeeko naughty lady not mentioning your scan! Go with whatever works as your coping mechanism tho hon, we all understand that... Will be holding your hand & also sending sticky positive thoughts to you too.. Beautiful analagy re santa.. Your poor bf & her friend.. V similar situation to mine, your bf had close edd as well? Glad you have a close enough relationship for it not to have driven a wedge between you like your bf's other mate... Feel for both of them..
I saw my bf yest but elephant was still in the room, felt wrong to do anything but gush over her new dd even tho it was quite hard being shown all the clothes/gifts ect. I dont want her to feel bad, or take away her special time by moaning about me, I saw the look in her eye when I held her 3wkdd & it said 'this should be you too, its not fair'. I know she sympathises but just doesnt totally understand, & am now accepting that she prob never will, & maybe one day Ill get to explain... Am getting past my resentment at lack of support from mates & applying the serenity prayer...! Has been hard cos 5 closest friends (4 were bridesmaids) 3 have now all been pregnant at same time as me, with 2 wks between our edds. 2 were preg same time as my 1st preg, & now bf pg same as my last one. 2 of the 3 were 2nd kids. Am the only 'childless' one. Longtime bf with 'issues' has nearly 3yr old & 15yr old & is absorbed with her anger/poss bi polar/craziness. So support aint readily flowing... But, we are all big girls now & thats why Im grateful for my lovely DH who is my true bf, I certainly couldnt live with any of my girls! Not truely resolved, but accepted & bitterness lost, so thats a start....
Morning Mermaidmylovely hows the weebling today? You're so stoic, selfless & strong, I really admire you & hope you know that & give yourself enough credit for your coping mechanism & ability to help others when you're hurting... Just wanted to make sure you knew that xxx
Cupcake I echo all emmsy weebles - take the aspirin. Iv heard of midwives saying ' oh is this another miracle aspirin baby'? Most of the causes of mc use aspirin as a 'cure' so it can only help. My consultant put me on it even tho no cause found at NHS. Hope you're doing ok and not too wobbly? xxx
Barbie glad the migraines gone & looking forward to hearing of your latest funny tale to tell today, whilst we sit here refreshing, waiting, hoping & praying! Love ya crazy lady! xxx
Blue thats inspring to hear about your friend.. Hoping know we both felt despondent lately, but maybe we gotta go through all this crap to come out stronger the other side like Blues friend, its not punishment its a test of strength eh?
Curly Im sure I speak for all emmsys weebles when I say we are missing you! Hope all is well in Curlyworld? How many wks now honey? Still chucking?
Mrskate glad to hear our Graciegirl is ok - I had been wondering! Pass on my love please! xx
Ahh Sabs please never feel you cant post honey, we're all on this journey together, bet that 3hrs waiting for the scan was hellish, & to find out babbys nearly a 9lb'er Poor you!!! LO will be woth all the pain tho, you sound very organised hon! xx
Right to work, Neeko at 11.30am, MLS at 2.30pm - all link hands & pray hard xxxxxxx