Emmsy's in weeble land....Where weeble's wobble but don't fall down!

Just devastated for you mls

Mother nature is so cruel sometimes

Isaw a beautiful rainbow today and the last time I saw one in Nov I was miscarrying. I took it then as a sign from my lost lo that he or she is safe and ok up with the angels and this time that he or she is watching over all the other Emmsys Angels that have arrived since x x x

MLS-have already sent you a message to yr inbox on FB, but would just like to say am absolutely gutted for you, stay strong sweetheart and hold DH and DD tight.

Sorry i have posted to others especially others going through tough times but your all in my thoughts.
Im off work ill with an ear infection which has floored me completely, had no sleep for nearly 3 nights now, waiting for antibiotics to kick in.

So happy your scan went well today Neeko

Welcome to Kim

MLS You're in my thoughts. Not going to say I hope you're ok because I know you're not. I'm here whenever you need me.

Thanks for all your thoughts and concern today, it really means a lot.
Kate wishing you tons of luck for tomorrow although I'm sure all the illness means the hormones are strong.

Welcome to Kimdeal too. We're generally a little more upbeat on here so please stay. What's your story.

Big waves to all the rest of you lovely lovely ladies. I'm not up for individual posts but I am thinking of you all.

P.S. 4ever I think you made some progress with your friend the other day and everytime you see her it'll get better.

School closed today until Tuesday so hope to put my feet up at sometime this weekend.

mls so sorry for you, I am lost for words here, thinking of you.

Quick post could not go to work withoput checking in

MLS - I am so so sorry my thoughts go out to your and your dh its so unfair this has happened to you again no words can make it feel better but as al;l the others are I am here for you xxx

Iggy- dont let ttc make your decision for you think what you would do if not ttc then if you get a bfp things will work out

I met a lady today who had 3 children, no problems, then went on to have 7 miscarriages before her fourth child was born. Very brave lady indeed but also gives hope too

mls I am so so sorry

mermaid I am filing my nails too... I find it quite helpful when am thinking.. oddly! I quite like my job - but it is very undemanding (hence time to obsess on mn) and my boss is a nightmare... I kind of need a challenge.

oh mls i am so upset for you hun im in tears writing this .my heart goes out to you love ya lots xxxxxx

well done neeko

my scan is 2.45 tomorrow mermaid

MLS Couldn't post in the same one as before, just didn't feel right, I am so so sorry to hear that things haven't worked out. Take care of yourself, let DH look after you and come and have a cry with us whenever you are ready I am so upset for you

Neeko Fantastic news from you, so pleased all went well

sitting in the wierd world of self employment filing my nails and a chicken casserole in the oven I'm ok.

Do you hate your job? Or are you just going for the adrenaline rush of new things and giving yourself a shake up?

mermaid I'm still not sure I'd take it if I wasn't ttc... but I might just to get out of current job - which is never a good career move... ho hum.. Anyway how are you today?

mls so thinking of you all.x

iggy so hard - throw yer knickers in the air like you just don't care.
Live life to the full, get that new job tackle your list and if you do accidentally get up the duff you will be stronger and happier and will deal with it all.
4ever is right though, what would you do if you were not ttcing?

kim hello

neeko thanks for that lovely lady, hope you are ok? You must be feeling a little shatteredxx

kimdeal that is a good idea

4ever you are right... I never wanted to plan my life around ttc - but I feel it happening.... Am just wondering if this job really is the right one - anyway is not as if I even have been offered it!

barbieroselee could your crystal ball tell me when am going to get PG again please thank you

This is just beyond . MLS, I am devastated for you

Hello Kimdeal sorry you are joining us on a sad day, but stick around hon cos this is a rollercoaster of emotions & weebles bounce back...

mls so so sorry to read this

MLS If you happen to lurk, just want you to know I am so so so so sorry this has happened again. Its not fair, my heart is with you & I feel so so sad for you. Do whatever it takes to get through the next minutes & hours but know you are supported & loved very much by us all & we are all here when you need us xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Im so sorry xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi all.
Not good news for MLS I'm afraid. sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings. i don't have any more details than that.

Hi there, Hope you don't mind me coming in here. I reckon Iggypiggy sd negotiate for a MUUUUCH bigger payrise, and an extra two day holidays. If they do this, THEN, and only then should you reconsider whether to take the job. Otherwise, why move if you're hoping to be off soon, taking mat leave and etc...

Good luck.

Hey Iggs dilemmas dilemmas... Know what you mean as have taken whatever I can grab onto at work for exact same reason re mat leave in new company etc, also dont wanna leave. However we cant put our lives on hold for the sake of ttc cos that equates 10x more pressure - not healthy. If ttc was not a factor what would you want to do? I think that whatever life throws us we find a way of dealing with it. For random example; my bf had never been on hol with her dp & son til last year cos worried about affording it. As I said to her, you FIND the money for these things, as with (even better) example; when you have a baby! Only you can decide hon.. Go with your gut!

C'mon MLS!!! Im hoping she will get in touch with Neeko & she will let us know. Please let her be bouncing down a corridor as we speak?!? I gotta leave at 4pm, if no news by then please can someone text me?
xxxx