TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

You're welcome Space. Unbelievable how common depression is.
Glad you're feeling chirpier Maddy.

Same goes for me, anyone who ever wants a chat, feel free to mail me.

Im going to a health spa on fri and having a full holistic body treatment with Hot stones etc, see if i can align my inner body. Dont normally believe in all that trollop but anythings worth a go

Tenterhooks Hk never been on those.

thanks for asking hellkat, not to bad, train and tube on sat though has mucked my balance up again though, groan, got the moving floor feeling, not nice...never mind.
maddyd i suffer from depression too, if you ever want to CAT me feel free, i have suffered very badly with it especially with my balance prob and recent m/c, i will be getting cbt aspart of my balance rehab which i def need, dont suffer in silence.

Hope it's great news!

Lottie- Best of luck!!! We're on tenterhooks (sp) here!

I'm great thankyou!
ohhh bet you're excited about the hols!!
Morning Space! How are you?

lottielou, did you test????

Morning Diddle hun.
How's you?

Ok, got Damian's piccy up on member profiles!

Your very welcome.
That'll be good reducing your hours. There's nothing like being around little one's (as long as they're in a good mood ) for boosting your spirits.
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I got really bad a little while ago. Just wanted to stay in bed (the only place I could be alone where no one would bother me). Did'nt want to talk to anyone, see anyone etc. Then went through the "I don't give a toss about anything" phase. It's a horrid condition! Plus you never totally get rid of it either.

Thanks HellKat. I think my determination not to let it will help. Plus it is summer so thats something to be happy about. Im going to reduce my hours at work over the Summer months too so i can spend quality time with the kids as feeling guilty doesnt help how i feel.

Aww hun sorry to hear that. It sounds as though it's rearing it's ugly head. I get like that but been lucky for it not to develop.
If you want a chat anytime you can have my email addy.

Im not sure, i think so. Ive started cutting myself off and not wanting to go out. Everything is an effort even talking. I dont want to be like this though

Do you feel your depression coming back?

Have you tried not sleeping as much? I'm great as long as I get 5 hrs solid sleep. Sometimes you can have 9/10 hrs but it wont be good sleep. Not only that, sometimes you can sleep too much. if I've slept for 5 or more hrs a night, I make myself stay up and active. Then I'll normally get a good night's sleep.

Im just tired all the time, i sleep really heavily, if the kids cry Rich gets up. Any tips for getting over it without a visit to the docs, i dont want to get bad again, i should be on top of the worls apart from the mc.

Ill make sure i get an afternoon of sunshine

P.s already had my happy sunshine fix! Gorgeous here so far!

lol Maddy!
I feel for you on the sleep front. I go to bed between 10.30 and 11pm (sometimes earlier) but keep waking between 3.30 and 4am every morning. I try to get back to sleep but once I'm awake that's it, I have to get up. with the result by lunchtime I'm wrecked and have to have a nap for at least 2 hrs. I've tried going to bed earlier/later etc. No difference. Sometimes I feel ok and will stay up but then feel shattered by 8pm. Annoying is'nt it?
I know it's not my depression returning (major sign of sleepyness) so am at a loss!

I went to bed at 7 o'clock last night and im still tired. God i need to snap out of this.

What we need is a joke to start the day mind you i doubt i can beat the shower one, so funny and so true.

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1. You can GET chocolate.

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3. Chocolate satisfies even when it has gone soft.

4. You can safely have chocolate while you're driving.

5. You can make chocolate last as long as you want it to.

6. You can have chocolate even in front of your mother.

7. If you bite the nuts too hard, chocolate won't mind.

8. Two people of the same sex can have chocolate without being called nasty names.

9. The word "commitment" doesn't scare off chocolate.

10. You can have chocolate on top of your workbench/desk during working hours,without upsetting your co-workers.

11. You can ask a stranger for chocolate without getting your face slapped.

12. You don't get hairs in your mouth with chocolate.

13. With chocolate there's no need to fake it.

14. Chocolate doesn't make you pregnant.

15. You can have chocolate at any time of the month.

16. Good chocolate is easy to find.

17. You can have as many kinds of chocolate as you can handle.

18. You are never too young or old to have chocolate.

19. When you have chocolate it does not keep your neighbours awake.

20. With chocolate size doesn't matter