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TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

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Diddle · 25/05/2005 10:15

Here we go girls, a brand new thread, i was so fed up of paging down over the other 1000 messages.

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Lottielou · 01/06/2005 10:26

Thanx LOL,how wierd. Well I have longish hair so not quite your twin. What colour eyes you got? Out of curiosity(sp?)

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Diddle · 01/06/2005 10:10

lottielou - you're hair looks great, very nice. now you're turning into me, i have brown hair with a side fringe, shoulder length. are you my twin still?

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Lottielou · 01/06/2005 10:02

Morning All!
How is everyone today?
Tabs - So flippin true!
Diddle - Hows you today sweetie?
i had my hair done last night, needed cheering up. I had a very drastic change. I was blonde with the underneath a light brown colour, now i', darlo brown all over apart from flashes of blonde underneath and in my side fringe. Doesn't look like me but a change is all good and everyone has commented on how great it look so it's made me all cheery today. Feels like today is gonna be a good one!

Xena · 01/06/2005 09:36

Morning Tabs good analogy (sp?) have a nice day off.
Diddle I feel better last night had a few too many glasses of wine and went of on one about how unfair it is. But in general I'm trying not to over analise everything. I think I told you all before about the fact that I always wanted small gaps between the DC's but I have decided not to worry to much and stop fretting about it. The younger sister I mentioned yesterday is closet in age to me than my older sister and brother but i get on with her least

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Diddle · 01/06/2005 09:21

lucky you, wish i had a day off.
Got 4 kids today and another 3 coming later on when some of the early ones go home. i did manage to get a lie in this morning though as my first one arrived at 8.15, which is late compared to normal.

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Diddle · 01/06/2005 08:46

so true

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Tabs · 01/06/2005 08:41

I'm good thanks Diddle. Was supposed to be working a half day today, but got a call to say that the guy I'm supposed to be training is off sick, so I can have a nice easy day and sort out some admin and tidy the house instead.

Thought I'd dig out some humour to put a smile on your faces this morning. It's an old one but hopefully you won't have all seen it before.

Love vs Lust vs Marriage

LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room.
LUST - When your tongues meet across a crowded room.
MARRIAGE - When you try to lose your spouse in a crowded room.

LOVE - When intercourse is called "making love."'
LUST - When intercourse is called "screwing."
MARRIAGE - When intercourse is a town in Pennsylvania.

LOVE - When you argue over how many children to have.
LUST - When you argue over who gets the wet spot.
MARRIAGE - When you argue over whose idea it was to have kids.

LOVE - When you share everything you own.
LUST - When you steal everything they own.
MARRIAGE - When the bank owns everything.

LOVE - When it doesn't matter if you don't climax.
LUST - When the relationship is over if you don't climax.
MARRIAGE - When ... uh ... what's a climax?

LOVE - When you phone each other just to say, "Hi."
LUST - When you phone each other to pick a hotel room.
MARRIAGE - When you phone each other to bitch about work.

LOVE - When you write poems about your partner.
LUST - When all you write is your phone number.
MARRIAGE - When all you write is checks.

LOVE - When your only concern is for your partner's feelings.
LUST - When your only concern is to find a room with mirrors all around.
MARRIAGE - When you're only concern as to what's on TV.

LOVE - When you are proud to be seen in public with your partner.
LUST - When you only see each other naked.
MARRIAGE - When you never see each other awake.

LOVE - When your heart flutters every time you see them.
LUST - When your groin twitches every time you see them.
MARRIAGE - When your wallet empties every time you see them.

LOVE - When all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel.
LUST - When the song on the radio determines how you do it.
MARRIAGE - When you listen to talk radio.

LOVE - When breaking up is something you try not to think about.
LUST - When staying together is something you try not to think about.
MARRIAGE - When just getting through the day is your only thought.

LOVE - When you're only interested in doing things with your partner.
LUST - When you're only interested in doing things TO your partner.
MARRIAGE - When you're only interested in your golf score.

LOVE- When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and talk.
LUST- When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and have sex.
MARRIAGE- When a rainy day means it's time to clean the basement.

LOVE- You only leave the house to buy coffee and doughnuts.
LUST- You only leave the house to buy condoms and Vaseline.
MARRIAGE- You only leave the house when you're allowed.

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Diddle · 01/06/2005 08:35

how you feeling xena?? a little more chilled? is it getting any easier, or do you still feel quite mad at the world. I think i'm past feeling like that all the tie, it just comes and goes now.

Tabs - Hows it going?? are you ok?

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Tabs · 01/06/2005 08:32

Morning everyone

Xena · 01/06/2005 08:18

Morning Diddle

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Diddle · 01/06/2005 08:08

morning!! hope everyones ok.
maddyd have you tested again today?? any bfp's?

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Diddle · 31/05/2005 17:58

good point xena, i understand, you can't choose your family can you.

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Xena · 31/05/2005 17:22

Gosh just reread mymessage and it sounds abit harsh but the thing is its true I wouldn't have picked her as a sister IYKWIM.
Thats kind of why I want a big family so that my DC's have siblings to choose from cause they are never all going to get on.

Xena · 31/05/2005 17:11

No, no children (other than my own) all this week which is lovely. I OK still annoyed at my sister but at the end of the day I don't really like her that much.

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Diddle · 31/05/2005 17:06

thanks xena, how are you today? are you working??

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Xena · 31/05/2005 16:58

sorry Diddle the I know was to your earlier post

Xena · 31/05/2005 16:57

I know Diddle I hate waiting, the more months the pass the bigger the age gap gets between the eldest and youngest.
Hi wishing chair sorry about your m/c

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Diddle · 31/05/2005 16:55

thanks tabs good positive words will go a long way with me. my is defintly becoming a .

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Tabs · 31/05/2005 16:46

Hello ladies - just popping in to say hi .

Have been having a busy day, so haven't had much time to post.

Hi to wishingchair - I'm very sorry for your loss, and wish you much luck in ttc again.

There's lots of sad faces on your posts today - I hope that these soon turn to .

Diddle and Lottie - sounds like you've BD'ed enough to me. When I got pg last year we only BDed on day of +ve OPK and 2 days later, as DH was only home for the weekend, and that worked, so no writing the month off just yet!

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Diddle · 31/05/2005 16:28

i'm convinced i will get a BFN too, but we really don't know. if i'm away when you test you must text me, i can't guarantee the hotel will have internet access. and i'll text you.

xena you're right it will happen when we leats expect it. i just hope its soon.

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Xena · 31/05/2005 15:54

It will happen when you are least expecting it DD1 was concieved when we had only done 'it' once defo I know cause DH was away for the rest of the time.

Lottielou · 31/05/2005 15:47

Yeah i guess ur right. I will still have that BFN tho. I wud put money on it!

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Diddle · 31/05/2005 15:29

well i was much the same only thursday and sunday. thats ok, your DP swimmers can last inside you for upto 72 hours so plenty of time for them to find that egg, and you know it only takes one. stay positive. we might be lucky. I think you're doing what i am and not letting yourself get your hopes up. not a bad thing.
If its meant to happen then it will.

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Lottielou · 31/05/2005 15:09

friday and sunday

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Diddle · 31/05/2005 14:25

sounds like you're not really ok. dare i ask when you bd'd.

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