TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

Well as soon as the bleeding stopped I thought that we should get on with it, but then a couple of days later i was bleeding again so I decided that maybe it would be easier just to go on the pill for a month and get af back to be regualar. then the next month we will TTC.

Thanks Xena, At least i know im not going mad then if someone else feels the same. Have you been trying at all or are you waiting?

Morning all.

MaddyD IKWYM I said to my DH last night that my body still thinks its pg but there can't be any way I am. My boobs feel heavy and sore which would normally be the first sign I'm pg.

Morning everyone. Hope you are all ok and well and still bding and still mad as hatters.

Ive been really down lateley and very tearfull so stayed away. I still havnt had my af yet, now 50 days since d&c and i feel awful emotionally, its just like i cant move on and try again till it comes. Have spoken to docter and he said its fine to start trying now as i will still be ovulating but he reckons i will have quite a bad af any time now unless i get pregnant before hand. So nothing i didnt know already really. My boobs feel like they have been knifed this morning but i tested a few days a go and still neg so it must be my imagination.

My rose is so full of buds and is going to look beautifull when it flowers. I reckon the nexy brst of sunshine will do it

Sorry to hear that. I suffer from and up and down AF as well, although not as bad as yours. I didn't know I was pg for a while as I had skipped a AF just before. I was on holiday so was over indulging on everything till I got home and realised I was pg. Three weeks later it was all over. Glad to hear that DC's are possible though, keep trying and it'll happen again for you.

Diddle your link that you gave me said that you could go on straight after a m/c. Have tried to get an appointment with my g.p. but not having much luck

Strike I don't know if youv'e read down the thread but I have 3 other DC's 7,3 and 10.5mths 3/4 of my pgs were concieved immediatly after coming of the pill. I think that its something to do with my PCOS that I have really irregular periods but the pill regulates them. The one time we ttc when we had been using other contraception it took 10mths to conceive, so although a huge bit of me wanted to try again straight away I think that my periods wouldn't be regular so it might be quicker to be on the pill for a month and then try again then so yesterday I started on the pill again

Family and DH upset but optimistic for next time. Thanks for uplifting stories, that's why I have been glued to this website for days, you are all so supportive of each other, it must be a real help!

Xena, I waited to have my erpc cause I thought I could handle letting things happen, but it was much tougher than I thought. Are you ttc again now?

First m/s. Getting used to the idea that I'm not pg anymore. Like someone taking away the best xmas present ever. But hopeful about ttc again. Just wish I didn't have to wait, but it's best not to have it happen again if I can help it I guess. Glad to have found you all! Good luck with the multi-testing!

Hi Strike sorry to hear of your m/c mine was the 18/5 although I had my ERPC abit quicker as it was the next day.
Lottielou sorry your having a bad day xxxxx How many AF's have you had since the M/C?

Hello there, new to all this but this seem the most relevant (and frankly slightly mad!) thread to me.

Age - 28
DH - 35
Living in west London
No Children Yet
m/c - Missed m/c 23th May at 10/12 weeks (baby about 7 weeks)

Had my ERPC on Thursday and am just waiting for my first AF till I can try again. It'd be good to share some of the fear of trying again with those who are doing it to. Sorry to waffle on, I don't normally!

Thanks Diddle!
I hope she does get banished but you know when you just 'have a feeling'! We shall see.
I had a couple days off but not really enough. I cant wait to go and put my feet up, it really is so peaceful there and there are some lovely walks down country lanes that i cud walk forever!
I am just feeling low, i'll be allright tomo! I'll be even better if the sun comes out!
How are you anyway? x

Well i wont be testing at all, i wont need to. AF will prob come smack on time so no need to waste money on tests for me.
I am so fed up today. Was in a great mood this morning but it's kinda took a great plummit downhill as the day has gone on.
I have a crappy headache, it's like a weather headache if that makes sense. I always get them with bad weather. so just had to take some tablets.
I was supposed to be going for a run after work but as it's positivley p*ssing it down, i dont fancy catching a chill so there goes my stress relief outta the window.
I have one more day at work then i can go and chill out in Norfolk, i tell ya not a moment too soon either!
I feel so het up, i hate feeling like this, feels like i cud burst into tears at any point and haven't even got a valid reason!
Arghhhhh
Apologies for sounding so melodramatic!(sp)