TTC after a Miscarriage - no 2, let the fun begin!!!!

tuesday! diddle, i will wait until weds morn if you like and we can all test together!thats if af doesnt rear her ugly head in the meantime, trouble ismy boobs are really tender but it could be pre-menstrual symptons, i guess.

ive just realised im 10dpo, when should i test???

Hi Diddle

Managed to resist as I think I wouldn't show positive yet....10 DPO today.

No signs of af yet or no signs of p/g.

This waiting drives me bonkers! Going to have a drive to Matlock with ds and dh today to take my mind off things. Got a new car on Weds so going to burn some rubber!!!

How are you feeling? What cd are you? I think you are further on in cycle than me but we ovulated same day.

When are u going to TEST???

thankgoodness!

Then we're definitely normal

im afraid i do lurk on the aug thread and torture myself with what might have been.

Thanks all for your support! Greatly appreciated.
Humphreys- Just got out of hosp on Wednesday after having to have 2nd d&c (had retained products which became infected). Also had numerous positive pg tests which could've been due to the retainment or ectopic (would'nt have been a healthy, normal pg due to infection and pain etc). Had to have another hormone test on Friday and took a pg test which was still postive so something's showing pg hormones (also still in pain) Hence have to wait until Tuesday when blood results come back.
Xena,Diddle- I know exactly what you mean about the Nov thread. I go back because I miss some of the girls but so hard not to imagine what we'd be like at that stage.
Space- Your feelings are totally understandable! Never agreed that a baby "fixes" problems. If there's probs there then a baby will only magnify them.

Morning ladies

Very busy on here today.

HellKat-thank you for your comforting words at such a difficult time. Will be thinking of you on Tuesday. Why do you suspect something is wrong and eptopic in particular? Fingers and toes crossed that you don't have to go through it all again.

Lottielou- are you mad doing all this running? I am currently having a chocolate overload and I don't normally eat chocolate. Have also realised that I can hit the wine and sherry bottles again. I will give it another week and then it is back on the Weight Watchers diet. I am eating more now than when I was pregnant.

Does anyone know how soon after a MC should you get your proper AF (not that I'm desperate to try again or anything!).

Well, the ironing is calling so must go.

Love and hugs to everyone x

tabs and xena thankyou, ive supported this person through a lot but give her , her due shewasgreat when i lost my baby, but i dont feel i can ring her with the old congrats.

Tabs advise is good I find it very hard to support people unconditionally which is a big flaw in my character. I can understand when people make wrong descisions its just when they do it time and time again going against people who care for thems advice IYKWIM. One of my sisters is like this and I find her v difficult especially as she goes against her DH's wishes as well.

Thanks Tabs will be a techy before you know it.

Spacecadet I'm sure I know who you are talking about and I feel very cross at her as well. (If i am correct in who I think it is) What the hell is she playing at?? If she and her DC haven't gone through enough Why would you want to put another child into that situation

Hi Spacecadet. I don't think that anyone will flame you for feeling like this. I strongly believe that the reason for bringing a child into the world should be that you are in a loving relationship and want to celebrate that, not that you are in a bad relationship and think that a baby will 'fix' it.

Although she may find it hard to understand, it probably is best that you don't ring her whilst you feel unable to be supportive. She will obviously need people around her who will support her unconditionally, and you quite understandably don't feel able to do that at the moment.

It's also quite natural to be jealous of anyone who's pregnant, whether they are you're friend or not, but especially hard when you know that you are in a better position to raise a child than the mother to be, and want a child far more and for the right reasons.

Hugs to you.

Xena - you can also get a blackberry, which a cross between a PDA and a phone. It's very good for receiving e-mails (they automatically arrive, whereas with a lot of phone/PDAs you have to actually go online to retrieve them), but is a little bulky for holding to your ear like a phone. Of course if you use a hands free kit then that doesn't really matter.

I think the O2 XDAII also looks quite good as a combination phone/PDA, but the O2 signal isn't as good in our area, as we really are in the middle of nowhere!

sorry havent been on for a while, have had another mumsnetter, Mummytosteven, staying, so been really busy!, actually though, feel a bit low....someone i know, who is deeply depressed and struggling to cope with her children, who is in an unhappy relationship is preg again..i know it was deliberate i thinbk she thinks that a new baby will take all her probs away...i cant help feeliong angry with her and , is this normal?? i dont want to feel like this,, but i cant bring myself to ring her..im such a bad friend..trouble is ive bent over backwards to help her and her situation is very complex, i told her some months ago before i lost eve that another baby was a bad idea, shes always saying how miserable and isolated she is, she doesnt drive and relies on on her dp for everything,.god i must snap out of it, i sound really spiteful, trouble is the relationship is technically dead in the water, its not fair to bring another child into that, god everyone will flame me now, feel so , would have felt like thisregardless of my own situation anyway...rant over!

Diddle one of my friends has a little computer and a mobile like mine that has a blue bit and he was showing me his emails while we were out.

Thanks Tabs I am trying to broaden my knowledge of all things computery

Morning All!

Xena - PDA is personal digital assistant (I think!). Did try to get on and tell you all last night, but had broadband problems (again ) so wasn't able to post!

Welcome to Hellkat - sounds like you're having a rough time of it atm. Really hope Tues brings some good news for you.

Lottielou is the RFL the womens only race? My sister and niece are doing it. I get to look after her 3 DS's (including the monsterous twins )

Hello Hellkat I'm so sorry for what you are going through I'm glad to see you are going to join us on this thread though I miss the Nov thread and sometimes I torture myself in reading the parts when I was still pg. Hopefully we will all be back on the antenatal boards sonn.
Hope the rest of your weekend is restfull.

Diddle was does PDA stand for Personal ???
Can you access mumsnet from it?

Morning All!
Hi Hellkat, good to see you! Hope Tues goes well for you!
Diddle - I have to be running a lot as the race for lofe is in less than 2 weeks for me so i need all the practice i can get. Speaking of which am just about to start limbering up for my morning run, was hoping to of been and done it by now but DP was fast asleep.
Hope you all have lovely day, i will be staying at home (well at my gparents) today so will pop in a and out to check on you all!
Keep smiling, can feel some BFP's comming on very soon. x