morning ladies, yet again am supposed to be working while ds asleep but have been catching up with mn instead, oh well!
Blue- dress sounds amazing, i should go for it, bugger the cost, we all deserve nice dresses!
Gracie and Annie, hope all goes well today
Sabs- you look lovely!
Neeko, am feeling more positive today, watched Oldest Mums programme ! Try not to fret about what your friend told you A) it doesn't mean it will be anything serious and B) it doesn't mean it will happen to you. Take care and do something nice to take your mind of it (eating chocolate and watching daft daytime telly does it for me!). Just read that back - i sound so bossy! Not meant to be- was trying to be reassuring! Just take care
Hoping- hope your cats are ok, you're so lucky to have kittens, I have three cats all mad! My mum is getting a cat from a rescue centre this weekend as hers recently died. it also has three kitten, I'm trying to convince her to have one of the kittens too!
MLS at bollocks, ds says something that sounds like 'shit', could be anything but am hoping he doesn't decide to shout it in asda!
Barbie- please, please send us some pics!
Budha,- you have posted on here under your new name. Hope you're ok.
On the 'Older Mothers' thing- i was surprised by the mixed emotions I had towrds it! In India it didn't seem so bad- the cultural pressures to have a family are huge but more importantly their society is structured for support and clearly the child was part of a community that would naturally turn to its care should anything happen to the mother (mind you didn't think much of mum having to work in the fields at 70, while dad seemed to sit around!). However, the UK lady who was 72 just seemed selfish and at the very least misguided in her motivation, i wanted to scream at her 'you made a choice to pursue a career, you're educated and informed, you knew it wouldn't be a good idea to leave it to your fifies! and after 5 tries at IVF isn't your body telling you something!'. The American mum seemed young at 54 in comparison and i just felt so sad for the Spanish lady, i read somewhere that the fertility drug had caused her tumor, that is so tragic.
Anyway, really must do some work!